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  • Written by: D.S.O
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The Dead Bedroom Fix

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Men: Are you in a sexless marriage? 

Divorced and don’t want to go through that nightmare again?

You're not alone.

There are a lot of men out there not happy with their sex lives.

What is going on? Is the tried-and-true stereotype of the undersexed husband and the cold, bossy wife inevitable? Are monogamous relationships doomed to such a pitiful state? Is that just the way marriage is?

I don't think so.

To cut a long story short, several years ago, I was married for 15 years, discovered infidelity, quickly divorced, and found myself newly single and sharing custody of three little kids. I, then, started a website: dadstartingover.com. After chatting with many men in my situation, I slowly started to notice patterns of behavior. Most men experienced long “dead bedroom” periods in their relationship, prior to their divorce. Many of these men later discovered infidelity.

Simply put, nobody seems to know what to do to keep the fire going in their long-term relationship. Most of us experience a “honeymoon phase” of intimacy and then, watch it quickly fade as the stress of life and the boredom of familiarity settle in.

It doesn’t have to be this way.

My audience are fixers, and they have tried everything under the sun to light a fire in their wife again. Some have already lost their marriage battle and don’t want to go down that awful road again. What they all tell me: The Dead Bedroom Fix is the best, no bullshit, no fluff guide to getting your self, and consequently, your sex life back on track. 

It works.

©2017 D.S.O (P)2019 D.S.O

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Thought it was going to be bullshit

I am a 29yo female and for some reason this book popped up on my Instagram feed. I kinda laughed at it and went to read the reviews expecting a load of shit. All the reviews were along the lines of "it's like you've been watching my marriage"
I was like who is this guy? Does he have any sort of certification/license in psychology or did he go to school to be talking about this stuff?
I downloaded it out of curiosity, thinking it was probably just a dumb thing desperate men bought into (sorry guys)
I was wrong. He pretty much outlined my last relationship, I always thought I was the problem because I wasn't attracted to him, I even went to get my hormones tested.
The real problem was he was needy, definitely pit me on a pedestal, acted like I could do nothing wrong (ever), everything was my choice. I assumed that meant he was the perfect guy, and I was the fucked up one. DSO outlines that men need to take responsibility for their own lives, and STOP trying putting their wives on a pedestal. They're just human, and they want to be treated that way. Do the things this dude says and I believe it'll definitely help your relationship.

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All married men need to read this!

Holy crap this book is amazing! To be clear, it is NOT a how-to trick/convince your wife into sex book. It IS a self-improvement book for married men. It is a much-needed kick in the butt to make you realize why your wife is not sexually attracted to you anymore. And if you are reading this review right now, trust me, she is not. This book WILL describe you and your relationship to a T. And then teach you what YOU (not your wife) is doing wrong. You've probably had talks with your wife, trying to find out why she's never in the mood, and even asked her straight out what you need to do to turn her on, but she honestly doesn't even know herself, and then sums it up to something wrong with her hormones. Sound familiar? Well this book does know what she needs. It knows your wife better than she does. The steps are simple, the execution takes some time and effort. but you WILL see results.

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What an Eye opener

I saw this group on FB and I decided to join. I’ve read this book and it hits every nail on the head. I didn’t realize all the mistakes I’ve made in my relationship. My changes have started. To Be Continued...

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Honest and to the point

Great listen! Keeps it real; no bullshit. You’re a man, you need to hear this.

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Just buy this book

Don't hesitate, it's a short listen but every chapter is gold. It's nice to have a laid out plan on how to fix your relationship problems. It's alot more than just sex, this could save my marriage.

I wish my counselor had given me advice like this. I will recommend he reads this one

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Every man needs to read this !

I didn't realize the mistakes I was making. I swear this guy wrote this book about me. I've already changed a few things and already I see improvement.

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Man is speaking pure facts

I am a woman and I know he said not to listen but he is totally right about things in this book. I am glad I got the audiobook because I love the narration. Everything he said is what women want in a relationship and what we want sexually. Sometimes we are afraid to have that conversation with you because we are afraid to hurt you or hurt your ego or make you feel less of a man. So I am glad a man wrote this and not a woman because men wouldn’t believe us if we wrote it. Lol

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Yes, yes, yes

Great read, sound advice for someone who doesn't mind doing the work. I'm in and taking all the advice

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good read

just read this book if you're having any problems with sex it's covered alot of material.

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Exellent!

I noticed a reduction of desire and passion from my girlfriend, after 2 weeks of applying some little tweek from this book, I noticed that she was wondering what was going on with me and suddenly wanted me to take her like in our beginning. Note I already had step 1 and 2 under control before reading this book. I'm an athletic attractive guy and I'm also hard working dad. what did I change? I stopped winning and being needy. I stopped doing thing for the reward of her giving me what I needed. By doing that I noticed that she responded very well to my new behavior. I feel I'm a better man and a better partner thank to this book.

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