Feeling burnt out or constantly critical of yourself? In this episode, we explore how becoming your own best friend can radically transform your life, mindset, and self-worth. Learn how to talk to yourself with more compassion, set better boundaries, and build a life rooted in inner support—not just external validation.

⏱️ Episode Timestamps

00:00 - Intro: A message to the burnt-out overachiever

02:14 - What does it mean to be your own best friend?

04:51 - The difference between self-care and self-respect

07:36 - Why high-achievers often struggle with self-compassion

12:05 - “If you wouldn’t say it to a friend, don’t say it to yourself”

14:22 - Steps to stop being your own worst critic

17:47 - Internal validation vs. external chasing

21:30 - The surprising power of treating yourself kindly

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→ Our favorite book on inner dialogue: What to Say When You Talk to Yourself by Shad Helmstetter

→ Need a reset? Try the Life Reboot Intensive: https://fiveyearyou.com/reboot

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