Épisodes

  • Healing From Shame and Trauma
    Nov 13 2025

    In this episode you will discover why you experience shame from your trauma, how it shows up in your relationship, and safe techniques to help you heal from shame that was created from your relational trauma.

    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    28 min
  • Mental Health & Trauma
    Nov 6 2025

    In this episode we discuss how trauma impacts our general mental health. By the end you will understand how trauma impacts our relational, emotional, physical, and cognitive health. You will also get some safe ways to improve your mental health whether you are working on your trauma or not.


    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. He has spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolve their relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more secure relationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/


    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide


    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP


    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/


    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp


    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly with me to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, secure relationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out a customized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://go.linku.co/widget/booking/XNhN1z7S88osZdl9Eziq


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    27 min
  • How to Heal Trauma Through Mind Body Connection
    Oct 30 2025

    In this episode you will learn how the body stores trauma, how your nervous system shapes attachment patterns, and how reconnecting to your body helps rebuild trust and safety in your relationship.

    If you want to build more trust in yourself and others after suffering from attachment trauma, this channel will provide you with actionable strategies and tactics to help you build a more safe and secure relationship.

    Dr. Tom Philp is the founder of Trauma Free Relationship. Hehas spent decades working with couples and individuals to help them resolvetheir relational and attachment traumas and build a safer, more securerelationship.

    Trauma Free Relationship Website: https://traumafreerelationship.com/

    FREE Relational Trauma Self-Assessment: https://traumafreerelationship.com/trauma-self-check-guide

    Check out our Weekly Podcast:

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Apple Podcast: https://shorturl.at/myobb

    Trauma Free Relationship Podcast on Spotify: https://shorturl.at/BwaDP

    Find us on Social Media:

    Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/traumafreerelationship

    Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/traumafreerelationship/

    Follow Us on YouTube:

    YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@drtomphilp

    Coaching Program:

    Work with me privately – If you’d like to work directly withme to regain trust in yourself and others and create a more safe, securerelationship, just schedule your free Clarity Call so we can map out acustomized 3-step action plan to start you on your healing journey.

    Sign up for a Clarity Call: https://shorturl.at/ar01k

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    24 min
  • How To Build Trust After Trauma
    Oct 23 2025

    In this episode we outline how to build trust after trauma by targeting two systems: the defensive/protective system and the attachment system. By the end of this podcast you will learn how both work to help and protect you, and some safe tips on how to lead more with your attachment drive to build safe and trusting relationships.

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    26 min
  • How To Be Vulnerable and Safe At The Same Time
    Oct 16 2025

    In this podcast we are going to talk about how to regain a sense of vulnerability with your partner, AND maintain a sense of safety as well. By the end you will be able to know what vulnerability looks like, what a safe partner looks like, and practical tips to practice both.

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    32 min
  • 10 Myths About Relational Trauma
    Oct 9 2025

    In this episode we will debunk 10 myths around relational trauma. By the end you will have more compassion for your healing journey, and begin to see that growth is really possible when we let go of some of the beliefs that surround trauma.

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    29 min
  • Building Self-Trust
    Oct 2 2025

    Join us in this episode where we explore how to build self-trust after trauma. By the end you will learn what destroys self-trust, what it looks like in your relationship, and safe tips to begin building self-trust.

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    25 min
  • How To Overcome Self-Abandonment
    Sep 25 2025

    In this episode we discuss how to overcome self-abandonment. This coping strategy is learned when others reject or abandon us in our moment of need. As a result we learn to ignore our needs at the expense of the needs of others. Be sure and listen to till the end where we explore ways to stay grounded in our self.

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    26 min