If sex feels disconnected, mechanical, or just not happening, then the real block might not be desire… it might be safety.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why emotional safety is the foundation of intimacy and how it creates the conditions for passion, polarity, and lasting connection.

• What emotional safety really means and why “not fighting” isn’t enough
• How polarity and turn-on are fuelled by safety in both masculine and feminine energy
• What is the hidden cost of ignoring safety, and how does it erode intimacy over time
• What are some simple, daily practices that build safety, trust, and connection
• Why safety is the foundation of better sex and not just more sex.

If you’re craving sex that feels alive, nourishing, and deeply connected, this episode is your reminder: it all starts with safety.

OUR NOVEMBER 20–24 GROUP RETREAT IS A FULL TANTRA EXPERIENCE AND REGISTRATION IS NOW OPEN

Here’s what you’ll experience:
• Practices that bring your body into safety so pleasure can expand
• Tools to rewire old patterns of shame, disconnection, or performance
• Sacred intimacy rituals that turn sex into something nourishing and electric
• Private time to take everything you’ve learned into your own bed

👉 Say yes to your aliveness and reserve your retreat spot here
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/groupretreats

👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this feels right for you
https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

Because when safety is present, passion naturally follows.

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.
Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

and https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

Every couple knows the ache of mismatched desire — when one of you is longing for more intimacy, while the other feels pulled back or pressured.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share how to reframe desire mismatch from a source of conflict into an opportunity for deeper connection, presence, and intimacy.

• Why mismatched desires don’t mean your relationship is broken and how to see them as an invitation.
• Why honouring the cycles reduces shame.
• How stress or safety influences your ability to feel aroused.
• What is the hidden emotional toll of rejection and pressure when a desire mismatch goes unspoken
• Why intimacy takes practice and the simple daily rituals that reconnect you outside and inside the bedroom.

Desire mismatch isn’t the end. It can be the doorway into more truth, more trust, and more erotic aliveness.

Our Group Retreats at Phoenix Rising are now open for registration.

Here’s what you can expect November 20–24:
• A lakeside sanctuary with space to slow down and breathe again
• Daily practices that build intimacy, presence, and passion
• Support from us in an intimate, like-minded group
• Nourishing meals, cozy fires, and private moments together with no distractions
• The chance to take everything you’re learning back into your bedroom…and feel the difference

If you’ve been waiting for the right time, this is it.

Come and see how much more is possible for your relationship.

Only 5 couples. First-come, first-served for your room selection (GeoDomes or cottage rooms).

👉 Reserve your retreat spot here: https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/bookgroupretreat
👉 Or book a free Exploration Call to ask your questions and see if this is the right fit. https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com/explorationcall

Because your love story deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive.

About us:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

and https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com

So many of us were told that passion fades with age and that once you’re in your 40s, 50s, or beyond, intimacy is over.

We’re here to call bullsh!t on that story.

In this episode of the Get Your Sexy Back Podcast for Couples, we share why intimacy can actually deepen with age and how to reignite the spark in your relationship, no matter where you are on the journey.

• Busting the myth that passion naturally fades in long-term relationships.
• The hidden cost of avoiding intimacy and how it impacts your whole life.
• Why midlife and menopause aren’t endings, but portals to deeper erotic energy and aliveness.
• The five kinds of intimacy that matter and are beyond just sex.
• Why retreats create breakthroughs that vacations or date nights never could.

If you’ve been feeling like it’s “too late” to get the passion back… this episode is your reminder that intimacy is waiting for you.

💫 Book your complimentary Exploration Call to explore whether a Phoenix Rising Retreat — private or group — is the right next step for you and your partner.

Because your relationship deserves more than survival. It deserves to thrive.

ABOUT US:

Kim & Roberto are the co-founders of Phoenix Rising Retreats, and the real-life couple behind the mic. Together, they guide couples into deeper body, mind, and soul-based connection through sacred sexuality, Tantra, conscious communication, and nervous system healing.

Kim is a teacher, speaker, and Bestselling Author, bringing years of trauma-informed, professionally certified Intimacy, Relationship & Tantra coaching experience to the podcast mic...

And Roberto joins her side, sharing his grounded masculine insight, hard-knocks inspired wisdom, and a refreshing no-BS perspective on what it actually takes to show up in love.

What started as their own late-night “date night” Tantric adventures turned into a life-changing journey... and now, a re-birthed podcast season for couples who are ready to reignite their passion, deepen their partnership, and rise together.

They’re here to tell the truth about what it means to build sacred partnership- not the filtered, social-media version, but the real, raw, beautifully messy kind that actually lasts.

Follow us below and continue the convo!

Facebook - https://www.facebook.com/kimberly.moore.coffin

Instagram -   https://www.instagram.com/get_your_sexy_back_coach/

TikTok - https://www.tiktok.com/@phoenix.rising.retreats

Website - https://getyoursexyback.ca/

and https://www.phoenixrisingretreats.com