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In this interview, Kai shares his deeply personal experience as an alienated child who grew up under the influence of a stepmother who slowly undermined his connection with his father and extended family. He describes how, as a young boy craving maternal warmth, he bonded intensely with his stepmother, only to later realize that he was being manipulated, isolated, and indoctrinated with false beliefs about his father.

Kai recounts the subtle and overt tactics used to control him: secrets, fear-based messaging, parentification, financial manipulation, and pressure to align with the stepmother in family conflict. He describes how her escalating conflicts with his father created a chaotic and often unsafe environment.

Over time, Kai slowly reconnected with his father, supported by his grandparents, and recognized the manipulation he had experienced. Now as a young adult, he reflects on the ongoing alienation of his siblings and fears for their emotional development, safety, and future. His insight becomes a powerful warning about generational cycles of alienation and the long-term damage it causes.

• Kai explains how lacking a maternal figure made him especially vulnerable to bonding quickly with his stepmother.

Subtle Grooming & Control

• The stepmother used conversations, secrets, and fear-based scenarios to influence Kai.

Exposure to Adult Conflict

• Kai recalls constant arguments, financial stress, legal battles, and adult disclosures he was not developmentally equipped to process.

Separation & False Allegations

• When the relationship dissolved, Kai and his brother were suddenly cut off from the younger siblings.

Identity Conflict & Realignment

• Kai shares the internal confusion and guilt as he began questioning what was real.

Ongoing Alienation of Younger Siblings

• Lily is aware something is wrong and expresses longing for her father and brothers.

Impact on Mental Health

• Lily expressing suicidal thoughts reflects the severe psychological burden she carries.

1. Alienation Often Begins Subtly and Feels Like Love at First

Children may bond intensely with an alienating parent because the manipulation begins with affection, attention, and approval.

2. Children Are Conditioned Through Stories, Secrets, and Fear

Alienating parents often weaponize adult information, fear-based messaging, and loyalty conflicts to rewrite a child’s reality.

3. False Allegations Are a Common Escalation Tactic

Coached memories and CPS involvement can be used strategically to sever the child’s attachment to the targeted parent.

4. Alienation Damages Sibling Bonds

The separation from siblings is a profound wound that can last a lifetime.

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Alejandro shares an emotional and deeply troubling account of how parental alienation consumed his family following his wife’s cancer diagnosis. After years of being the primary caregiver, he suddenly lost his children when his mother-in-law abducted them, used false allegations, manipulated court processes, and exploited a vulnerable, terminally ill parent. His story exposes systemic failures—law enforcement dismissing kidnapping as a “civil issue,” courts approving actions without proper service, judges ignoring legal protections, and property theft occurring alongside the loss of his children.

Despite losing contact for nearly two years, facing fabricated narratives, and enduring legal corruption in two countries, Alejandro continues fighting through international Hague proceedings and federal filings. His message to other targeted parents is one of endurance, faith, and refusing to give up—because children, even when alienated, still rely on the targeted parent to keep fighting.

1. The Beginning: Loving Family & Sudden Crisis

• Alejandro describes a once-strong 17-year marriage and deep bond with his two young sons.

2. The Turning Point: Interference & Abduction

• His mother-in-law repeatedly violated boundaries and initiated covert alienation.

3. System Failure & Court Corruption

• Alejandro was never properly served because his contact information was intentionally changed by opposing counsel.

4. International Legal Battle

• Alejandro filed a Hague Convention case for the return of his children.
• Despite laws that prohibit custody changes during Hague actions, the judge proceeded anyway.

5. The Children’s Indoctrination

• His sons have been coached to fear him, reject him, and repeat false narratives.

6. A Father’s Resolve

• Despite nearly two years without contact, he refuses to stop fighting.

1. Severe Alienation Often Begins Quietly

Subtle behaviors—sleeping arrangements, fear-based cues, exaggerated reactions, laid the foundation for later coercive control.

2. Lack of Legal Safeguards Harms Children

Police and courts frequently mislabel abduction and coercive control as “civil matters,” leaving children unprotected.

3. False Allegations Are Powerful Tools

Protection orders based on fabricated claims can sever parent-child relationships instantly.

4. Court Misconduct Intensifies Trauma

Failure to notify parties, ignored affidavits, and conflicts of interest can derail justice entirely.

5. Alienated Children Repeat What They’ve Been Taught

When kids are isolated and indoctrinated, they lose the ability to recall their own experiences.

6. Persistence Is Essential

Alejandro’s resilience shows the critical importance of continuing the fight, even when the system fails.

7. Hope Remains

Alienated children often reunify later in life once the psychological manipulation lifts.

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🎙️ Episode Summary

In this deeply moving episode of Fractured Families, Charity speaks with Mindaugas Kadūnas, a father from Lithuania who shares his harrowing experience of parental alienation, false allegations, and systemic failure.

Mindaugas recounts the devastating impact of false sexual abuse allegations, emotional manipulation, and a court system that failed to protect his child from psychological harm. Despite multiple psychological evaluations confirming maternal emotional abuse and alienation, authorities dismissed his concerns, and his daughter remains estranged and fearful.

Through grief, fear, and disbelief, Mindaugas continues to fight for justice and awareness. His message is one of perseverance and solidarity with other targeted parents: “If you’re going through this, hold on. Reach out. You’re not alone.”

💬 Talking Points

1. The Beginning

• How Mindaugas met his wife during a mountain climbing trip while both were exiting previous marriages.

2. Family Life and Hope

• The early joy of fatherhood and the deep bond with his daughter.

3. Manipulation and Control

• The turning point during the building of their home: control over property, finances, and emotional dependency.

4. The Breaking Point

• His attempt to redefine the relationship (open marriage suggestion) led to explosive retaliation.

5. The Alienation Begins

• Immediate narrative shift: he became “the bad guy” and “a danger.”

6. False Allegations

• His wife fabricated sexual abuse accusations, resulting in panic attacks and criminal investigations.

7. Systemic Failures

• Lithuanian child services repeatedly ignored court-verified findings of abuse.

8. Complete Estrangement

• He has not seen or spoken to his daughter in over three and a half years.

9. The Emotional Toll

• Long-term psychological impact: panic attacks, despair, and disbelief at institutional apathy.

10. Message to Other Parents

• “Hold on. I’ve been in a dark place. There is light ahead.”

🧩 Key Takeaways

• Parental alienation is emotional abuse. It destroys trust, identity, and attachment between a child and a loving parent.
• False allegations are often weaponized in high-conflict custody cases, and even when disproven, the stigma remains.
• Recovery and awareness are possible through connection, advocacy, and global understanding of alienation dynamics.
• Systemic change is needed worldwide to protect children from being used as tools of control and revenge.

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