⏱️ Timestamps 0:00 – Introduction: Working in Real Estate With Your Spouse — Can It Really Work? 0:45 – Meet Kelsey Cumberland & Andrew DeMars: A Family-Run Real Estate Business 2:00 – How COVID Changed Everything: From One Agent to a Husband-Wife Team 4:00 – Blurred Lines: Balancing Marriage, Kids & a 24/7 Business 6:15 – Playing to Strengths: Dividing Roles at Home and in the Business 8:30 – Two Personalities, One Presentation: Reading Clients in Real Time 10:45 – The Real Risks of Dual Commission Income & How to Prepare 13:00 – Building a "Family-First" Team (and Why Bigger Isn't Always Better) 15:30 – Collaboration Over Competition: The Power of Office Culture 18:45 – Advice for Couples Thinking About Working Together 22:00 – Communication, Ego & Trust: What Makes It Work (and What Breaks It) 26:00 – Rentals, Relationships & Playing the Long Game 31:00 – Time Boundaries, Shared Calendars & Protecting Date Nights 35:30 – Final Advice: Designing a Business That Supports Family, Not Replaces It

🎙️ Episode Description In this insightful and refreshingly honest episode of The Business of Real Estate Podcast, hosts Lynn Hoffmann and Eric Johnson sit down with Kelsey Cumberland and Andrew DeMars, a husband-and-wife real estate team based out of the Brandt office, to explore what it really takes to build a successful real estate business together — without sacrificing marriage, family, or sanity. From navigating the transition into working side by side during COVID, to managing kids, clients, income volatility, and time boundaries, Kelsey and Andrew pull back the curtain on the realities of blending business and personal life. This episode goes far beyond "team structure" — it's about communication, trust, ego management, and intentional design in both life and business. If you've ever considered working with your spouse, joining a family-based team, or simply want to build a more sustainable real estate career, this conversation is packed with real-world wisdom.

🔑 In This Episode You'll Learn: Why strong communication is non-negotiable when working with your spouse How to divide roles naturally based on strengths (at work and at home) The financial realities — and risks — of dual commission income How shared calendars and time-blocking protect relationships Why collaboration beats competition inside brokerages How rentals and long-term relationships fuel sustainable growth The importance of protecting marriage time, not just business time

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⏱️ Top 10 Timestamps

0:00 – Introduction: Can You Build a Massive Real Estate Business and Have a Life?

2:10 – From Lawn-Cutting at 12 to $500M+ in Sales: Early Lessons in Time & Focus

6:50 – Burnout, Anxiety & the Dark Side of "Success" in Your 20s

9:00 – The Cottage Epiphany: Redefining What Success Actually Means

12:05 – Stepping Out of Production: How Letting Go Changed Everything

15:40 – Working ON the Business vs. IN the Business

19:10 – The Two-Month Test: How to Know If You Truly Have a Business

26:30 – Time Boundaries, Client Expectations & Saying No Without Guilt

33:00 – Why Social Media Doesn't Sell Homes (and What Actually Does)

39:15 – Designing a Real Estate Career Around Life, Family & Freedom

In this powerful and deeply honest episode of The Business of Real Estate Podcast, hosts Lynn Hoffmann and Eric Johnson sit down with Matthew Regan of the Regan Irish & Associates Team to answer a question most agents quietly ask:

👉 Can you build an elite real estate business without burning out your life, relationships, and health? Matthew shares his full journey — from cutting lawns at age 12, to selling over $500M annually, to hitting burnout in his 20s, and ultimately restructuring his business to prioritize freedom, family, and sustainability without sacrificing income.

This episode is a masterclass in time leverage, leadership, delegation, mindset, and real ROI — not just financially, but personally.

🔑 In This Episode You'll Learn:

How burnout shows up even when income is high Why most agents confuse "busy" with "productive"

The real test to know if you own a business or just a job

How to set firm boundaries with clients and protect your time

Why relationships — not marketing — drive long-term success

When to let go of production and trust your team How to design a real estate career around the life you actually want

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⏱️ Top 10 Timestamps

0:00 – Introduction: Grit, Authenticity & The Business of Real Estate

1:02 – John's Evolution as a Realtor & Becoming His True Self

3:15 – Learning to Fire Clients and Protect Mental Energy

5:09 – Delegation, Admins & Letting Go of "Doing It All"

8:25 – The Messy Journey of Hiring the Right Support

9:53 – Becoming "The Rural Hipster" & Moving to Country Life

12:31 – Creative Client Events: Burn Parties, Pigs & Community Fun

13:32 – Facing Kidney Disease: Fear, Vulnerability & Asking for Help

18:14 – The Power of "Unreasonableness" & Refusing the Victim Mindset

27:50 – Mindset, Self-Talk & Surrounding Yourself With the Right People

In this powerful episode of The Business of Real Estate Podcast, hosts Lynn Hoffmann and Eric Johnson sit down with realtor John Gaida for one of the most vulnerable and inspiring conversations yet. John shares his raw journey—from battling hereditary kidney disease and undergoing a life-saving transplant, to rebuilding his life through authenticity, mindset, and unshakeable grit. He opens up about becoming the "rural hipster" realtor, embracing who he truly is, running a business aligned with his values, and refusing to let circumstances define his future. John also reveals how hiring help, delegating, and surrounding himself with the right people transformed not only his business—but his life.

This episode is a masterclass in resilience, reinvention, and the mindset required to thrive in real estate while navigating some of life's hardest challenges.

🔑 In This Episode You'll Learn: How authenticity attracts the right clients (and repels the wrong ones) Why grit + mindset outperform talent in real estate The importance of delegating and building the right support team How to face adversity without slipping into victimhood The power of "unreasonableness" when life gets hard Why surrounding yourself with the right people changes everything

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