In this revealing and witty episode of Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle explore the world of sissification — a kink that blends elements of feminization, role-play, and erotic power dynamics. With their trademark mix of curiosity, humour, and non-judgement, they unpack where fantasy meets identity, the psychology behind the practice, and how it plays out in both consensual kink and lifestyle choices.

From the allure of silky lingerie and stockings to the deeper emotional and psychological layers, the hosts cover safety, consent, and the importance of clear boundaries in sissification play. They also highlight popular online communities where enthusiasts connect, share, and learn — including FetLife’s Sissification & Feminization groups, SissyKiss, and Reddit’s r/sissies — showing how these spaces help people explore and express their kink in a supportive environment.

Whether you’re a curious newbie, an experienced player, or simply fascinated by the psychology of transformation, this episode offers insight, empathy, and a few laughs along the way.

I Wanna Be Your Panda

Furries, fluff, and full-on fantasies — in this episode, co-hosts Tom and Isabelle go whiskers-first into the furry fandom, uncovering what makes it such a fascinating and often misunderstood corner of the kink world.

From playful cosplay and anthropomorphic crushes to full-blown fursuiting and fursonas, we explore the blend of identity, community, kink, and comfort that defines furry culture. Why do some people feel most like themselves in a tail and paws? Where does the erotic element come in — and where does it absolutely not?

What’s the difference between being a furry and being into animal roleplay?

We look at the history of the fandom, its explosive growth online, and how mainstream media continues to get it mostly wrong — with a healthy dose of humour, curiosity, and cuddly panda references.

Whether you're a seasoned fur-tastic explorer, curious newcomer, or someone who just wants to know why Tom wrote a whole ska-reggae song about being a ⁠PANDA⁠… this episode is for you.References & Communities Mentioned:

• FurScience.com – Ongoing academic research project dedicated to studying the furry fandom

• FurAffinity.net – One of the largest online art and community platforms for furries

• r/furry on Reddit – A bustling online community where thousands of furries share, discuss, and connect

• Psychology Today: What the Furry? – Dr. Courtney Plante explores the psychology of furries and the media myths

• Anthrocon – One of the largest furry conventions in the world

• BBC: Inside the World of Furries – A documentary look at furry life and love

We’re kicking off Season 10 with a bang — or should we say, a boot — as Tom and Isabelle slide into the world of foot and stocking kinks. From silky nylons to wrinkled soles, this episode toes the line between fascination and fetish, with the usual mix of humour, warmth, and open-minded curiosity you’ve come to love from Talking Kinky.

Why are feet such a common turn-on? What is it about a pair of sheer stockings or a cheeky arch that stirs up desire? And how does one navigate foot play, from massage to worship, in a way that feels sexy, safe, and consensual?

Tom shares a rather memorable moment with a pair of hold ups, while Isabelle offers insight into why feet and legs are such a rich landscape of erotic potential.

Whether you're a seasoned sole-lover or just foot-curious, this episode is a playful and respectful journey into one of the most popular (and misunderstood) kinks around.

In this bold and revealing episode of Talking Kinky, Isabelle and Tom sit down with the extraordinary Colin Richards – intimacy coach, somatic sex engineer, and the man behind some of London’s exclusive sex parties.

In this thought-provoking episode, Tom and Isabelle discuss the state of sex education — or the lack thereof. They explore how porn has become the default sex educator for many young people, why pleasure, consent, and diversity are still missing from mainstream curriculums, and what a truly inclusive and empowering sex education could look like.

With humor, honesty, and a healthy dose of frustration, your favourite co-hosts examine the long-term effects of abstinence-only teaching, the role of parents, and how the digital age is shaping sexual understanding (and misunderstanding). They also share real-world examples, including the moving story of a rape survivor, to illustrate the importance of comprehensive and compassionate sex education.

Trigger Warning: This episode contains discussion of sexual assault, including the mention of a rape survivor’s experience, which some listeners may find distressing.

This week on Talking Kinky, Tom and Isabelle are diving lock-first into the world of chastity – where pleasure, power, and patience collide. Whether you're curious about caging the cock, padlocking panties, or just want to understand why anyone would voluntarily hand over the key to their orgasms… this one’s for you.

We explore the history of chastity devices (yes, they go way back), the psychology behind denial and control, and the kinky thrill of being locked up—with or without release. From long-distance key-holding dynamics to orgasm control in established couples, we're unpacking how chastity can be both torturous and tantalising.

Plus, we chat about the different types of devices for men and women, safety tips, hygiene (yes, please), and how to negotiate a chastity scene with trust and communication at the core.

Expect laughs, confessions, and more than one “blue ball” reference as we tease out all the juicy details of this fascinating kink. Who’s holding the key to your pleasure?

This week, Tom and Isabelle are getting handy as they dive into the wonderfully wide world of masturbation. From solo pleasure to mutual play, from women’s clit-orientated routines to penetrative fantasies, this episode unzips the myths, mess, and magic of self-touch.

Whether you're into edging, exploring your G-spot with toys, or jacking off with an audience on Chaturbate, this one’s for you. The duo discuss the rise of video-led guided masturbation, group play, kinkier turn-ons like being told what to do, and even some good old-fashioned 'me time' with your favourite imagination.

With humour, heat, and hard truths, they’ll cover:

• Clitoral, penetrative, and combo orgasms for women

• The psychological power of mutual masturbation

• Masturbation in long-term relationships

• Masturbation as kink (yes, watching counts)

• And why it’s totally normal to talk about it

Plus, your listener confessions, the latest research on who’s doing what and how often, and Tom’s attempt to explain “ruined orgasms” without blushing.

So dim the lights, charge your toys, and get ready to embrace the most loyal lover you’ll ever have: yourself.

Are you gagging for some pleasure? Well this week, Tom and Isabelle clamp down on one of kink’s more intense — and often misunderstood — turn-ons: gagging. But not just one kind. Oh no, they're looking closely at two sides of the gagging coin — the physical act of being gagged with toys, tools, or hands, and the visceral reaction of gagging from being made to swallow... things or stuff .

From ball gags and bite bars to forced oral scenarios and the psychology of submission, your favourite co-hosts explore the delicate dance between power, breath, and pleasure. Whether it’s about sensory deprivation, drool, dominance, or deep-throat thrills, they’re talking safety, satisfaction, and starter tips for anyone curious about losing control in the best possible way.

Plus, Tom reads a particularly juicy passage from Exhibit by RO Kwon — a novel so drenched in desire and psychological surrender it practically begs to be discussed. And yes, he read it cover to cover on a plane to and from New York while trying not to blush too hard at 30,000 feet.

With their usual humour, honesty, and a mouthful of research, Tom and Isabelle take listeners into the world of gagging kinks — where silence is golden, and drool is definitely in fashion.