Feeling guilty for wanting time to yourself? We challenge the myth that self-care is selfish and show how prioritising your needs is the most reliable way to create a calmer home, clearer mind, and more resilient life. From the pressure many women feel to carry everything to the hidden cost of “being fine,” we explore the stories that keep people stuck in burnout and offer a clearer path out.

We get practical fast: redefining self-care as maintenance, not indulgence; swapping the “no time” script for honest priorities; and building tiny systems that make healthy choices easier than scrolling. You’ll hear how we map needs together—early quiet time, planned runs, simple routines—and why micro-changes beat all-or-nothing resolutions. We dig into journaling as awareness training, how to spot what truly nourishes you, and why consistency creates confidence. We also talk therapy without the stigma, using it proactively to unstick patterns like rejection sensitivity before they wreck momentum.

Enjoyed the conversation? Please like, share, and subscribe—and drop us a note with the one small habit you’re committing to this week. For more content, check out the YouTube channel at Expansions Coach.

Ready to stop waiting for confidence to arrive and start building it for real? We kick off the year by unpacking what confidence truly is, why the loudest person in the room isn’t always the most self-assured, and how to grow unshakable belief through action, not affirmation. From first reels that took hours to record, to saying yes to speaking gigs, to jumping on the DJ decks, we share the honest steps that change how you see yourself.

We look at the hidden cost of comparison and the validation trap of social media. 'Likes' will spike and crash; identity shouldn’t. You’ll hear why aligning effort with a clear why stabilises nerves, how “evidence stacking” turns small wins into durable self-trust, and why authentic voice beats performance every time. Confidence becomes less about image and more about integrity: doing the thing you care about, even when your hands shake.

You’ll leave with practical steps you can use today: define your reason, choose tiny stretches that build tolerance, welcome feedback without tying it to your worth, and train kinder, more truthful self-talk. We also talk about scaling courage — how the skills you build in a room of 20 translate to a room of 1,000 — and why quiet confidence is often the strongest kind.

If you’re ready to move from “I’ll be confident when…” to “I’m building confidence now,” this one’s for you. Listen, take one small action, and tell us what evidence you’ll collect this week. If the show helps, subscribe, share it with a friend, and leave a review so more people can find it.

In this episode, we explore what happens after the big moment. The launch, the milestone, the appearance on TV, or the event you’ve been building towards for months. We talk honestly about the emotional comedown that often follows, why it’s completely normal, and why pinning all your happiness on outcomes is a fast track to disappointment.

Using examples from business goals, running the Great North Run, fundraising, and life more broadly, we unpack the Arrival Fallacy, the importance of internal versus external motivation, and why “loving the process” isn’t just a cliché, but essential for long-term wellbeing.

We also get practical. We share what actually helps in the days after a big event: grounding yourself, reconnecting with your why, and knowing when to step away rather than grind harder. Importantly, we talk about how different people need different things, and why having someone in your corner can stop you spiralling or self-sabotaging.

The episode closes with reflections on Christmas, January blues, and how to think ahead in a healthier way by focusing on the next step in the process, not just the next reward.

Some people go on TV, win life-changing money and ride off into the sunset. That’s not what happened here.

In this episode of UNSTUCKABLE, Kirsty sits down with her husband Anth to talk about the night he went on Michael McIntyre’s The Wheel, got all the way to the final… and lost £72,000 on national TV!

We unpack the whole thing – from the cancer diagnosis that made him apply in the first place, to the nerves, the pressure, the “what is my life?” moments, and what it’s really like to walk away with nothing when you were one answer away from a huge jackpot.

But this isn’t just a game show story. It’s a masterclass in circle of control, gratitude, resilience, and confidence through action. Anth shares how his mindset has shifted over the last few years, why he chose not to spiral, and how we’ve turned this “massive loss” into fuel for our life and business instead of a reason to give up.

If you’ve ever pinned all your hopes on something, faced a big setback, or wondered how to stay grounded when everything feels out of your control – this one’s for you.

If this episode hit home, please follow UNSTUCKABLE, leave a quick review, or send it to someone who needs to hear they can handle more than they think.

Come and say hi over on Instagram @expansionscoaching – where Kirsty talks about mindset, confidence and taking action daily, with a lot of real-life chaos thrown in.

www.expansionscoaching.co.uk.

In this episode, we take a deep, honest look at the comparison trap – why we slip into it so easily, why it hits so hard, and how to break free from the spiral.

We unpack the biology behind comparison, how our brains are wired for survival rather than modern life, and why social media amplifies all the worst bits. From “keeping up with the Joneses” to watching someone else’s rapid success story online, we explore how unfair comparisons creep in and how easily they knock us off our own path.

But this isn’t just an episode about the problem. It’s about what to do with it. We'll share practical ways to turn comparison into clarity:
• spotting what a trigger is really telling you
• using others’ success as evidence and fuel rather than a yardstick
• shifting from external validation to trusting your own lane
• defining “winning” on your terms, week by week

It’s a candid, lighthearted conversation full of real examples from our own lives and business, and an encouraging reminder that your journey isn’t meant to look like anyone else’s.

This week, we’re getting into the messy truth about authenticity – why it matters and why it’s harder than it looks.

We talk about what happens when you’re constantly masking at work, the pressure to “tone it down,” and how much energy you waste trying to be the version of yourself you think other people want. Spoiler: it’s knackering.

From swearing on socials to being told to soften a Geordie accent, we share our own stories of when we’ve hidden bits of ourselves to fit in – and what it took to finally drop the act. We dig into comparison traps, corporate conditioning, and the freedom that comes when you just stop pretending.

By the end, we boil it down to three Cs – Clarity, Consistency, and Courage. Know who you are, show up as that person every day, and have the guts to keep doing it even when people don’t like it. Because being authentic isn’t about sharing every detail of your life – it’s about living by your values and backing yourself, even when it feels uncomfortable.

In this episode, we explore why having the right people in your corner can transform your confidence, resilience, and progress.

We unpack the neuroscience behind human connection, why many of us struggle to ask for help, and how building a support system can boost motivation and mental wellbeing.

You’ll learn practical tools for identifying who’s really supporting your growth, how to ask for help without feeling guilty, and how helping others can actually help you move forward. If you’re feeling stuck, isolated, or carrying everything alone, this conversation will shift your mindset.

Perfect for: ambitious people, leaders, small business owners, career changers, and anyone looking to grow without burning out.

Download Kirsty's free workbook, 'Stuck to Started' at our website: expansionscoaching.co.uk.

Ever had that gut feeling that something just isn’t right? Like you’ve been moving, but not necessarily in the direction you want to go?

In this episode, we talk about those wake-up moments that make us question the path we’re on in work, business, or life.

We explore why so many of us lose our way, how to reconnect with what truly matters, and what it means to live a life that feels aligned rather than expected. From understanding your values to finding your “why”, this conversation moves from reflection to action; helping you shift from feeling stuck to finding clarity.

Honest, grounded, and hopeful, this one’s for anyone wondering if they’re where they’re meant to be (and if not, what they can do next).