What do you do when the person who once said “forever” walks away like you were nothing? In this episode of My Love Life Rebranded, Aleida unpacks the final stages of the narcissistic abuse cycle—the discard and hoovering.

She shares the raw truth of how her former husband—a pastor—abruptly ended their marriage just months after buying a home and celebrating their daughter’s second birthday. From sudden emotional detachment to manipulation, betrayal, and even false accusations that led to jail time, Aleida breaks down how narcissistic discards aren't just painful—they’re calculated.

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Your love life isn’t over—it’s just being rebranded. 💍

In this powerful follow-up to “When Love Bombs,” we dive into the painful second phase of narcissistic abuse—devaluation. After the flattery fades and the mask slips, what’s left can leave you confused, exhausted, and questioning your worth. In this episode, I share how the shift began for me—from subtle criticisms while pregnant to full-blown emotional neglect and verbal attacks once I became a mother.

You’ll learn:

• What devaluation looks like in real life (not just theory)
• How narcissists erode your identity and sense of self
• The difference between godly correction and controlling criticism
• How Jesus, though perfect, was still devalued—proof that it’s not your fault

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New episodes drop every Monday—so be sure to follow, rate, and share if this blessed you!

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Your love life isn’t over—it’s just being rebranded. 💍

He said all the right things. Moved fast. Quoted scripture. Sounded like a godly man. But looking back? It wasn’t love—it was manipulation.

In this episode, I’m breaking down the first phase of the narcissistic abuse cycle: Idealization (aka love bombing). You’ll learn what it is, how to spot it, and how I mistook emotional intensity for divine connection. I’m also sharing the early red flags I ignored, and why discernment isn’t just wise—it’s spiritual warfare.

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Thanks for tuning into My Love Life Rebranded with Aleida Clincy.
New episodes drop every Monday—so be sure to follow, rate, and share if this blessed you!

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Your love life isn’t over—it’s just being rebranded. 💍