Ever wondered if friendship might just be the secret ingredient to a happy marriage? Join me on Accidentally On Purpose as I open up about my personal journey through love and relationships, highlighting the importance of keeping friendship at the heart of marriage. From grappling with the changing dynamics between black men and women to finding love through dating apps like Hinge, I share insights into how music, especially R&B, creates a loving atmosphere in my life. This episode offers a candid reflection on the enduring values my parents instilled in me and how these values shape future generations.

Through the lens of my own experiences, I dive into the power of positive representation in black relationships and the resilience needed to overcome life's challenges. From moving cities, dealing with the grief of losing loved ones, to battling depression during the COVID-19 pandemic, I discuss the vital role therapy and hope played in my journey of self-discovery and redemption. Hear how I navigated the transition from a long-term relationship to dating in Southern California, where I encountered both humorous and painful lessons that ultimately led to personal growth.

Take a ride with me as I recount the rollercoaster of online dating, from cultural mismatches on apps like Black and Bumble to the emotional highs and lows of being ghosted. This episode isn't just about the trials of dating; it’s about finding personal grounding and reclaiming one’s time through self-reflection and faith. I share the transformative power of therapy and keeping God at the center of decisions, leading me to a meaningful relationship. Discover how love can unexpectedly blossom after moments of doubt and how recognizing personal value can lead to contributing positively to society. Tune in to hear more about my journey and the insights gained along the way.