In this conversation, Dr. Elizabeth Hechavarria and Nicola Beer explore the intricate relationship between trauma and love, discussing how childhood experiences shape adult relationships. They delve into the significance of somatic therapy, attachment styles, and the impact of betrayal trauma. Nicola shares her personal journey of healing through bodywork and plant medicine, emphasizing the importance of integration and ongoing support in the healing process. The discussion highlights the transformative power of understanding oneself through relationships and the potential for growth and healing through various therapeutic approaches.

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Chapters

0:00 Trailer

2:03 Introduction to Trauma and Relationships

6:13 Personal Journey and Healing Through Somatic Therapy

11:14 Understanding Attachment Styles in Relationships

16:11 Navigating Betrayal Trauma

21:07 The Freeze Response and People Pleasing in Relationships

26:45 Setting Boundaries and Saying No

28:11 Exploring Plant Medicine for Healing

32:28 The Role of Psychedelics in Trauma Healing

35:23 Integration and Long-term Relationship Growth

39:42 Spiritual Connection Through Plant Medicine

43:07 Nicola’s Journey with Plant Medicines

46:25 Healing is Possible: Final Thoughts