In this soul-stirring episode of The Mess and the Magic, I sit down with glitter powerhouse and truth-telling oracle, Chris Dyer: a woman who isn’t afraid to go deep, disrupt the norm, and drop wisdom like it’s gospel. From walking away from a “perfect” life that didn’t fit to reclaiming her emotional sovereignty, Chris shares what it really looks like to de-program from people-pleasing, perfectionism, and performance and finally come home to yourself.

We talk about breaking free from invisible prisons, how love isn’t something to earn but something we are, and why the feminine path to leadership starts with radical rest and brutal honesty. Plus, we get into her upcoming children’s book rooted in Earth science and spiritual values, her journey off antidepressants, and the power of non-traditional relationships that support growth instead of suppress it.

This is a deep breath of truth, a firelight in the dark, and a permission slip to live unboxed.

Key Takeaways:

• Emotional sobriety and healing aren’t about “fixing,” they’re about remembering who you are underneath the noise.

• Rest and recovery aren’t luxuries. They’re liberation practices.

• “Every day is training day.” Self-leadership starts with daily intention.

• There is power in walking away - from relationships, roles, or rules that don’t honor your truth.

• Authentic connection, especially between women, is the future of healing and leadership.

• "Soulmate" isn't a title someone earns, it’s who you become for yourself first.

• We are the healers, leaders, and creators we’ve been waiting for and the world needs us now more than ever.

  
  

  Who this episode is for:

• The woman who’s done everything “right” and still feels wrong inside.

• The recovering people-pleaser craving a deeper kind of peace.

• The leader who’s tired of being strong and ready to be soft, seen, and supported.

• The one in the middle of her own identity death and rebirth, wondering if she’s doing it right (you are).

• Any soul who’s choosing curiosity over conformity and truth over tradition.

  
  

  Find more about -

  Casey Jade: https://highestself.me/

  Chris Dyer: https://chrisdyerconsulting.com/

  
  

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