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  • EP 114: What Differeniates Nate & Steve from Parent Coaches?!
    Sep 15 2025

    PARENTS: Please join us at a special LINKEDIN Live event just for you. "RADICALLY HONEST" are the words we'll be wrestling with! 30 minutes, short and sweet, 100% complimentary, and you, a Most Valuable Parent will be one of the stars! Click the link below to register!

    RADICALLY HONEST, September 22nd @ 7:00 pm MST

    Hey parents—what if the very thing you’re trying to fix in your teen isn’t actually the problem? In this episode, Steve and I dive into a powerful shift: moving from parenting strategies that control to coaching strategies that connect. We share how coaching the person, not the problem, can unlock massive growth—for your teen and for you.

    Every breakthrough starts with honesty—and in this episode, we show you why. We break down how our nique hybrid coaching model transforms family dynamics, fosters connection, and gets measurable results. Whether your teen is an athlete, performer, or just trying to find their path, this is where real growth begins...with you!

    The Timestamps!

    00:00 Understanding the Unique Approach to Parenting Coaching

    03:13 The Power of Elevating Parents

    05:59 The Importance of Honesty and Clarity

    08:47 The Hybrid Coaching Model

    11:41 Measurable Growth and Family Dynamics

    14:03 Join us on our September 22nd LinkedIn LIVE!

    Takeaways

    -We're not here to fix problems.

    -All progress starts with the truth--RADICAL HONESTY required!

    -We coach the parent and the teen athlete/performer, not the problem.

    -When you focus on getting better, everything gets better.

    -Our hybrid coaching model unleashes the multiplier effect.

    -A proven method gives us coaching confidence.

    -You can make it happen if you're willing to get to the truth.

    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

    New episodes drop every MONDAY.

    We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast!

    We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us: LinkedIn Steve Galley

    LinkedIn LIVE September 22nd, 2025

    And, there’s more–there always isn't there?! If you’ve read this far you probably are totally nerdy and giddy about helping teen athletes and performers to excel. Click here to pick up our 100% Free Thinking Tool: The Question Only Conversation. Give it a whirl today and watch your relationship with your teen athlete or performer trend upward!

    -Nate & Steve

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    16 min
  • EP 113: PARENTS--Let's Get RADICALLY HONEST!
    Sep 9 2025

    PARENTS--Let’s get radical! Let's get honest! We might as well get RADICALLY HONEST!! Traditional parenting often breaks down when your teen starts to compete or perform at a higher level. What they need isn't more control, it's a shift from your best parenting to skilled coaching. We dive into what radical honesty really means, how to reset communication, and why your own growth as a parent is the key to unlocking theirs. It’s not about pushing harder—it’s about connecting deeper. Let's go MVP's!!

    You're cordially invited to join us on a LinkedIn LIVE on Monday, September 22nd at 7-7:30 pm MST. It will be informative, interactive, and it's 100% free (really). And did I mention it will be a lot of fun?! See you there! NATE & STEVE: LINKEDIN LIVE--The RADICALLY HONEST Conversation for crazy busy high achieving parents of high performing teen athletes!

    The Timestamps

    00:00 The Need for Coaching Beyond Youth

    03:20 Parental Growth and Connection

    06:16 The Impact of Expectations on Performance

    08:35 The Importance of Radical Honesty

    10:48 Transitioning from Parenting to Coaching

    12:45 Invitation to the PRIME your MIND for PARENTS LinkedIn LIVE

    Takeaways

    -Coaching is essential for both teens and parents.

    -Parents often stop seeking coaching as they grow older.

    -The demands of parenting require continuous personal growth.

    -Parental growth can significantly impact teen performance.

    -Controlling the controllables is crucial for parents.

    -Teens often struggle with external expectations.

    -Radical honesty is the foundation for growth.

    -Shifting from parenting to coaching reduces conflict.

    -Parents should seek coaching to better support their teens.

    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

    New episodes drop every MONDAY.

    We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast!

    We're also hang out and spread our message on LinkedIn. Please follow us and engage with us there: LinkedIn Steve Galley

    And, there’s more–there always isn't there?! If you’ve read this far you probably are totally nerdy and giddy about helping teen athletes and performers to excel. Click here to pick up our 100% Free Thinking Tool: The Question Only Conversation. Give it a whirl today and watch your relationship with your teen athlete or performer trend upward!

    -Nate & Steve

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    14 min
  • EP 112: PARENTS: We'll Fight You Over THIS!
    Sep 1 2025

    "Nobody needs coaching" (say it in a bit of a whiny voice for added effect). While that is a common "hot take" out there in the coaching space, we 100% go against the grain on that statement. Those are fightin' words to us!

    After 55ish combined years of coaching, parenting, and marital (mostly) bliss...we strongly contend that while everyone may not want a coach or aspire to be coached, Everyone Needs a Coach!! Tune in to this short but hard punching episode where we will present the arguments against the "nobody needs coaching" statement and throw a few haymakers in presenting our case for the necessity of coaching.

