Ok, its true, well as far as pop culture goes, in fact I have a new helper at work and Im 50 years older than him. Hard to keep up with things these days by all means, if fact I was sent a link to a couple Chappel Roan videos, and to be honest, not my cup of tea so to say, guess its cause Im not a lesbian. But I have a lot in common with them, see I love woman too.

Knee deep into Autumn

Well its a long hard road to be able to respond instead of reacting. Why because somethings just piss us off, but with some practice it gets easier, just like everything.

Well, it so true, the goal is to learn how to respond, even to the things that trigger you. I work on it almost every day, Im thinking one day I'll figure it out.

Yes , its true, now it might take some time, some learning and by all means some confidence, but yes you can do it. So get after it.

Its true, I get caught up with stuff and have to decide what I can do and what I wont be able to do. It takes some arranging and when I don't get it all done, I remember it's ok.

It's hard to remember sometimes there's always two sides to everything. Yes most things that is. I work hard at really seeing that in everything. So unless you make a choice to go through life crabby, this is a must.

Yes the fine art of asking, it's really simple for some, but for others, it's terrifying. "Oh my lord asking for something? What if the answers no?" What if the answer is yes. Guess that's really what it comes down to a person who leaves by the motto what if. At no point should we be afraid of the word no. As the old saying goes if you don't ask, you don't get.