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Strangers

A Memoir of Marriage

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Strangers

Written by: Belle Burden
Narrated by: Belle Burden
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 INSTANT #1 NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER • “Burden’s searing, probing memoir explores . . . what she learned about intimacy and her own spirit.”—People​​

“A beautifully written instant classic. Strangers is gripping and heartbreaking and a must-read for every wife—and husband.”—Graydon Carter

“Asks us to examine life’s most perplexing questions: Can we see the invisible fault lines in a marriage or truly know the people closest to us?”—Lori Gottlieb
It was a great love story, one for the ages. The speed of our beginning and the speed of our ending felt like matching bookends. They both came out of nowhere. He wanted it, he wanted me. And then he didn’t.

In March 2020, Belle Burden was safe and secure with her family at their house on Martha’s Vineyard, navigating the early days of the pandemic together—building fires in the late afternoons, drinking whisky sours, making roast chicken. Then, with no warning or explanation, her husband of twenty years announced that he was leaving her. Overnight, her caring, steady partner became a man she hardly recognized. He exited his life with her like an actor shrugging off a costume.

In Strangers, Burden revisits her marriage, searching for clues that her husband was not who she always thought he was. As she examines her relationship through a new lens, she reckons with her own family history and the lessons she intuited about how a woman is expected to behave in the face of betrayal. Through all of it, she is transformed. The discreet, compliant woman she once was—someone nicknamed “Belle the Good”—gives way to someone braver, someone determined to use her voice.

With unflinching honesty and profound grace, Burden charts a path through heartbreak to show the power of a woman who refuses to give up on love. Strangers is a stunning, deeply moving, compulsively readable memoir heralding the arrival of a thrilling new literary talent. Relationships Women Marriage Memoir Heartfelt
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What a wonderful, honest book. So helpful for those of us who have been left deeply heartbroken, without warning or explanation.

There may be times in this book where the reader begins to judge the author, based on her wealth and privilege. But I urge the reader to carry on, because only then will you fully, truly appreciate this author and her story.

An important piece

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Loved listening to this book, performed wonderfully!
This bias against women is described perfectly. IYKYK

An important point of view

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I don’t like to talk about money and my husband and I have separate accounts and pay bills equally. I am fiercely independent, financially for the most part. But the theme of money is not the heart of this story. Belle has no closure and she is living with the unknowns and she is now OK. There is grace in her words and kindness through it all. I am impressed by her survival skills. Belle’s story will continue to help so many of us. No one really knows another person (truly) and the fast balls life hits us with, comes out of nowhere. Listening to this story was addictive from the very start. A 10/10 for me. I wish only the best for Belle and her family. I do want to say one final thing ~ thank you Belle.

Amazing!!

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A moving and deeply satisfying and human memoir.When I heard that the modern love article was published I cried out in delight.

Honest courageous truthful writing

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A deeply disturbing memoir of an innocent woman systematically stripped of her financial independence, mental health, and dreams for the future by a vindictive master manipulator. The takeaway: no matter how much you love your spouse, always protect your own interests.

A warning to those considering marriage

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