    Are you ready for coaching?!

    Takeaways

    -Everyone needs a coach to help them grow.

    -Individual athletes often have coaches to address blind spots.

    -A great coach acts as your externalized prefrontal cortex.

    -Coaching accelerates the rate of improvement. Go further, faster with coaching!

    -Parents should shift from parenting to coaching their teens.

    -Coaching is not just for professional athletes; it's for everyone.

    -Coaching helps in elevating all areas of life consistently.

    -EVERYONE NEEDS A COACH.

    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

    New episodes drop every MONDAY.

    We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast!

    We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us: LinkedIn Steve Galley

    And, there’s more–there always isn't there?! If you’ve read this far you probably are totally nerdy and giddy about helping teen athletes and performers to excel. Click here to pick up our 100% Free Thinking Tool: The Question Only Conversation. Give it a whirl today and watch your relationship with your teen athlete or performer trend upward!

    -Nate & Steve

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    14 min
  • EP 111: PARENTS--We Want You to Get M.A.D.!
    Aug 26 2025

    Parenting is the hardest job and there's not a close second. So what if you just decided to focus on getting "M.A.D.?!" We do what we do because we want to be M.A.D. 24/7/365 if at all possible. Tune in to find out why being a M.A.D. parent will help you to help your high performing teen to soar! If you model this yourself as a high achieving mom or dad, your teen is likely to become a M.A.D.M.A.N. or M.A.D.W.O.M.A.N. too!

    The Timestamps

    00:00 Exploring the Why Behind Our Actions

    02:58 The Impact of Mentorship on Youth

    05:46 The Joy of Coaching and Making a Difference

    10:58 Creating a Unique Coaching Model

    Takeaways

    -Understanding our motivations can lead to personal growth.

    -Every child needs coaches and mentors outside of their parents.

    -Coaching is about making a difference in lives.

    -The joy of coaching comes from seeing others succeed.

    -Life lessons learned through sports are invaluable.

    -Authentic connections in coaching enhance learning.

    -Parents can elevate their coaching skills for better outcomes.

    -The be mad philosophy emphasizes making a difference.

    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

    New episodes drop every MONDAY.

    We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast!

    We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us: LinkedIn Steve Galley

    And, there’s more–there always isn't there?! If you’ve read this far you probably are totally nerdy and giddy about helping teen athletes and performers to excel. Click here to pick up our 100% Free Thinking Tool: The Question Only Conversation. Give it a whirl today and watch your relationship with your teen athlete or performer trend upward!

    -Nate & Steve

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    14 min
  • EP 110: PARENTS -- Are You In Alignment?
    Aug 19 2025

    Raising high-achieving teens is not about pushing harder—it’s about aligning better. We reveal how you can use coaching strategies that keep your teen motivated, connected, and resilient—even when the inevitable, emotional potholes appear. And teens face dozens of emotional potholes in an average school day. It's easy for them to get out of alignment quickly which in turn can create alignment problems with you as a parent.

    We've faced this pothole/alignment issue as dads, coaches, and teachers. Let's take this whole pothole thing head on and explore some practical solutions that you can implement with your teen right away!

    The Timestamps

    00:00 Understanding Alignment in Relationships

    03:03 Emotional Potholes and Their Impact

    06:00 Navigating Values and Goals

    08:17 The Importance of Check-Ins

    11:07 Closing Thoughts on Alignment

    Takeaways

    -Alignment is crucial in relationships, not just for cars.

    -Teens face bigger and faster emotional swings than parents.

    -Parents and teens often share the same goals but can misalign.

    -Emotional potholes knock teens out of their alignment.

    -Values play a significant role in maintaining alignment with goals.

    -Regular check-ins can help assess emotional states.

    -Parents should focus on relationship value over achievement.

    -Strong connection helps teens get back on track faster.

    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

    New episodes drop every MONDAY.

    We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast!

    We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us: LinkedIn Steve Galley

    And, there’s more–there always isn't there?! If you’ve read this far you probably are totally nerdy and giddy about helping teen athletes and performers to excel. Click here to pick up our 100% Free Thinking Tool: The Question Only Conversation. Give it a whirl today and watch your relationship with your teen athlete or performer trend upward!

    -Nate & Steve

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    13 min
  • EP 109: PARENTS--Are You Confident Enough to Help Your Teens?
    Aug 12 2025

    If you’ve ever felt your heart race while watching your teen compete or perform, you’re not alone. We’ve been there—sitting in the stands, palms sweaty, wondering if I’ve done enough to prepare them for this moment. We've also been a little shaky at times before an crucial conversation or uncomfortable situation.

