In this episode we discuss the difference between trauma creeping to the relationship, versus true incompatibility.

FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

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In this episode we ask 4 questions that need to be answered in order to make better repairs in your relationship.

Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

Find us on Social Media:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

Follow Us on YouTube:

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

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In this episode we are going to discuss attachment anxiety. Like a smoke alarm that is too sensitive, our attachment anxiety can detect danger even when we don't want it too.

If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

Check out our Weekly Podcast:

Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

Find us on Social Media:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

Follow Us on YouTube:

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

Your communication style is directly affected by the way you learned to adapt to your environment. In this episode you will learn how your attachment style developed and how to shift to a more secure style of communication.

Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

In this episode we discuss how to change your partner by changing the system. If you react differently, it forces your partner to respond differently, thereby changing the pattern.

If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

Check out our Weekly Podcast:

Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

Find us on Social Media:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

Follow Us on YouTube:

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

In this episode you will learn what a trauma bond is, how it forms to an insecure attachment, and safe steps to begin healing from a trauma bond.

If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

Check out our Weekly Podcast:

Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

Find us on Social Media:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

Follow Us on YouTube:

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

In this episode you will learn to recognize the inner child, how the attachment environment shapes the inner child, and the 3 steps necessary to start working on healing the inner child.

If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

Check out our Weekly Podcast:

Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

Find us on Social Media:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

Follow Us on YouTube:

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq

In this episode you will discover why you experience shame from your trauma, how it shows up in your relationship, and safe techniques to help you heal from shame that was created from your relational trauma.

If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

Check out our Weekly Podcast:

Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

Find us on Social Media:

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

Follow Us on YouTube:

YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

Coaching Program:

Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq