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 The Watchtower Series #62 The Watchtower Series – “Watch The Drift” Intro “You’re listening to Men, Save Your Marriage. No judgment, no fluff—just a man speaking truth into your war zone. You heard that bell— That means we are in the ring to fight for your marriage.” "You didn’t lose your marriage in a moment. You lost it in inches." Drift is deceptive. It’s not violent. It’s not loud. It’s not even obvious—until you look up one day and realize you’re not where you thought you were. I want to talk to the man who still believes he has time. To the one who thinks “she’s just in a mood,” or “we’re just going through a rough patch.” To the one who thinks there’s still more runway before this plane goes down. Brother, let me say this with no fluff, no fear, and no filter: The drift is already underway. And if you don’t watch it, check it, and correct it— You won’t lose your wife in a moment. You’ll lose her by inches. By evenings you spent scrolling. By moments you withheld your truth. By weeks you stayed emotionally quiet while she begged you to speak. Drift is the killer you never see coming. And today, we’re calling it out. POINT 1: DRIFT STARTS SMALL—BUT IT NEVER STAYS SMALL You didn’t wake up one morning with a broken marriage. It started with tiny decisions. You stopped praying together. You let exhaustion justify neglect. You gave the kids your full attention but gave her your leftovers. You avoided one hard conversation, then another, and then a dozen more. Every one of those was an inch. And the devil doesn’t need a wrecking ball. He just needs time, and men like you who aren’t watching. In the Navy, they teach sailors about course deviation. If you're off by even one degree, you’ll miss your target by miles over time. That’s how your marriage gets lost. Not by catastrophe—but by neglect. Signs of drift most men miss: You touch less—but not just sexually. I’m talking about the hand on her back, the hand on her shoulder, the hand that says “I still see you.” Conversations become transactional. “What time are the kids’ games?” replaces “How are you feeling?” You stop planning. You stop pursuing. You just survive. Brother, that’s drift. And if you let it continue, it will become distance. Distance becomes disconnect. Disconnect becomes divorce. POINT 2: DRIFT CAN ONLY BE CORRECTED BY DIRECTION Let me say something bold: Most marriages aren’t broken. They’re just unled. And where there is no direction, there will always be drift. What’s the opposite of drift? It’s not passion. It’s not therapy. It’s intentional direction. It’s waking up and saying: “I may not feel loved, I may not feel strong, but I’m leading anyway.” You need a heading. A course. A mission. Because your marriage doesn’t need rescue. It needs you, leading with calm, consistent presence. Not perfection—presence. And here’s the hard truth: If you’re not leading, the drift is growing. How to reclaim direction: 1. Name the destination. What kind of man are you becoming? What kind of marriage are you fighting for? 2. Make the micro-moves. One honest question a day. One selfless act tonight. One apology that’s not about shame but strength. 3. Lead quietly, not loudly. Don’t announce the new plan. Just become it. Let her feel the shift before she hears it. Remember: You don’t need her permission to lead. You just need a decision. POINT 3: THE LONGER YOU WAIT, THE FASTER IT FALLS APART Let me speak prophetically for a moment: If you’re listening to this right now, it may be your last warning. This may be the last moment before she checks out emotionally for good. I’ve coached men for years. I’ve watched the same pattern. She gets quiet. She stops asking you to change. She tells you, “I’m fine.” She starts building her exit in silence. And then she drops the bomb: “I’m not in love with you anymore.” “I haven’t been happy for years.” “I think we need a break.” And you say: “Why didn’t you tell me?” But she did. You just didn’t listen. Brother, I’m not here to beat you up. I’m here to wake you up. Because once the drift turns into separation— You’re no longer building the marriage. You’re now trying to resurrect it. And resurrection takes more than good intentions. It takes fire. It takes clarity. It takes a man willing to lead himself before he tries to lead her. CALL TO ACTION If this hit you—share it. If this helped you—rate it. If this moved something deep inside you—review it. You don’t need to join a group. You don’t need to raise your hand. But you do need to do something. So here’s what I ask: Subscribe to this podcast. Leave a 5-star rating. Write a short review. Why? Because there’s another man out there who’s drifting right now— And your rating may be the thing that helps him find this message before it’s too late. FINAL WORDS I...

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