Feel Secure

What does a healthy relationship look like? A good question, in theory, but couple’s therapist Julie Menanno wants you to consider: what does a securely attached relationship feel like? The answer to this question is the ultimate goal in Secure Love, an “incredibly wise and helpful guide” (Jen Sincero, New York Times bestselling author of You Are a Badass) to understanding secure attachment in adult relationships.

Whether you are stuck in the distress of life, or appear like nothing’s wrong, you may have faced trauma, or incredible stress, or suffocating fear. Maybe you wonder whether those emotions, memories, and experiences are blocking you from being as fulfilled and happy as you could be. Maybe you’re stuck in patterns that simply no longer work for you. What if you could change it all? What if you could feel safe and solid and secure inside your own body? What if your life could be peaceful and centered and fulfilled?

As a senior non-commissioned officer of Delta Force, the most elite and secretive special operations unit in the US military, Command Sergeant Major Tom Satterly fought some of this country's most fearsome enemies. Tom is a legend even among other Tier One special operators. Yet the enemy that cost him three marriages, and ruined his health physically and psychologically, existed in his brain. Told through Satterly's firsthand experiences, it also weaves in the reasons for his career-long battle against the most insidious enemy of all: post-traumatic stress.

Finally break free from insecurity and fear, and gain the confidence to be who you really are in any relationship. Do you overanalyze every text or missed call from your partner, wondering if it means they're losing interest? Do you find yourself wanting to please your family at all costs, even if it means neglecting your own needs and boundaries? If this sounds familiar, you're not alone. Millions struggle with an anxious attachment style that leaves them feeling needy, insecure, and exhausted in their relationships.

Building on the foundational insights of "Anxious Attachment and Avoidant Detachment," this sequel opens a new chapter in your quest for deeper, more resilient relationships. It's more than a book—it's your guide to a world of secure attachment, offering pathways to enrich your connections and embrace the strength of emotional resilience and enduring love.

The latest book from Pastor Rich Wilkerson, Jr., Single & Secure, is a guide for living a fulfilling, abundant life, single. His message in this book is clear: Life is made of seasons, and no season is lost or forever. Rich explains that marriage does not produce contentment. Rather, contentment comes from learning to find value in the season you’re experiencing today. With his typical wit and profound insight into the gospel and culture, Rich will take us on a journey to see the beautiful, fun, productive stage of life called being single in a new way.

In Jealousy Survival Guide, Kitty Chambliss does the homework for you and collects the best tidbits on life and emotions to give you inspiration and provide tools to gain and practice new skills. Combining her own life experience with these pearls of wisdom, Kitty focuses on jealousy in consensually non-monogamous relationships - what it is, how it expresses, and specific ways to manage it.

Healing Your Wounded Inner Child is a thoughtful and insightful guide designed to help you uncover the hidden roots of pain, fear, and insecurity stemming from childhood experiences. Whether you’ve endured neglect, abuse, or inherited trauma, this audiobook shows you the steps to help you break free from destructive patterns, overcome the fear of abandonment, and finally feel emotionally secure.

Your attachment style can significantly affect how successful your relationships are and how secure and confident you feel. Whether you are anxious, avoidant, or fearful, this book will provide you with proven strategies for effectively dealing with an insecure attachment style.

If you’ve ever panicked when someone pulled away, replayed texts until you couldn’t breathe, or felt “too much” in relationships, you’re not broken. You’re anxious-attached, and your body has been trying to protect you. In this compassionate and research-backed guide, trauma-informed educator Elise Hart explains why your relationships trigger such intense emotions and how to retrain your nervous system to feel secure from the inside out.

Based on the self-help hit by Leslie Becker-Phelps, The Insecure in Love Workbook offers engaging activities, tips, and exercises to help you overcome attachment anxiety by developing compassionate self-awareness. You'll learn to recognize physical sensations, negative thoughts, distressing emotions, and unhealthy behavior patterns that underlie your insecurity; and respond to them in a more nurturing way-rather than beating yourself up. You'll also discover how insecurity can overwhelm or paralyze you, negatively affecting the relationship between you and your partner.

"Love Without Fear: Anxious Attachment Recovery" is a comprehensive guide designed to help listeners break free from the grip of anxious attachment and achieve healthier, more fulfilling relationships. This book addresses the core struggles of anxious attachment, including the fear of abandonment and the cycle of needing constant reassurance that often drives partners away. With compassion and understanding, the author—an accomplished survivor of anxious attachment—offers a roadmap to healing from within.

Love is probably the most powerful emotion possible. It's not unusual for it to profoundly impact your relationship and quality of life when you begin experiencing anxiety over that love. Relationship anxiety is confusing, meaning different things to different people, but there's no denying that once you've got it, you'll do anything you can to stop it.

An anxious attachment style slowly decays many relationships: whether from causing petty arguments, breakdowns in trust, or spirals of overthinking. Anxious attachment leads to fights and an array of other issues. Often, you may not even realize it!!

Are you highly independent but secretly long for deeper connection? Do you find yourself shutting down during emotional conversations? Avoidantly Detached is your guide to understanding avoidant attachment—and transforming the habits that keep you at a distance from the connection you crave. Drawing from research and lived experience, this book offers a step-by-step approach to avoidant attachment recovery in a way that honors your autonomy.

Does anxiety make you question everything in your relationship? Do you replay conversations, overanalyze texts, and fear your partner will leave—even when there’s no real reason to worry? You’re not alone—and you don’t have to stay stuck in that cycle. Overthinking can turn even the best relationships into emotional minefields. But love doesn’t have to feel this hard. You can break free from fear, stop the mental spirals, and feel safe in your relationship.

You Are Safe Now: Inner Child Healing for Social Anxiety 20 Guided Meditations to Build Self-Confidence, Ease Overthinking, and Feel Emotionally Secure Published by The Inner Sanctuary What if the social anxiety you feel today is rooted in moments your younger self never got to heal? This gentle, heart-centered meditation collection is a sanctuary for those who have ever felt unsafe, unseen, or overwhelmed in social spaces. You Are Safe Now offers 20 guided inner child healing meditations to help you build confidence, ease overthinking, and feel truly secure in who you are.