Épisodes

  • 22. OCD, “shoulds”, and the fear beneath indecision
    May 30 2025

    In this episode, I open up more about my internal experience with OCD, challenge our tendency to conform to the familiar, and confront the “shoulds” that society has ingrained in us. I also explore what the root fear may be when grappling with indecisiveness and fear-based thinking.

    Remember you grow through what you go through !!

    XOXO

    Bella

    My other thought outlets:

    Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/beingwbella?igsh=MTQ5dWZ1OXZ5eDM0cQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Tik tok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@beingwbella?_t=ZP-8v6ak3gMCzO&_r=1⁠⁠

    DISCLAIMER: This is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment or medical advice. If you need support, please reach out to a licensed professional!

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    15 min
  • 21. Food for the Soul(ft. Robbie J)
    May 30 2025

    Yet another special guest !! My zestful roommate Robin joins me for a convo where we explore the following: music as an emotional enhancer and a gateway to soul, the challenge of letting go of perfectionism(especially in today’s world), and一most importantly一reconnecting with the true nature of humanity by finding joy in the mundane.

    If any of this sparks your curiosity, give this one a listen!

    “By logic and reason we die hourly, by imagination we live.” - William Butler Yeats

    XOXO

    Bella

    My other thought outlets:

    Instagram:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/beingwbella?igsh=MTQ5dWZ1OXZ5eDM0cQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Tik tok:⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@beingwbella?_t=ZP-8v6ak3gMCzO&_r=1⁠⁠⁠

    DISCLAIMER: This is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment or medical advice. If you need support, please reach out to a licensed professional!

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    20 min
  • 20. The Myth of Perfection
    May 6 2025

    The goal of this episode is to spread some awareness about ocd and debunk the myth of perfection that fuels anxious thinking patterns. Uncertainty is always going to be a part of life and if we can learn to feel safer embracing that, we will grow one step closer to inner peace & harmony.

    XOXO

    Bella

    My other thought outlets:

    Instagram:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/beingwbella?igsh=MTQ5dWZ1OXZ5eDM0cQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Tik tok:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@beingwbella?_t=ZP-8v6ak3gMCzO&_r=1⁠⁠

    Disclaimer: This is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment or medical advice. If you need support, please reach out to a licensed professional!

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    13 min
  • 19. Write Your Own Story
    Apr 19 2025

    In this episode, I highlight the idea that we have the freedom to create a life that feels true to us—even if it goes against what society may expect of us. Give her a listen if this resonates with you!

    XOXO,

    Bella

    My other thought outlets:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/beingwbella?igsh=MTQ5dWZ1OXZ5eDM0cQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Tik tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@beingwbella?_t=ZP-8v6ak3gMCzO&_r=1⁠

    Disclaimer: This is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment or medical advice. If you need support, please reach out to a licensed professional!

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    13 min
  • 18. The Power of Self-Compassion
    Apr 15 2025

    In this episode, I emphasize the importance of self-compassion through allowing ourselves to feel all our feelings—good and bad—in order to cultivate positive and lasting change. Some of us tend to subconsciously shame ourselves into making decisions that are not truly aligned with our values due to societal expectations and other external pressures. If this sounds like you, I invite you to take this episode as an opportunity to practice sitting patiently with yourself; permitting yourself to live in alignment guilt-free!

    XOXO,

    Bella

    My other thought outlets:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/beingwbella?igsh=MTQ5dWZ1OXZ5eDM0cQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Tik tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@beingwbella?_t=ZP-8v6ak3gMCzO&_r=1⁠

    Disclaimer: This is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment or medical advice. If you need support, please reach out to a licensed professional!

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    8 min
  • 17. Reframing Uncertainty
    Apr 9 2025

    In this episode, I explore the concept of uncertainty—something that, while completely natural to the human experience, can still be incredibly challenging for many of us to fully embrace. I discuss how time and uncertainty are intertwined, and the false sense of security that comes from trying to control everything. Hope you enjoy!

    Quote referenced: “Uncertainty is the only certainty there is, and learning to live with insecurity is the only security.” – John Allen Paulos

    You’re gonna be just fine:)

    XOXO,

    Bella

    My other thought outlets:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/beingwbella?igsh=MTQ5dWZ1OXZ5eDM0cQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Tik tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@beingwbella?_t=ZP-8v6ak3gMCzO&_r=1⁠

    Disclaimer: This is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment or medical advice. If you need support, please reach out to a licensed professional!

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    8 min
  • 16. Freeing the Ego
    Mar 31 2025

    Welcome to Episode 16!

    In this episode, I explore how we can transform external judgment and negativity into tools for personal growth. I delve into the power of releasing the ego and embracing the courage to be disliked, ultimately leading to more inner peace.

    By letting go of the need for external validation, we can stop taking hurtful acts personally and start living authentically. Tune in for insights on how to set your ego free and find peace in being true to yourself.

    xoxo

    My other thought outlets:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/beingwbella?igsh=MTQ5dWZ1OXZ5eDM0cQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Tik tok: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.tiktok.com/@beingwbella?_t=ZP-8v6ak3gMCzO&_r=1⁠

    Disclaimer: This is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment or medical advice. If you need support, please reach out to a licensed professional!

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    9 min
  • 15. Learned Decisiveness
    Mar 30 2025

    In this episode, I dive into perfectionism—especially when it comes to making decisions. I talk about the struggle with self-trust and why it’s so important to build this skill when making choices about our future. I discuss how crucial it is to make decisions that align with your values and true desires, even if those choices bring discomfort.

    Understanding what truly matters to us in life and gaining clarity on how we want to live is all part of the process. At the end of the day, trusting yourself is your responsibility—not anyone else’s. What matters most is how you adapt to the changes that come with your decisions.

    You are capable, and you can handle whatever comes your way!

    xoxo

    My other thought outlets:

    Instagram: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/beingwbella?igsh=MTQ5dWZ1OXZ5eDM0cQ%3D%3D&utm_source=qr⁠⁠⁠

    Tik tok: ⁠⁠⁠

    https://www.tiktok.com/@beingwbella?_t=ZP-8v6ak3gMCzO&_r=1

    Disclaimer: This is not a substitute for professional mental health treatment or medical advice. If you need support, please reach out to a licensed professional!

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    16 min