Host: Kate Brownfield, Certified Whole Person & ADHD Parent Coach Guest: Aimee Kaufman, author of No One Else I’d Rather Be: Loving a Daughter with ADHD for Who She Is

In this profoundly moving conversation, Kate sits down with author and parent Aimee Kaufman to talk about her memoir and the 10-year journey to her daughter’s ADHD diagnosis. Aimee shares the hard moments, misunderstandings, criticism, school challenges, and the hope that carried her family forward: unconditional love, advocacy, and support that matched her daughter’s needs over time.

If you’re a parent who feels overwhelmed, second-guessed, or unsure how to keep leading with love during tough seasons, Aimee’s story will encourage and steady you.

• A long road to clarity: Why it took 10 years to get an ADHD diagnosis—and what finally helped.

• When behavior says “I can’t,” not “I won’t”: How Aimee learned to interpret her daughter’s words and actions.

• Unconditional love in the messy middle: Loving firmly and fully when emotions run high.

• School Support That Actually Helps: 504 Accommodations, When They’re Ignored, and How to Advocate.

• Medication as one tool (not the only one): The trial-and-error reality and finding the right fit over time.

• Siblings & family dynamics: Moving from rivalry and rupture to healing and closeness.

• Parent grounding: How Aimee stayed steady—community, practical support, and protecting her own well-being.

• A hopeful ending: From crisis to connection—college, career, marriage, and a growing family.

• Aimee Kaufman’s Book: No One Else I’d Rather Be: Loving a Daughter with ADHD for Who She Is — https://www.simonandschuster.com/books/No-One-Else-Id-Rather-Be/Aimee-Kaufman/9781647428280

I’m Kate Brownfield, Certified Whole Person & ADHD Parent Coach, author of How We Roll: A Parent’s Journey Raising a Child with ADHD, and host of The ADHD Kids Can Thrive Podcast. It’s honestly my pleasure to help you understand ADHD more deeply—because every child with ADHD is unique, and so are their strengths and struggles.

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My guest is Ryan Wexelblatt of ADHDDude.com. He is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified School Social Worker, and ADHD Certified Clinical Services Provider. Ryan trains parents to help their children build skills, improve behavior, and, most importantly, feel better about themselves. He is also a Father to a son with ADHD & learning differences.

Ryan created ADHD Dude because he realized that most families of kids with ADHD were getting ineffective help, losing valuable time, and spending a lot of money with little results.

Learn more at https://adhddude.com/

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Topics covered in this episode:

-Ryan’s personal story of work and parenting

- Greatest pain points for parents of ADHD kids

- How can parents work with their ADHD child?

- At what stage does CBT work for an ADHD child?

- How can parents step into their parental authority?

- How does ADHD affect kids socially?

- ADHD Dude Camp

- Ryan’s words of wisdom for parents of ADHD kids.

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My guest today is Kristen McNeely, a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and Board Certified Behavior Analyst. Kristen serves as a Behavior Specialist in a local school district and runs a private practice where she supports parents of children navigating behavior challenges and anxiety.

I invited Kristen to the podcast to unpack a big topic: how parents can support children who have both ADHD and anxiety—a combination that often gets misunderstood or overlooked.

You can learn more about Kristen and her work at 👉 www.kristenmcneely.com

In this episode, we explore:

• What anxiety looks like in a child with ADHD

• Strategies to help anxious ADHD kids start and complete tasks

• How to support academic demands without increasing anxiety

• What to do when your school district isn’t offering support

• How to navigate social-emotional challenges in school

• What to do when school refusal starts showing up

• How to build emotional coping skills and motivation

• Kristen’s words of wisdom for parenting through it all

This episode is brought to you by Kate at ADHDKidsCanThrive.com 💛 Please listen, share, and let us know what resonates with you!

Learn kind and practical tips to support your ADHD child by downloading the First 3 Chapters of my book for FREE here: https://bit.ly/first_3chapters

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Join host Kate Brownfield from ADHDKidsCanThrive.com in an enlightening conversation with Cassie Korbfort, MSEd, a Child Development Specialist and early childhood special education expert at the Center for Developing Minds (Devminds.com). This episode delves into the complexities of raising and educating neurodiverse children in preschool and elementary settings. Discover valuable insights into how parents can effectively advocate for their children, the importance of teamwork with educators, and the impact of external factors like COVID and screen time on child development.

Kate and Cassie discuss common challenges parents face, such as handling behavioral issues in school, addressing the stigma attached to neurodiversity, and the significance of allowing children to overcome small challenges for long-term success. This episode serves as a helpful guide for parents aiming to support their children's unique learning needs while fostering an environment of growth and resilience both at home and in school.

Thank you for listening!

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In this episode, Kate Brownfield sits down with Greg Burnham, MS, LMFT, and clinical director at Gembaboise.com, to discuss how alternative paths like gap programs can help young adults build confidence, develop life skills, and create a future that truly fits them.

Greg shares valuable knowledge on the different levels of "stuckness" young adults experience, the role parents play in this journey, and how to foster independence without forcing a rigid path. If you're a parent looking for alternative ways to support your child’s transition into adulthood, this episode is full of actionable advice.

• How can you recognize when a young adult is “stuck” and what level of support they need?
• Traditional college paths aren’t the best fit for every neurodivergent young adult.
• The benefits of gap programs in building confidence, independence, and real-world skills.
• How parents can guide their child’s journey without unintentionally holding them back.
• Focusing on the process, rather than just the outcome, leads to long-term success.

