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85: Jesus on the Cross: What Does It Mean for Your Marriage?

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 Jesus on the Cross: What Does It Mean for Your Marriage? Introduction Heather poses the question: What does Jesus dying on the cross have to do with marriage?Setting the stage for exploring the connection.Encouraging likes, follows, and subscriptions. The Ultimate Act of Love (John 3:16) Reflecting on the lead-up to Easter and the meaning of the cross.Reciting John 3:16 – God's love for the world demonstrated through Jesus' sacrifice.Jesus as fully man and fully God, choosing to bear our sin out of love.Our fate sealed with Him through belief, leading to eternal life. Marriage as an Act of Love Comparing dating and marriage as expressions of love.The wedding day and vows as a profound commitment and act of love for one another.Vows to love, honor, and protect through various circumstances.Marriage as the "greatest thing" after the initial spark of dating. Sacrifice in Marriage Jesus' sacrifice as requiring blood to wipe away sin.Questioning whether we sacrifice our wills and desires for our spouse.Easier in early relationships, but challenges arise with time and "entangled" lives.Brian's example of differing reactions to a spouse wanting to quit a job early vs. later in marriage. Love, Grace, and Mercy Love as a beautiful aspect of the cross.Introducing the concepts of grace and mercy and their interconnectedness.Reading Romans 5:8 – God's love demonstrated while we were sinners.Defining grace: God giving us good things we don't deserve.Defining mercy: God withholding punishment we do deserve. Offering Grace in Marriage Can we offer grace to our spouse through loving words, gifts, and encouragement?The challenge of showing grace when feeling angry or annoyed. The 5:1 Ratio (John Gottman) Referencing John Gottman's research on the importance of positive interactions.The ideal ratio of 5-20 positive acts for every one negative act for a happy marriage.Grace as encompassing those positive and beneficial actions.Example of a small act of grace (buying a favorite candy). Extending Mercy and Holding Our Tongues Mercy as withholding deserved negative reactions or punishment.The importance of being merciful and kind with words, especially during rough patches.Choosing to offer grace and forgiveness instead of harsh words.The potential for positive change when choosing loving actions. Avoiding Fire with Fire Reinforcing the idea of not escalating conflict with negativity.The wisdom of "killing them with kindness" and "more flies with honey." Withholding Punishment: Mercy in Action Mercy as God withholding the ultimate punishment we deserved for our sins.Reflecting on God's unseen mercies in our daily lives (driving, running).Gratitude for both known and unknown acts of God's mercy. Selflessness: A Lesson from the Cross The selfless nature of Jesus' sacrifice – enduring physical and emotional pain.Applying selflessness to marriage: Putting your spouse above yourself.Considering your spouse's wants and needs over your own in the moment.Offering emotional and physical support when your spouse is struggling.The challenge of selflessness when tired or wanting to relax. The War Between Flesh and Spirit Acknowledging the constant internal conflict between selfish desires and spiritual guidance.The importance of humbling oneself and prioritizing the spouse's needs. Loving Like Jesus Encouraging listeners to reflect on Jesus' love and strive to be Christ-like in marriage.Emphasizing love filled with grace, mercy, selflessness, and forgiveness.Challenging listeners to see if loving this way makes a positive difference.Living for Christ and loving as He loves. Call to Action: The "No Time Note" Encouraging listeners to visit the website for the "No Time Note" resource.A one-page note for quick communication, encouragement, and gratitude.Suggesting using the note to leave loving and kind words for a spouse.The power of taking one minute a day to build each other up.Click Here for the Free Resource: No Time Note Conclusion (47:00-48:00) Thanking listeners for tuning in.Closing remarks and farewell.

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