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Jodi shares her journey of healing from an 18-year abusive marriage and the courage it took to rebuild her life on her own terms. Through raw conversation, she reveals how starting over multiple times taught her the power of putting herself first and recognizing her own worth independent of relationships.

• Embracing "day one, not one day" as a philosophy for starting over
• Recognizing early warning signs of controlling behavior in relationships
• How physical health problems can signal emotional trauma
• The challenge of leaving "for the kids" and why waiting rarely helps
• Healing from love bombing and manipulation patterns
• Learning to give yourself the same grace you extend to others
• The importance of asking for help from your support network
• Finding peace without needing closure from your abuser
• Trusting your gut when it tells you something isn't right

If you're struggling in a relationship or working to heal from past trauma, remember that you deserve peace and happiness. You're stronger than you think, and your worth isn't defined by anyone else.

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Today I am sharing a personal milestone: my published poetry collection titled "Love: Thoughts from Crumpled Pages"

*Dedication: to those who continue to cheer me on (in public and in private). To those who broke my heart into pieces. To me. With my deepest appreciation, thank you.

*This collection of poems, thoughts, and ramblings has been sown together from notes, journals, crumpled pieces of paper, and 3am dreams. I am still working on loving all of me.

1. The Shutdown - "You never realize your light went out, until you look back and all you see is darkness." Me

2. Lies - "Half a truth is often a great lie." Benjamin Franklin

3. Lost - "Now you're lost, lost in the heat of it all." Frank Ocean

4. Death of Love - "Don't break your own heart trying to fill someone else's. " Bianca Sparacino

5. Faith - "So we live by faith and not sight." 2 Corinthians 5:7

6. Space - "The right one does not stand in your way. They make peace for you to step forward." Rupi Kaur

7. Sun and Moon - "You never know when a moment and a few sincere words, can have an impact on a life." Zig Ziglar

8. Attached - "It takes two flints to make a fire." Louisa May Alcott

9. Maybe for Real - "Maybe the time, like every time, it is about me." Me

10. Was it Love? - "Love is when you meet someone who tells you something new about yourself." Andre Breton

11. At First - "You had me at hello." Jerry Maguire

12. Quiet Love - "And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity." Collossians 3:14

13. I Want - "Find someone you can heal with." Young Pueblo

14. To Be Honest - "You have dug your soul out of dark, you have fought to be here, do not go back to what buried you." Bianca Sparacino

15. Turn Around - "Sometimes we go back and repeat an old mistake just so we can remember why we moved forward." Young Pueblo

16. One Foot - "Lovers are Lunatics" - Latin saying

17. Maybe - "Maybe this time, for the first time. Love won't hurry away. Maybe this time. Maybe this time, I'll win." - Maybe This Time

18. Peace - "You cannot love someone into loving you if they do not." Bianca Sparacino

19. It Starts - "Taking a moment to figure out how you really feel instead of letting old patterns decide for you is one of the most authentic things you can do." Young Pueblo

20. She Is - "You always find it when you stop looking." - Me

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Thank you for lending me your ears while I pour out a very vulnerable side of me.

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Justin shares his powerful journey of being adopted from Tijuana, Mexico to two white lesbian parents in rural Wisconsin and how he navigated identity, loss, and finding his authentic self. From dealing with the passing of his beloved grandparents to meeting his birth mother in a full-circle moment, his story reveals how breaking free from limiting environments leads to personal healing.

• Growing up as a Mexican adoptee in a conservative white community created a constant feeling of being unsafe outside his home
• Losing his grandparents during college sent him down a dark path before he found healthier ways to process grief
• College provided his first opportunity to remove the "mask" he'd worn and connect with diverse people who accepted him fully
• Meeting his birth mother at 21 in the same hotel where he was adopted created a profound healing experience
• Reconnecting with childhood joys like soccer helped him honor his grandparents' memory rather than staying stuck in grief
• Learning to stop chasing love and instead attract authentic relationships by staying true to himself
• Finding healing through embracing "safe discomfort" and honoring his inner child's happiness

If you're struggling with loss or identity, remember that who you were is different from who you are, which is different from who you will be. Stay cute, stay loud and keep dancing, even when everyone's watching.

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