[01:17] - Meet Greg Burnham

[02:13] - What is a gap year?

[04:56] - How parents can help (or hinder) their child’s path to independence.

[07:41] - Why ADHD young adults struggle with life after high school and how to support them.

[13:26] - Identifying different levels of "stuckness" and knowing when intervention is needed.

[18:05] - What to do if your child fails in college and why it’s not the end of the world.

[20:09] - How gap programs provide structure and support.

[23:36] - Understanding the costs and insurance options.

[25:36] - How Gemba Boise helps young adults build confidence, independence, and community.

[28:12] - Why personalized paths lead to sustainable growth.

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gburnham/

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In this episode of ADHD Kids Can Thrive, host Kate Brownfield speaks with Dr. Tamara Rosier, an ADHD expert, coach, and author, about parenting children with ADHD and how ADHD affects family dynamics.

Dr. Rosier shares her knowledge from her book "You, Me, and Our ADHD Family", immersing into the emotional challenges, parenting strategies, and key mindset shifts needed to create a healthier family environment. From dealing with big emotions to setting boundaries and building resilience, this conversation is packed with valuable guidance for parents dealing with the ADHD journey.

• Why punishments and rewards don’t work for children with ADHD and what does.
• The "Pool Metaphor" for handling emotional outbursts effectively.
• How to debrief with your child after a meltdown to teach accountability and resilience.
• Strategies for avoiding parent burnout while raising ADHD children.
• The importance of focusing on character development over daily struggles.

[00:39] - Welcome & Introduction to Guest, Dr. Tamara Rosier

[02:47] - Why Dr. Rosier Wrote "You, Me, and Our ADHD Family"

[03:42] - How ADHD Traits Impact Family Dynamics

[06:27] - Why Parents Must Understand Their Own ADHD First

[10:37] - Managing Big Emotions & Defiant Behaviors in ADHD Kids

[12:42] - The "Pool Metaphor" for Emotional Regulation

[16:31] - How to Keep ADHD Kids Safe During Emotional Outbursts

[22:13] - Do Consequences Work? What ADHD Kids Actually Learn

[26:03] - Preventing Parent Burnout & Managing Energy Levels

[28:05] - Focusing on Character Development Over Perfection

[32:12] - Final Reflections

Connect with Dr. Tamara Rosier:

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tamara-rosier-phd/

• Books 1: https://www.amazon.com/Your-Brains-Not-Broken-Strategies/dp/0800739426
• Book 2: https://www.amazon.com/You-Our-ADHD-Family-Relationships/dp/0800745353
• Website: https://adhdcenterofwestmichigan.com/

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In this episode of The ADHD Kids Can Thrive, host Kate Brownfield speaks with Sarah Templeton, a UK-based ADHD therapist, author, and advocate. Sarah shares her powerful journey of being diagnosed with ADHD at 51 and how it led her to advocate for young offenders with undiagnosed ADHD. She explains deeply the ADHD to prison pipeline, the impact of undiagnosed conditions, and why early intervention is critical.

Sarah is a fierce advocate for ADHD awareness in the criminal justice system, working to change policies at the highest levels. Her latest book, How Not to Damage Your ADHD Adolescent, provides vital knowledge for parents to guide their teens toward a positive future. Whether you’re a parent, educator, or someone with ADHD, this episode is packed with eye opening discussions on ADHD’s role in impulsivity, addiction, self-esteem, and crime.

• How undiagnosed ADHD contributes to criminal behavior and addiction.
• The importance of early ADHD diagnosis and medication in preventing trouble.
• The link between ADHD, impulsivity, and the criminal justice system.
• Why the right environment, support, and activities can steer ADHD teens in the right direction.
• How parents can advocate for their ADHD teens and prevent negative outcomes.

Connect with Sarah Templeton:

• LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sarah-templeton-headstuff-adhd/?originalSubdomain=uk
• Website: https://www.headstuffadhdtherapy.co.uk/
• Book: https://www.amazon.com/HOW-DAMAGE-YOUR-ADHD-ADOLESCENT/dp/1739958837

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In this episode, Kate Brownfield interviews Judy Delaware, a pediatric occupational therapist, feeding specialist, and co-founder of Feeding Littles, along with Julie Abrams, an occupational therapist and ADHD parent coach. They examine the challenges of picky eating in children with ADHD, how neurodiversity impacts eating habits, and practical strategies for helping children build a healthier relationship with food.

Judy shares her expertise on how early intervention, sensory sensitivities, and parental modeling influence children’s eating behaviors. They also discuss mealtime routines, strategies for expanding food variety, and when to seek professional help. Whether you’re a parent struggling with mealtime battles or looking for evidence based strategies to help your child overcome food aversions, this episode is packed with valuable insights.

• How picky eating and ADHD are connected.
• The role of sensory sensitivities and rigid thinking in food choices.
• How early intervention and parental modeling impact eating habits.
• Strategies to introduce new foods without resistance.
• When to seek help from an occupational therapist or feeding specialist.
• How to make mealtimes less stressful for children and parents.

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/judy-delaware-otrl-clc-clipp-9011012a/

Books 1: https://www.amazon.com/Feeding-Littles-Lunches-No-Stress-Everyone/dp/0593797450

Book 2: https://www.amazon.com/Feeding-Littles-Beyond-Baby-Led-Weaning-Friendly-Recipes/dp/0593419243

Website: https://feedinglittles.com/

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