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Love Unfu*ked
- Getting Your Relationship Sh!t Together
- Narrated by: Gary John Bishop
- Length: 3 hrs and 46 mins
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Publisher's Summary
From the New York Times bestselling author of Unfu*k Yourself comes tough-love that explains what makes relationships work: you taking responsibility to fix yourself.
“Love is patient, love is blind. . .” Until it’s not. Then what?
No matter how much advice we get or how much work we do on our “stuff,” nothing ever seems to make the difference. The truth of it is, you’re woefully ill-equipped for one of the most life-defining things you will ever take on—being in a committed relationship.
Whether you’re currently in one, want to be in one, half in–half out, getting over one, married, single, separated, divorced, or just overwhelmed with the whole thing, let’s cut through the morass of relationship schtick and put you back in charge. No flowery BS, no woo-woo strategies, systems, or techniques, just real talk, for real people who want a real relationship in their life that actually works.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2022-03-15
Great book
I’ve read:listened to similar books. But Gary has one way to bring these subjects up and make up own your shit. Love his books. You must take notes and take action in order to consider any reading adequate. If you don’t, don’t waste your time and money reading self development books (I’ve been there, still there actually haha). Any books from this guy is a must in your life. Cheers
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- Francois Blouin
- 2023-02-17
Great book
Harsh reality, not messing around
Highly recommend
Author is blunt ,straight shooter
Short book but no waste of time
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- Tasha-J G
- 2023-02-17
Practical with straightforward delivery
Love his direct approach, and how Gary is so matter of fact!! He makes you keep the focus on yourself and not worry about who you are in a relationship with.. great read!!
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- Rose
- 2022-01-25
a poignant lesson in boundaries
while this parades as relationship advice, it's far more personal and universal than that - which the author is far from hiding. while the words 'boundrary setting' are nowhere to be found in these pages (or minutes) this is exactly a how to on just that.
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- Amazon Customer
- 2023-02-12
Great book for everyone. In a relationship or not.
Gary does a great job being real and unfiltered talking about how to be your best self and then how to be your best self in a relationship. Must read for everyone!
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- Zuda
- 2022-12-18
Fantastic book.
I love this book. recommend to everyone.
it stripps of the unnecessary bullshit we aquire in our lives.
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- Adam
- 2024-02-25
Realizing your self and true potential.
What I like about this author and his books is they make you think, and think hard. It helped me through the start of my healing process. What I don’t like is that I have already listened to all four books. I will definitely dive into them again and again. Thanks Gary.
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- Anonymous User
- 2023-11-05
Gary is the best
This author is my favorite 'self-help guru' (??) -- Scottish accent, serious advice, existential references... great stuff
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- Roxanne
- 2023-11-09
undeniable truths
thoroughly enjoyed the entire reading, the funny descriptive quips in between the serious nitty gritty stuff was excellent. alot of great fucking advise, thanks Gary
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- Chris
- 2022-01-28
enlightening
this is a great book for those willing to take a hard look at themselves and act on what they see.
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