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In this episode, Martina dives deep into the real story behind New Year’s resolutions — why they started, how they got hijacked by marketing, and why January is actually the worst month to try and reinvent yourself.

Sharing her personal experience, Martina explains why she shifted her “new year” to August, giving herself the space and time to build habits that truly last — without shame, pressure, or burnout. She explores:

• The surprising history of New Year’s resolutions and why they weren’t about self-improvement.
• How your nervous system drives your habits more than ambition or willpower.
• Why consistency beats intensity — and why 70% effort actually works better than 100%.
• The power of identity-based habits vs. future fantasies.
• Why doing less before you do more can create space for real growth.

If you’ve ever felt guilty for “failing” your New Year’s resolutions, this episode is a refreshing reminder: the right time to start isn’t dictated by a calendar — it’s about your rhythm, your nervous system, and building sustainable habits that honor you.

✨ Listen in and learn how to start small, start grounded, and start on your own terms — so you can actually keep the promises you make to yourself.

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In this episode, Martina dives into the invisible pressure so many women carry: the mental load, the emotional labor, the endless juggling of work, home, health, appearance, partnership, family, and everyone’s feelings. Whether you have kids or not, whether you work from home or outside the house, the load is real. And for so many women, it never turns off.

In a world that tells women “you can have it all,” many of us are quietly burning out trying to be it all.

And for millennial women — the first generation who lived both with and without technology, the first to be told “go build a career first, children later,” the first to carry both the old expectations and the new freedoms — the pressure is uniquely intense.

So today, Martina unpacks:

• Why so many women secretly feel like something is “wrong” with them
• How emotional labor and mental load drain your health, your joy, and your energy
• The millennial generational trap of “do it all, do it perfectly, and don’t complain.”
• Why more choice sometimes means more pressure
• The quiet resentment so many women carry — and what it’s really trying to tell you
• Most importantly: how to step out of the cycle and finally breathe again

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In this episode, Martina digs into the art of speaking your truth in a way that actually lands — not the kind that blows up in your face or keeps you awake at night replaying the moment. She walks you through why honesty feels so complicated, how to tell the difference between the right truth and the wrong moment, and what it really means to be honest without abandoning yourself or overwhelming someone else.

If you’ve ever bitten your tongue, over-explained yourself, or said something you immediately regretted… this episode is going to feel like that deep exhale you didn’t know you needed. We’re talking clarity, compassion, confidence — and how to make your truth something that connects, not pushes people away.

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In today’s episode, Martina pulls back the curtain on the moment every woman knows too well — when you create something, feel a spark… and then your brain ambushes you with doubt. She’s sharing the unfiltered story behind her recent podcast pause: the insecurity spiral, the overthinking, and the exact moment she almost deleted an episode she’d just poured her heart into.

She dives into the razor-thin line between discernment and self-sabotage, and why so many women — especially high-achievers — get trapped in the “good girl” loop of needing things to be perfect before they’re “allowed” to exist.

If you’ve ever had an idea, a post, a project, a dream sitting in drafts because it didn’t feel flawless yet… this episode is your permission slip and your wake-up call.

Because the truth is: your confidence doesn’t grow from polishing. It grows from publishing.

Tune in for a hit of courage, self-trust, and a reminder that your next breakthrough is hiding behind the thing you’re scared to share. 💛

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In this episode, Martina dives into the truth we all need to hear: your job doesn’t have to be your dream.

Your work is just a chapter, not the whole story of your life. It’s a tool — a way to pay bills, gain stability, and create space for the life you really want. Martina shares how to make your job fit into your life, instead of fitting your life into your job, and how to let your soul, passions, and dreams grow quietly behind the scenes.

You’ll hear practical tips for:

• Using your job to fund your freedom, not define your meaning
• Finding what you truly love and making room for it
• Turning your 9–5 into a stepping stone for your dream life
• Making small, intentional choices that build your life outside of work

If you’ve ever felt stuck in a job that doesn’t light you up — or pressured to “find meaning” in work — this episode is a wake-up call. Your job is just one chapter; your life is the masterpiece.

Tune in and learn how to stop waiting for the perfect job and start building the life you actually want, today.

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In this episode, Martina gets real about envy — yes, that green, uncomfortable feeling you’ve been trained to see as bad. She shares her own story of catching envy creeping in when a friend’s life looked effortless, and how she learned to metabolize it instead of shoving it down or projecting it onto others.

Martina offers practical tips to sit with envy, dialogue with it, and turn it into a compass that points toward freedom, ease, and permission to live life on your own terms. By the end, you’ll see that the emotion everyone hides isn’t shameful — it’s a doorway to growth, clarity, and even a little bit of magic.

Tune in, lean in, and let Martina show you how to turn green into gold.

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In this episode, Martina gets real — raw coffee-in-hand, dogs snoring in the background, and a mic that almost didn’t work. After seven months off the podcast, she dives straight into what’s been sitting heavy on her heart: the quiet grief of a friendship that hasn’t ended, but has changed.

She reflects on the bittersweetness of adult friendships — how some people we love deeply just don’t show up the way we wish they would. Martina opens up about accepting people as they are, holding space for heartbreak without judgment, and finding beauty in the friendships that no longer look how they used to.

If you’ve ever missed someone who’s still alive, still around, but just… not there, this one will speak right to you.

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In today’s episode, Martina dives deep unpacking how suppressing your true emotions can lead to that explosive “other side” — a reaction fueled by pent-up anger rather than empowered, integrated self-loyalty.

Martina shares eye-opening research on how emotional suppression can heighten stress and even affect physical health, and she explains why retaliatory outbursts aren’t the answer.

Key Points:

• Understanding the buildup of “emotional debt” from constantly putting others first.

• The difference between a reactive, vengeful response and the integrated, confident self that sets healthy boundaries.

• Research insights, including findings on emotional suppression from the Journal of Psychosomatic Research, and how self-compassion can transform our response to conflict.

• Practical strategies for expressing your needs before reaching the breaking point, so you can maintain your authenticity without burning bridges.

Join Martina as she offers practical tips and heartfelt insights into breaking the cycle of people-pleasing, and reclaiming your power—before your “other side” has a chance to take over.

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