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Ever wonder what separates successful entrepreneurs from those who struggle for years without breakthrough? Tobiah Rocker's story might just hold the answer.

From borrowing a neighbor's lawnmower as an eight-year-old to fund a school field trip his mother couldn't afford, to building Roof Bullies, a thriving roofing and restoration company, Rocker's journey demonstrates the power of unwavering focus and strategic positioning. Growing up in Tulsa, Oklahoma—home to the historic Black Wall Street—shaped his understanding of both racial dynamics and business opportunity.

The pivotal moment came when Rocker, with zero roofing experience, dramatically underbid a church roofing project. Rather than retreating in embarrassment, he invested $4,500 in a premium ticket to RoofCon, immersing himself completely in an industry where he observed only one other Black business owner among thousands of attendees. This bold move accelerated his learning curve by years, connecting him with multi-millionaire mentors who shared their expertise freely.

What truly distinguishes Rocker is his philosophical foundation: "No one is going to save you," he emphasizes, taking complete responsibility for his success path. At 35, he remains laser-focused on building generational wealth before pursuing personal relationships. His "Squirrel Theory" of success—that success, like a squirrel, cannot be caught by chasing it directly but through strategic positioning and patient value delivery—offers a refreshing counterpoint to hustle culture.

Perhaps most compelling is Rocker's commitment to creating opportunities for others, particularly in trades that remain resilient against AI disruption. His advice to young entrepreneurs? "Try everything, then make a decision and be obsessed with it."

Ready to transform your approach to business and life? Listen now and discover how Tobiah Rocker's principles can help you attract success rather than frantically chase it.

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What separates those who dream about entrepreneurship from those who actually succeed at it? In today’s conversation, brand strategist Rod Brinson reveals how getting laid off after 20+ years in corporate America became the catalyst for his entrepreneurial journey.

We dive deep into what our host Stéphane calls "the ugly duckling phase" of business—those grueling early months when success seems impossible. Insurance agency owner Willie Nash shares stories of sleeping in Walmart parking lots between client meetings, making no money, yet refusing to give up because his desire for freedom was stronger than his fear of failure.

The conversation takes a powerful turn when discussing the critical role of spousal support in entrepreneurial success. It's not just about emotional encouragement; it's about practical partnership. As friend of the show Leon Cohen explains, "It's not the dream that she needs to believe in. It's you." This insight alone could save countless marriages strained by business ambitions.

Rod breaks down the crucial difference between marketing and branding with a brilliantly simple analogy: "Marketing is asking a girl out. Branding is what makes her say yes." He introduces his BRAND framework—Belief, Roadmap, Appearance, Network, and Drive—offering practical wisdom for anyone looking to build something meaningful.

Whether you're contemplating leaving your 9-to-5, struggling to scale your business, or simply seeking clarity on your professional path, this episode delivers actionable insights that could transform how you approach work and life. As Rod powerfully states, "Everybody wants to get a new brand made, but nobody wants to be made brand new."

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Meet Jayden Williams, the 22-year-old mayoral candidate whose resume might just make you question what you've accomplished in your life. With eight years of public service already behind him, this Clark Atlanta University political science graduate is mounting a serious challenge for leadership in Stockbridge, Georgia—and bringing fresh perspective, boundless energy, and surprising depth to the race.

The conversation reveals Williams' journey from community service at age 13 to becoming Youth Mayor in high school, then the youngest Planning Commission Chair in Georgia. But what truly stands out is his methodical preparation for executive leadership—interning in every city department from public works to economic development to understand municipal operations from the ground up.

Williams doesn't shy away from addressing Stockbridge's challenges, particularly the troubling mismanagement of $32.9 million in city funds. His commitment to transparency shines through as he promises a full forensic audit within his first 30 days in office and regular town halls to share findings directly with residents. "We have to find out what's broken before we can fix it," Williams explains with the clarity of someone twice his age.

His vision for Stockbridge blends pragmatism with ambition: rebalancing the tax burden from residential to commercial properties, implementing an "80-20 rule" for housing development to ensure affordable single-family homes remain available, and modernizing city operations that currently operate "in 2016 while we're in 2025." Perhaps most impressive is Williams' approach to engaging young people—meeting them "where they are" rather than expecting them to come to city hall.

When you hear Williams say, "If they don't give you a seat at the table, you take their seat," you'll understand why this young leader represents a new generation in politics—one that's prepared, purposeful, and unwilling to wait their turn. To learn more about this rising political talent who's truly "all in for Stockbridge."

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What happens when a career of service meets an uncompromising vision for economic justice? State Representative Derrick Jackson opens up about his journey from Navy Lieutenant Commander to gubernatorial candidate with a laser focus on family and opportunity for all Georgians.

Growing up as his mother's only son in a single-parent household, Jackson learned the meaning of service early – from shoveling a neighbor's driveway at age seven to commanding thousands in the U.S. Navy. His 42-year leadership journey spans military service, corporate executive experience, and a decade fighting for Georgians at the state legislature.

The conversation takes us beyond policy talking points to reveal the man behind the bow tie. Jackson shares his personal journey through devastating loss after his first wife's death from breast cancer and finding love again, creating a blended family of seven children. This intimate experience shapes his understanding of what Georgia families need to not just survive, but thrive.

At the heart of Jackson's campaign is a bold economic vision addressing Georgia's shockingly low $5.15 minimum wage – a rate he calls unconscionable in a prosperous state. Drawing on his background in economics, he articulates how raising wages and creating opportunities for the 2.3 million Georgians living in poverty would strengthen the entire economy. "When everyone can participate in the marketplace," he explains, "we all benefit."

