We all do it.

When there’s silence, ambiguity, or the absence of clear feedback, we fill in the blanks with stories. But here’s the problem: our minds don’t reach for generous interpretations.

They default to criticism, fear, and doubt. Whether it’s giving a talk, navigating a friendship, or reflecting on ourselves, we often assume the worst, even when reality is far more kind. Evolutionary survival instincts, societal conditioning, and inner critics keep us stuck in fear-based thinking. What if there was a powerful alternative (spoiler alert, there is!) - reconnecting to the present moment, our curiosity, and embodied awareness brings us back to center so that we can really see the truth in front of us.

But what happens when we let those made-up stories dictate our behavior, disconnecting us from others and ourselves?

In this episode, we unpack the human tendency to assume the worst, especially in the absence of feedback. We dive into how we can stop making up stories and start living from wonder instead.

Things You’ll Learn in This Episode

-From defensiveness to discovery
Why does your mind automatically assume the worst when you don’t have all the information? How can you retrain it to lead with curiosity instead?

-The power of “I’m making up a story”
How does owning your internal narrative out loud open the door to deeper connection, especially in moments of tension or misunderstanding?

-The loop of awareness
What happens when we shift attention between ourselves and others, and how can this “loop” help us co-create instead of self-isolate?

-Reconnect through the body
Why does presence live in your body, not your head, and how can physical awareness stop fear from spiraling into self-doubt?

About Your Hosts

Katie Hendricks, Ph.D., BC-DMT, is a pioneer in body intelligence and conscious loving with over 40 years of experience. Known internationally as a presenter and seminar leader, she focuses on authenticity, responsibility, and appreciation in conscious living. She co-authored 12 books, including best-sellers Conscious Loving and Conscious Loving Ever After and she has appeared on over 500 radio and TV programs.

Sophie Chiche is a seasoned coach and consultant who has worked with thousands of individuals and teams globally. With a focus on helping people live fully expressed lives, she guides clients and facilitates group sessions to remove obstacles and design meaningful lives. Sophie has developed unique methods, mindset shifts, and healing modalities to create lasting change.

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