We’ve been sold a narrow, rigid definition of fluency: sound like a native speaker, speak without hesitation, never make mistakes. But here’s the truth—it’s time to unlearn that.

In this episode, we challenge the myths that keep language learners stuck. We talk about the silent pressure to be perfect, the shame of “not being there yet,” and why so many people feel voiceless even after years of study. This is where we begin reframing fluency as something more sustainable, more human, and more yours.

• Why the traditional definition of fluency doesn’t serve most learners
• The myth of “native-like” perfection—and why it’s harmful
• A better way to understand fluency: flexible, evolving, and voice-first
• The quiet power of learning in a way that honors who you are

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• Companion worksheet
• Extended reflection prompts and journal space

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Welcome to Native To Me. In this opening episode, we step into the heart of what this podcast is all about: reclaiming voice, redefining fluency, and choosing language as something personal, not perfect. We explore the three podcast series within Native To Me and invite you to reimagine what language learning can feel like.

Takeaways:

• The purpose and structure of the podcast
• What it means to make a language "native to you"
• An invitation to choose a path that fits you