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  • Why Anxiety Recovery Can Suddenly Feel Like Crushing Depression
    Jun 26 2025

    There’s a point where the fear starts changing shape.

    At first, it’s the panic, the racing thoughts, the fight to get through the day. But after a while — especially when exhaustion sets in — a new worry creeps in.

    What if this isn’t just anxiety anymore?

    What if this is depression?

    It doesn’t always come in words. Sometimes it’s a sense of emotional dullness. Sometimes it’s the heaviness in your limbs. Sometimes it’s the feeling that nothing really lands anymore — not joy, not anger, not anything.

    This episode sits with that fear. Not to dismiss it, not to diagnose it — but to slow it down. To look at what’s actually happening in your body and brain when those feelings show up. Why the sadness can feel so strong. And how, surprisingly, it might be part of something the nervous system already knows how to handle.

    There’s a pattern underneath it. A specific shift that often gets misread.

    Let’s look at it together.

    (This is an AI-generated episode inspired by my YouTube videos. I personally moderate these to share insights more efficiently, keeping the content informative yet completely free.)

    Key Takeaways:

    • Intro (00:00)
    • The fear of anxiety turning into depression (00:25)
    • Labels aren’t helpful — look at emotional intensity instead (01:42)
    • Hyperstimulation explains sadness, anger, panic, and more (03:01)
    • The depression fear is often just another intrusive thought (04:06)
    • Letdown effect: why sadness hits during recovery (06:02)
    • Fighting sadness interferes with the body’s healing process (08:18)
    • Acceptance is an active skill that builds long-term resilience (10:43)

    Additional Resources:

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    13 min
  • Anxiety Recovery Masterclass: Overcome Physical Symptoms, Panic Attacks, and Intrusive Thoughts
    Jun 23 2025

    Disclaimer: The content in this video is for educational purposes only and is not intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment. It assumes you’ve already been evaluated by a healthcare provider and told your symptoms are related to anxiety. Always consult with a qualified health professional before making any changes to your care.

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    1 h et 50 min
  • How to Stop Anxiety From Ruining Your Next Trip
    Jun 19 2025

    The flight was booked months ago. A little reward, maybe even a reset. But now it's a week out, and your stomach’s in knots every time you think about it. Not because you forgot something — but because you didn’t. You planned everything.

    It’s the not-knowing that’s hard to plan for.

    Like, what happens if it hits mid-flight? Or in the middle of dinner in some new city, far from your bed, your home base? That thought alone starts to take up space.

    People mean well. “You just need to get away,” they say. But for some, the idea of being away is the very thing that sends their nervous system into red alert. It’s not the plane or the destination. It’s the feeling of being trapped with a body you don’t fully trust.

    This episode doesn’t offer a checklist. It sits in that weird middle ground — between wanting to go and fearing what might happen if you do. It unpacks why “white-knuckling it” usually makes things worse. Why even beautiful places can feel suffocating. And what has to shift before travel feels like an option again.

    Not a miracle story. Not a meltdown either. Something else.

    Tune in.

    (This is an AI-generated episode inspired by my YouTube videos. I personally moderate these to share insights more efficiently, keeping the content informative yet completely free.)

    Key Takeaways:

    • Intro (00:00)
    • Travel triggers anxiety, not relief (00:25)
    • Sensitized threat system misreads safe settings (03:10)
    • Why “pushing through” usually backfires (05:13)
    • Three core reasons people spiral during travel (05:58)
    • Respond, don’t resist anxiety symptoms (07:52)
    • Recovery — not vacation — is the real goal (09:18)

    Additional Resources:

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    12 min
  • How Long Does Anxiety Recovery Really Take?
    Jun 12 2025

    At some point, the question shows up – quietly at first, then louder, then nonstop.

    “How long is this going to take?”

    It makes sense. When your chest is tight, your thoughts won’t settle, and life feels unreal, it’s natural to want some kind of finish line. A number. An end date.

    But here’s the part that doesn’t get said enough: the more you chase that answer, the more it slips away. Not because you’re doing anything wrong, but because the need for speed starts to send a different message – one your nervous system reads as danger.

    This episode unpacks that tension. It looks at why urgency backfires, what actually helps the system calm down, and how some people start to get better without even realizing it at first.

    There’s no timeline here. Not really. But there is a shift – a specific kind – that seems to change everything. One that doesn’t involve forcing symptoms away or figuring it all out right now.

    It’s smaller than that. And also, strangely, bigger.

    That’s where the episode lands.

    Tune in to find out more.

    (This is an AI-generated episode inspired by my YouTube videos. I personally moderate these to share insights more efficiently, keeping the content informative yet completely free.)

    Key Takeaways:

    • Introduction (00:00)
    • Question of urgency: "How long?" (00:25)
    • The paradox of rushing recovery (03:00)
    • Focus on 1% daily improvement (04:28)
    • Fighting symptoms reinforces the problem (06:30)
    • Unique recovery paths and roadblocks (08:08)
    • The importance of guidance or coaching (10:19)

    Additional Resources:

    ➡️ To accelerate your recovery journey, book a call to see if the mentorship with Shaan's team will help your specific situation

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    16 min
  • Why Panic Hits You in the Car (And How to Take Back Control)
    Jun 5 2025

    You used to drive without thinking. Now, even the idea of getting on the freeway feels like too much. Sound familiar?

