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What do you do when your child comes out to you?

How do you support a transgender or nonbinary child — especially when it feels unfamiliar, overwhelming, or even scary?

In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Lulu, also known as The Momatrician — a pediatrician, parent coach, gender and sexuality educator, and the proud mom of a transgender child. But her journey didn’t begin with full understanding and acceptance.

Dr. Lulu opens up about:

Her honest, emotional response when her child came out
Growing up queer in a conservative Nigerian Catholic household
Why parental affirmation is life-saving for LGBTQ+ youth
The difference between accepting your child and truly affirming them
How parents can grow, even if they make mistakes

Whether you're a parent, educator, or someone seeking to understand the transgender experience better, this conversation will touch your heart and expand your perspective.

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📘 Dr. Lulu’s Book: About Your Black Transgender Child: Answers to Most of Your Burning Questions

🎙️ Podcast: Moms for Trans Kids

YouTube Podcast: Moms 4 Trans Kids

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Timestamps:
00:00 Introduction
03:10 Dr. Lulu’s story of growing up queer
08:45 How she responded when her child came out
14:20 Understanding gender identity vs. biological sex
22:00 What it truly means to affirm your LGBTQ+ child
30:50 Advice for parents just starting this journey

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