We discuss why it’s useful to dust off unused items--and either start using them or give them away. We also share a happiness hack from a listener who explains why it can be very valuable to give physical therapy another chance. Finally, we explore the Secret of Adulthood about cultivating friendship, and we answer a listener's question about how and why fictional characters often embody the Four Tendencies framework.

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• Order your copy of Secrets of Adulthood
• A Little Happier: Easy Answers or Hard Truths: Whom Do You Trust?
• Organization Hub
• Take the quiz for the Four Tendencies personality profile
• Elizabeth is reading: King Leopold’s Ghost by Adam Hochschild (Amazon, Bookshop)
• Gretchen is reading: Pick the Lock by A.S. King (Amazon, Bookshop)

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Distinguishing helpful from unhelpful criticism is a challenge that every creative person faces. No formula exists for knowing which criticism to heed; we must each develop our own discernment.

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We discuss how regret and reflection can help us make better decisions in the future, and increase our happiness. Regret can be a hard thing to talk about. Many people who actually prefer to avoid using the word. By anticipating future regret, we can make better choices in the present, and by reflecting on past regret, we can think about how to do better moving forward.

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• How Regret Can Make Us Happier

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We explore why making a list of your favorite words ("whimsy," "crackle," "latibulate") and using them can boost happiness. We share a simple hack that makes packing easier, and we reflect on a dog-related Secret of Adulthood. We also tackle a listener question about how to manage Obliger-rebellion when facing increased workload after coworker layoffs.

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• Order your copy of Secrets of Adulthood
• Sign up for the Happier in Hollywood Substack newsletter
• Happiness Hack: Ratio method of 3:1
• Quiz for the Four Tendencies personality framework
• I Want You to Know journal
• Elizabeth is reading: Lights Out by Navessa Allen (Amazon, Bookshop)
• Gretchen is reading: The Catastrophe Hour by Meghan Daum (Amazon, Bookshop)

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Certain moments inspire my "America feeling"—a profound connection to the ideals of the United States. For instance, the formal words of the opening ritual for a session of the United States Supreme Court reminds me of the value of justice.

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We talk about the happiness, rewards, and challenges of having a new dog.

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• Support your favorite indie booksellers and enjoy a fun perk from Bookshop
• Follow me on Instagram for photos and videos of Taffy
• Read Secrets of Adulthood

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We’re excited to introduce you to Confessions of a Female Founder with Meghan, a new show from Lemonada Media.

As Meghan, Duchess of Sussex builds out a business of her own, she’s getting advice and insights from a handful of amazing women who have scaled small ideas into successful companies. These fly-on-the-wall conversations will no doubt inspire anyone who’s interested in turning their own entrepreneurial dreams into a reality and anyone else who just wants to hear what really happens behind the scenes.

In this episode, you’ll hear Meghan in conversation with Reshma Saujani, the founder of Girls Who Code and Moms First—and a recent guest on our friendship roundtable. The two reunite to talk about redesigning workplaces for women and how to make the hard choice to put your health (and yourself) before your work.

After you listen, be sure to follow Confessions of a Female Founder wherever you get your podcasts, or head to: https://lemonada.lnk.to/confessionsofafemalefounderfd

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We discuss why arriving right on time for events makes it easier to have fun and to network (especially for introverts or newcomers). We also share the benefits of using an ordinary weekly pill organizer, and explore research supporting the Secret of Adulthood: “One of the best ways to find friends is to make friends with the friends of our friends.” Plus, a listener asks for suggestions about how to request support from family and friends after her recent diabetes diagnosis.

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• Order your copy of Secrets of Adulthood
• Happier in Hollywood Substack newsletter
• More discussion of networking in Happier in Hollywood episode 413
• Elizabeth is reading: After I Do by Taylor Jenkins Reid (Amazon, Bookshop)
• Gretchen is reading: An Accidental Man by Iris Murdoch (Amazon, Bookshop)

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