    It rarely begins with something dramatic. Maybe you skipped one route. Then another. Until even a quick trip feels loaded – like you’re stepping into something uncertain, and your own body might turn against you mid-route.

    The fear doesn’t always come from where you think it does. Sometimes it’s not the road, or the traffic, or even the car itself – it’s something quieter, harder to name, that shows up anyway.

    This episode unpacks what’s really happening when panic shows up behind the wheel. Why it begins. Why it lingers. And what your brain might be getting wrong when it keeps sounding the alarm.

    It doesn’t offer quick fixes or clichés. But it does trace the patterns behind the panic – and the surprising ways they can begin to shift.

    Tune in!

    (This is an AI-generated episode inspired by my YouTube videos. I personally moderate these to share insights more efficiently, keeping the content informative yet completely free.)

    Key Takeaways:

    • Introduction (00:00)
    • Driving anxiety often begins subtly and escalates (00:10)
    • Fear is about panic, not driving itself (01:17)
    • Escape urge stems from discomfort, not actual danger (05:00)
    • Exposure and acceptance retrain the brain (07:05)
    • Panic rarely affects actual driving control (08:54)
    • Take small recovery steps like driveway sitting (11:01)

    Additional Resources:

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    12 min
  • Give Me 8 Minutes And I'll Cure Your Panic Attacks
    Jun 3 2025

    I used to think I had to fight panic to beat it. Control the heart racing. Stop the spiraling thoughts. Avoid any place where “it” might happen.

    Spoiler: That only made it worse.

    The more I ran from panic, the more power it had over me. Until one day, my body was so exhausted from anxiety… it literally couldn’t produce a panic attack anymore. I wasn’t healed. I was just burnt out.

    That’s when I learned the truth: Panic attacks aren’t dangerous. They’re adrenaline surges. And the key isn’t stopping them – it’s feeling them, fully, without resistance.

    In this episode, I’m sharing how I unlearned everything I thought would help and finally broke free from the panic cycle. You’ll hear exactly why distraction techniques and breathing hacks don’t work long-term – and how doing “nothing” is the most powerful thing you can do.

    Tune in – this might be the shift you’ve been missing.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Intro (00:00)
    • Avoidance fuels more panic, not less (00:40)
    • Panic attacks are just adrenaline surges (01:46)
    • Panic attacks are uncomfortable, not dangerous (02:40)
    • The cure is going through the panic, not avoiding it (03:28)
    • Experience a panic attack without resisting it (04:26)
    • Don’t assign meaning to symptoms – just feel them (06:10)
    • Lasting recovery means feeling it, not fixing it (08:04)

    Additional Resources:

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    10 min
  • How to Overcome an Anxiety Relapse FOR GOOD
    May 30 2025

    I used to think every setback on my anxiety healing journey meant I was starting from scratch.

    I'd have weeks where I finally felt good — calm, clear, even a little hopeful — and then the panic would return out of nowhere. My heart would race, and I'd think, “Here we go again. I’m broken. Nothing’s working.”

    And every time, that fear of “relapsing” would send me spiraling.

    But what if feeling anxious again isn’t a sign of failure... but part of the process? What if the real key to healing has nothing to do with how you feel, and everything to do with how you respond when you don’t feel okay?

    In this episode, I’m sharing the single mindset shift that changed everything for me — especially when I thought I was relapsing. It’s the lesson I wish I had known the first time I panicked in a grocery store or burst into tears at work.

    Tune in and let’s talk about what a “relapse” really is — and why it might be the best thing that’s ever happened for your recovery.

    This could be the shift that finally sets you free!

    Key Takeaways:

    • Intro (00:00)
    • Anxiety is both physical and mental (00:07)
    • Slipping back into symptoms (02:23)
    • Measuring progress by reaction, not feelings (03:15)
    • Choosing not to be a victim (05:05)
    • Recovery comes from within (08:53)
    • Scaling 'Bye Bye Panic' and managing stress (09:49)

    Additional Resources:

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    14 min
  • How the Four Stages of Anxiety Recovery Actually Work
    May 29 2025

    Recovery doesn’t usually look the way people expect. It’s not a straight line, and it definitely doesn’t come with a clear finish line. Most of the time, it feels a bit confusing. Some days you’re sure you’re moving forward. Other days, it feels like nothing’s changing at all.

    What helps is realizing there’s actually a pattern to all of it. Not a strict formula, but a set of stages that many people go through – each with its own challenges and turning points.

    One stage is all about trying to make the symptoms disappear as fast as possible. Another might look like you’re handling things better, but underneath there’s still a lot of frustration. And then there’s the stage where you start doing things again – not because you’ve “fixed” anything, but because those things matter to you.

    This episode walks through what those stages tend to look like in real life. Not as a checklist, but more like a map. If you’ve been feeling stuck or unsure of what progress even means, this might give you some clarity.

    Tune in!

    (This is an AI-generated episode inspired by my YouTube videos. I personally moderate these to share insights more efficiently, keeping the content informative yet completely free.)

    Key Takeaways:

    • Introduction (00:00)
    • Stage 1: Urgency to eliminate symptoms and avoid triggers (01:04)
    • Stage 2: First encounters with the idea of acceptance (02:24)
    • Stage 3: Hidden resistance behind so-called acceptance (03:47)
    • Stage 4: Shifting focus from recovery to meaningful living (05:38)
    • Real recovery decouples feelings from behavior (06:54)
    • Recap (07:38)

    Additional Resources:

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    10 min