    Confidence as a parent isn’t something we’re born with—it’s something we intentionally build. In this episode,we use the metaphor of a pre-flight checklist to shifting from "parenting" to “coaching.” You’ll discover how to prepare for high-pressure moments so you can show up calm, ready, and modeling confidence your teen can mirror. Let's go Most Valuable Parents!

    The Timestamps!

    00:00 The Confidence Question

    02:31 Building Confidence Through Evidence

    05:13 The Role of Systems in Parenting

    08:02 Shifting from Parenting to Coaching

    11:21 Preparing for High-Pressure Moments

    Takeaways

    -Confidence comes from doing and having evidence of success.

    -Build a "pre-flight checklist" to prepare for parenting challenges.

    -Shifting from parenting to coaching can enhance confidence in both parents and teens.

    -High performance habits can help parents feel more confident in their roles.

    -It's important for parents to recognize their own high-pressure moments.

    -Asking great questions can help parents coach teens effectively.

    -Confidence needs to be continuously cultivated.

    -Parents should model preparation for high-pressure situations to their kids.

    -Feeling nervous while watching kids perform is common and can be managed.

    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

    New episodes drop every MONDAY.

    We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast!

    We're also posting valuable content on LinkedIn. Please follow us and connect with us: LinkedIn Steve Galley

    And, there’s more–there always isn't there?! If you’ve read this far you probably are totally nerdy and giddy about helping teen athletes and performers to excel. Click here to pick up our 100% Free Thinking Tool: The Question Only Conversation. Give it a whirl today and watch your relationship with your teen athlete or performer trend upward!

    -Nate & Steve

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    14 min
  • EP 108: PARENTAL INFLUENCE -- A High Stakes Job!
    Aug 5 2025

    What is the most important relationship? We've got our answer. Do you have your answer? We won't really fight you over this, but we absolutely, positively believe it is the parent-teen relationship. And...parenting a teen athlete or performer isn’t just another stage of life—it’s a high-stakes job with an expiration date!

    Let's get real about what it takes to win in this short window of time that you get with your high achieving teen. If you're tired of your traditional parenting tactics that fall flat, you’re going to want to hear how coaching can change everything—especially implementing the high performance habit of influence.

    The Timestamps!

    00:00 The Most Important Relationship in the World

    03:26 Identity Development in Adolescence

    06:18 Modeling Behavior and Future Relationships

    09:15 The Role of Influence in Parenting

    12:14 Emotional Regulation and Vulnerability

    13:47 Growth Mindset and Parental Growth

    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

    New episodes drop every MONDAY.

    We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast!

    We also are posting valuable content on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/steve-galley/

    And, there’s more–there always isn't there?! If you’ve read this far you probably are totally nerdy and giddy about helping teen athletes and performers to excel. Click here to pick up our 100% Free Thinking Tool: The Question Only Conversation. Give it a whirl today and watch your relationship with your teen athlete or performer trend upward!

    -Nate & Steve

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    15 min
  • EP 107: PARENTS: Talk Less, Smile More!
    Jul 28 2025

    When your high achieving teen starts tuning you out, it’s a warning sign—not a "drive off the cliff" moment. It’s a chance to upgrade your approach. A welcome chance to shift from parenting to coaching.

    In this commuter-friendly--"I'm too busy to listen to long form podcasts"--conversation, we explore how a traditional parenting strategy fails miserably—and how coaching habits rooted in connection, curiosity, and courage can unlock your teen’s highest potential.

    The Timestamps

    00:00 The Power of Listening in Parenting

    07:49 Influence and Expectations in Child Development

    11:22 Finding Balance: Communication and Connection

    Takeaways

    -Talk less, smile more is a powerful approach to connecting.

    -Listening > lecturing.

    -Influence decreases as parents talk more!

    -Fewer words and better timing can enhance communication.

    -Letting teens sit in uncomfortable emotions can be beneficial.

    -Asking good questions leads to deeper conversations.

    -Parents should avoid giving unsolicited advice.

    Hey there Most Valuable Parents! We are creating a world-class podcast for parents of teen athletes and performers on YouTube. We can also be found on the other usual places you get your podcasts like Apple Podcasts and Spotify.

    New episodes drop every MONDAY.

    We would be most grateful if you would SUBSCRIBE to our YouTube channel where our unique show for parents of teen athletes and performers resides. The name of our podcast is the same name as our YouTube channel: The STOP PARENTING & START COACHING Podcast!

    We'd be even more grateful (if that's possible) if you would like, review, comment or SHARE an episode wherever you find us. This helps us to become more visible to other Most Valuable Parents like yourselves--thank you!

    And, there’s more–there always isn't there?! If you’ve read this far you probably are totally nerdy and giddy about helping teen athletes and performers to excel. Click here to pick up our 100% Free Thinking Tool: The Question Only Conversation. Give it a whirl today and watch your relationship with your teen athlete or performer trend upward!

    -Nate & Steve

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    16 min