One of the hardest parts about getting sober isn’t putting down the drink — it’s learning how to believe in yourself again.

In this episode, Tim shares a raw and honest look at what it really means to rebuild self-trust in sobriety. From a story about going all-in on fitness while in rehab to recognizing the quiet ways we keep breaking promises to ourselves, this conversation digs deep into how trust is lost — and how we get it back.

You’ll learn why motivation fades, why big goals often fail, and how to rebuild confidence one small, honest promise at a time. This isn’t about perfection — it’s about showing up for yourself, even when no one’s watching.

If you’ve ever struggled with consistency, self-doubt, or feeling like you’re “doing everything right” but still can’t find peace, this episode will hit home.

Listen now to learn how to rebuild trust from the inside out — and finally start believing in yourself again.

You quit drinking — you did the hard thing — but life still doesn’t feel the way you thought it would.

Why does peace feel so uncomfortable? Why does it seem like, even in sobriety, you’re still trying to escape something?

In this episode, Tim digs into one of the hardest — and most important — lessons in recovery: learning how to build a life that actually feels worth staying for.

He shares how even years into sobriety, he found himself trapped in a new kind of cage — surrounded by people, yet disconnected from his true self.

You’ll learn why quitting isn’t enough, how comfort can quietly become a new addiction, and what it really takes to create peace that lasts.

If you’ve ever felt like sobriety should feel better than it does — this episode will help you understand why, and show you how to start changing that.

Key Topics Covered:

• Why “just quitting” doesn’t fix the real problem
• How disconnection fuels addiction (and what to do about it)
• The Rat Park story and what it teaches us about environment and healing
• The danger of comfort and why peace often feels uncomfortable
• How to reconnect with yourself, others, and your purpose
• A reflection challenge to help you start building instead of escaping

In this episode, I unpack a hard truth: you can’t solve a problem you don’t understand.

We look beneath the surface of drinking to the real drivers—pain, fear, loneliness, and the beliefs we quietly adopt like “alcohol gives me confidence” or “I’m boring sober.”

I share the story of my first real attempt to quit at twenty (and why I relapsed 30 days later), break down the “breadcrumb trail” that leads to relapse long before the first sip, and show how understanding—not willpower—creates lasting freedom.

If you’ve tried to white-knuckle sobriety or swapped the bottle for other distractions, this one will help you see the real target and start changing the story.

What we cover:

• The hidden equation: pain + misunderstanding = repetition.
• Why “meeting makers make it” can become just another dependency (support is good; dependency isn’t).
• The “first drink” exercise: go back to what it gave you emotionally (relief, confidence, connection).
• The stories we tell ourselves (“alcohol gives me confidence,” “I can’t relax without it”) and how repetition turns beliefs into “truth.”
• The breadcrumb trail to the bottle: the subtle build-up of skipped routines, isolation, justification, and disconnection.
• Beyond addiction: how the same patterns show up as workaholism, perfectionism, people-pleasing, or endless scrolling.
• Understanding vs. judging: swap “What’s wrong with me?” for “What happened to me?” and “What need was I trying to meet?”
• The mirror of sobriety: discomfort as a signal, not a sentence.

I’m back! After taking some time off from the podcast, I want to share openly about where I’ve been, what I learned, and what you can expect going forward.

First off — no, I didn’t relapse. That’s often the first question when someone in recovery goes quiet, but alcohol hasn’t been part of my life for a long time now.

What actually happened was burnout — so much stress that my body started showing symptoms that looked like a stroke.

In this episode, I talk about:

• Why my body reacted so strongly even when my mind didn’t feel stressed
• What I learned about the disconnect between body and mind (especially for those of us who are neurodivergent)
• How stepping away helped me re-discover authenticity and what really matters
• The changes I’m making to the podcast, social media, and community moving forward

If you’ve ever felt overwhelmed, lost sight of yourself, or wondered how to balance recovery with real-life stress, this episode is for you.

I’ll also share how you can get more involved — from submitting ideas for future episodes, to possibly being part of a conversation on the show, to connecting through writing and new community spaces I’ll be creating.

After months of very hard reflection, I have made the tough decision that I need to take a break to breathe and refocus.

This wasn't an easy decision—I've poured my heart into creating content that helps others navigate sobriety while discovering joy in everyday moments.

But sometimes, we need to follow our own advice about balance and self-care.

Thank you for being part of this journey and for understanding this break isn't necessarily goodbye, as I hope I can return with renewed energy and purpose.

Your support means everything, and I'm grateful for each of you who've welcomed my voice into your lives.

Until next time, keep living sober and happy.

Does the idea of "never drinking again" feel overwhelming or even terrifying?

In this episode, we unpack why thinking about sobriety as a "forever" commitment creates anxiety, perfectionism, and fear—and how reframing your mindset can set you free.

Learn practical techniques like time-chunking, shifting your language, and focusing on today rather than forever.

You'll walk away feeling empowered, not trapped, and ready to embrace sobriety one manageable step at a time.

Are you focused only on how many days you've been sober? There's so much more to celebrate in recovery!

In this episode, we explore why counting days is just the beginning of measuring your growth. Learn about the meaningful milestones that don't come with chips or coins – from rebuilding relationships to finding inner peace.

Discover how celebrating these "invisible victories" can strengthen your recovery journey and help you recognize just how far you've truly come.

Listen now to redefine what progress means in your sobriety story.

In this episode, we’re diving deep into the power of identity and how the way you see yourself shapes your recovery.

We’ll talk about why continuing to call yourself an alcoholic may be reinforcing the very struggles you’re trying to escape.

I’ll share insights from my own journey, including a life-changing realization I had at a Tony Robbins event, and why shifting your identity from "I am an alcoholic" to "I am someone who does not drink" can completely transform your sobriety.

If you’ve ever felt like you’re still chained to your past, even after getting sober, this episode is for you. It’s time to rethink the way we define ourselves—and step fully into the life we deserve.

🎧 Tune in now and let’s talk about making a real, lasting shift in your recovery.