Jackson doesn't shy away from challenging topics, offering a nuanced perspective on abortion rights that balances personal values with public responsibility. His commitment to expanding access and removing barriers for small Black farmers, veterans, educators, and everyday Georgians reveals a candidate who understands government should clear paths rather than create obstacles.

Ready to learn more about Derrick Jackson's vision for Georgia? Visit www.VoteDerrickJackson.org and follow him on social media where you'll recognize him as "the guy with the bow tie" who's fighting for family, opportunity, and a Georgia where everyone can thrive.

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Seven months and 35 episodes deep into this journey, Manhood Matters has evolved into something truly special – a sacred space for authentic conversations through a Black male lens. Most podcasts never make it past episode 7, yet here we stand, growing stronger each week because of listeners like you who tune in, share feedback, and make these conversations matter.

Today's episode takes a moment to express profound gratitude while revisiting some of our most impactful discussions. From exploring how father-son relationships shape our parenting in episode 2, to challenging the myth of Black resilience in our mental health conversations, these discussions have created ripples far beyond our recording sessions. Remember when we tackled whether men can be faithful? Or when we unpacked generational trauma with Mark Montblazier, examining how patterns established during slavery continue affecting our relationships today? These conversations aren't just podcasts—they're gateways to healing and growth.

I'm incredibly excited to announce next week's special guest: Georgia gubernatorial candidate Derek Jackson. This military veteran turned state representative brings a fascinating journey from humble beginnings to political leadership. We'll explore the man behind the campaign, his core values, and his vision not just for Georgia but for leadership in these critical times. Whether you're politically engaged or not, this conversation promises to deliver profound insights on service, purpose, and authentic leadership. While I deeply appreciate your listenership, I have two small requests: take 30 seconds to leave a review, and share an episode that resonated with someone who might benefit. This is how we grow—one conversation at a time. Remember, manhood isn't about age; it's about action.

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*** Warning: This episode mentions su!cide, addiction, & mental illness ***

What happens when a man faces his demons head-on after three decades of alcoholism? Kenneth "Sober Scooter" Reddick II, reveals his extraordinary journey from the depths of addiction to becoming a beacon of hope for Black men struggling with mental health challenges.

Scooter's story begins with raw vulnerability as he recounts surviving three suicide attempts while under the influence. "I was in a situation where I just felt nobody cared and I just didn't want to be here," he shares. The turning point came on February 2, 2022—a date with angelic significance (2-2-22)—when Scooter embraced sobriety and discovered his true purpose in helping others heal.

Through his Brothers Brunch Foundation, Scooter champions a revolutionary approach to mental wellness. "Every time we say mental health in the Black community, everybody wants to say nothing's wrong with me," he explains. That's why he focuses on "mental health fitness"—teaching men to strengthen their minds like muscles to better handle life's challenges. His five principles—sleep, breathing, meditation, exercise, and therapy—form the backbone of this proactive approach.

Most powerfully, Scooter addresses the unique burdens Black men carry: "It's five to six generations of unhealed birth trauma." This generational weight requires intentional healing, which begins with self-care. "Put your oxygen mask on first," he advises, challenging the notion that seeking help shows weakness. Through his work with fathers and sons, he's "bridging the generational gap of mental health awareness," teaching that "you can't cuss, fuss, or beat you out of your child."

Scooter's wisdom culminates in a profound truth: "Triggering is lessened when healing is increased." His transformation from seeking everyone's approval to finding peace within himself offers hope to anyone struggling with addiction or mental health challenges. As he puts it, "When we find our purpose, we find our peace."

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"Forgiveness doesn't have to be you going to somebody and saying 'I forgive you.' Forgiveness is a choice you make." These powerful words from Mark Monplaisir cut to the heart of healing generational trauma in the Black community.

In this profound conversation, organizational psychologist and author Mark Monplaisir joins us to discuss his book "Strong Women, Fed Up Men, Defeated Sons, Broken Daughters: Healing Generational Pain." Mark shares his deeply personal journey of growing up without his biological father and the anger that consumed him until a therapist asked the transformative question: "Who are you punishing?" The answer wasn't his absent father—it was himself.

We explore how historical trauma from slavery continues to shape Black relationships today. Black men and women often view each other as sources of pain rather than partners in healing. Mark expertly breaks down how these dynamics play out in modern relationships, from expectations around providing and protecting to the different standards applied to interracial relationships. His guidance on moving from blame to understanding offers a pathway forward: "It's not your fault, but it is your responsibility."

The conversation dives into practical approaches to healing—creating safe spaces for vulnerability, practicing self-care without guilt, and engaging in honest dialogue with our children. Mark shares how he regularly asks his daughter, "What can I do to be a better dad?"—a simple yet powerful practice that transforms parent-child relationships. We discuss the balance between addressing structural barriers and taking personal responsibility for our healing journey.

Whether you're struggling with forgiveness, trying to break unhealthy relationship patterns, or seeking to create a healthier foundation for your children, this episode provides both the understanding and practical tools to move forward. Listen now and take the first step toward healing your generational pain.

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We explore the complex relationship between Haiti and other Black communities while confronting how colonial narratives have created artificial divisions within the African diaspora.

• Examining the stigma Haitian-Americans faced growing up in the United States
• Understanding how media has consistently portrayed Haiti negatively to undermine its revolutionary legacy
• Uncovering Haiti's significance as the first free Black republic and how it threatened global white supremacy
• Learning about foreign interference in Haiti, including the American occupation from 1915-1934
• Discussing how classism within Black communities perpetuates division and mirrors colonial hierarchies
• Exploring how Haitians and other immigrants often arrive with prejudices against African-Americans
• Recognizing that Black unity requires understanding our shared history and identity beyond national borders
• Emphasizing that education about our interconnected past is essential to building solidarity

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