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Summary

In this episode of the Pleasure and Peace Practice, Tia delves into the intriguing relationship between fear and desire, particularly in the context of Halloween. She discusses how erotic horror has historical roots and how the adrenaline from fear can enhance sexual arousal. Tia answers listener questions about embracing scary fantasies, emphasizing the importance of consent and communication in exploring these desires. The episode concludes with a playful exercise to help listeners safely explore their fantasies.

Intro & Outro Music: “Night Jazz” by Ketsa

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Summary

In this episode, Tia delves into the multifaceted nature of consent and communication, emphasizing that consent is not just a simple yes or no but a dynamic and ongoing process. She explores how understanding consent can enhance pleasure and connection in relationships, drawing insights from the BDSM community about negotiation and clarity. The conversation also addresses common myths about consent and transitions into a listener question about clitoral sensitivity, providing practical tips for enhancing pleasure regardless of size.

Intro & Outro Music: “Night Jazz” by Ketsa

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Interlude Music: “Soul Trap" by Ketsa

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Summary

In this conversation, Tia explores the complexities of pleasure, particularly in the context of BDSM and power dynamics. She debunks common myths surrounding pleasure, emphasizing that submission does not equate to weakness, and dominance does not imply abuse. The discussion highlights the importance of consent, communication, and the subjective nature of pleasure, advocating for a nuanced understanding of these dynamics.

Intro & Outro Music: “Night Jazz” by Ketsa

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Summary

In this episode of the Pleasure and Peace Practice, Tia explores the essential role of boundaries in fostering pleasure and peace. She discusses how boundaries are not just rules but invitations for deeper connection, emphasizing the importance of saying no with peace. Tia highlights the relationship between boundaries and desire, explaining that true desire requires safety and clarity. She provides practical tools for saying no, building self-trust, and navigating boundaries in relationships, ultimately reinforcing that boundaries are foundational for authentic intimacy.

Intro & Outro Music: “Night Jazz” by Ketsa

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Summary

In this episode of the Pleasure and Peace Practice, Tia explores the topic of fantasies, emphasizing that they are a normal part of human experience. She discusses the nature of fantasies, their psychological functions, and their connection to mental health and sexuality. Tia also addresses how fantasies can evolve and offers practical advice for enhancing intimacy in relationships. The conversation encourages listeners to embrace their fantasies without shame and to view them as valuable insights into their desires and needs.

Intro & Outro Music: “Night Jazz” by Ketsa

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Summary

In this episode, Tia Conway explores the foundational concepts of power dynamics in relationships and their influence on sexual pleasure. She discusses the importance of understanding power, the role of consent in play, and offers insights into self-discovery through listener inquiries. The episode emphasizes the significance of communication, boundaries, and the exploration of one's own desires and preferences in intimate contexts.

Intro & Outro Music: “Night Jazz” by Ketsa

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Source:⁠⁠⁠ Free Music Archive – Ketsa⁠⁠⁠

Interlude Music: “Soul Trap" by Ketsa

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Source:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Music Archive – Ketsa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

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Summary

In this episode, Tia addresses a listener's struggle with medical anxiety, particularly regarding gynecological exams. She emphasizes the importance of acknowledging feelings of shame and fear, and offers practical tools for overcoming these challenges. Tia discusses therapeutic approaches, including EMDR, and the significance of finding trauma-informed providers. The conversation also touches on the complexities of wanting to conceive while dealing with medical anxiety, and the importance of agency and support in these experiences. The episode concludes with answering another listener-submitted question and a discussion on fantasies and consent.

Resource mentioned: www.bdsmtest.org

Intro Music: “Night Jazz” by Ketsa

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Source:⁠⁠⁠ Free Music Archive – Ketsa⁠⁠⁠

Interlude Music: “Soul Trap" by Ketsa

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Source:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Music Archive – Ketsa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Outro: “Night Jazz" by Ketsa

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Summary

The Wisdom Years

In this episode, Tia explores the later seasons of sexual and emotional evolution, focusing on menopause and perimenopause. She debunks myths surrounding these stages, emphasizing that they do not signify the end of sexuality or pleasure. Instead, Tia highlights the potential for self-discovery, emotional growth, and redefining pleasure during this time. The conversation also touches on the importance of acknowledging both grief and gratitude for the changes that come with aging, and encourages listeners to embrace new avenues of pleasure. The episode concludes with an anonymous segment addressing medical anxiety related to gynecological exams.

Intro Music: “Night Jazz” by Ketsa

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Source:⁠⁠⁠ Free Music Archive – Ketsa⁠⁠⁠

Interlude Music 1: “Jazz for the Soul" by Ketsa

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Interlude Music 2: “Soul Trap" by Ketsa

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Source:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Music Archive – Ketsa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

Outro: “Night Jazz" by Ketsa

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Source:⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Free Music Archive – Ketsa⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