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Stop blaming others and take control of your life—accountability is the key to lasting change. In this episode of "On the Mic with DM and T," we dive into the importance of taking ownership of your decisions and actions in relationships, finances, and personal growth. From navigating modern dating and marriage dynamics to adapting in a world of economic uncertainty and AI-driven changes, this conversation sheds light on how to stop making excuses and start making progress. Hear candid discussions about protecting your worth, building meaningful connections, and fostering resilience in challenging times.

Are you ready to take responsibility and level up in every area of your life? Tune in for real talk, practical insights, and strategies to help you stop pointing fingers and start making empowered moves. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and drop your thoughts in the comments below—let's grow together!

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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Is Marriage Even Worth It Anymore
01:58 - Protecting Your Assets
03:18 - The Foolishness of Not Protecting Your Assets
04:35 - The Importance of Protecting Your Assets
05:55 - The Emotional Side of Protecting Your Assets
10:41 - Tyrese and His Wife
11:39 - Influences on Your Relationship
12:51 - The Love Left After the Theft
14:22 - What You Don't See in a Healthy Relationship
19:40 - How Did We Get Here
22:49 - Men Need to Slow Down
31:50 - Motivate Him to Get More
37:00 - AI is Here and It's Not Going Anywhere
40:40 - Job Market Challenges
43:00 - Impact on Black Women
46:13 - Effects of Government Assistance
49:24 - Stop Blaming Others
51:57 - College vs. Marriage
56:46 - Start Your Own Business
57:50 - Job Creation Challenges
58:40 - Acceptable Salary Range
01:01:10 - Accountability
01:02:10 - OUTRO

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Modern dating is broken, and this video explores why men and women struggle to connect in today’s world. From unrealistic expectations and financial pressures to a decline in emotional intelligence and leadership, we talk about the challenges destroying modern relationships. Are gender roles outdated? Why are we stuck in a cycle of blame and mistrust? And how do we rebuild healthy connections in a world that overvalues transactions over teamwork?

Join us as we unpack these issues with humor, raw honesty, and personal stories, offering insights into what it takes to build meaningful partnerships. Whether you’re frustrated with the dating scene or searching for ways to improve your approach, this video has something for you. Let's navigate the chaos of modern relationships together.

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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Intro
00:25 - Men and Gold Diggers
05:51 - Wife Duties vs Girlfriend Duties
11:28 - Pursuing the Right Woman
14:56 - Emotional vs Logical Thinking
18:50 - Stop Making Poor Choices
22:10 - Self-Control in Relationships
25:40 - Understanding Retainer Fees
28:10 - Leadership in Relationships
32:20 - Importance of Emotional Intelligence
37:49 - Analyzing Your Last Relationship
43:10 - Building a Healthy Relationship
45:48 - Men and Communication
49:48 - Trust Issues Among Men
54:20 - Rules of the Relationship Game
57:05 - Understanding Deception
01:01:50 - Privacy and Trust: Partner's Phone
01:08:20 - Final Thoughts

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Why are young men struggling today? 😔 In this eye-opening video, we dive into the challenges young men face in today’s world—rising mental health struggles, loneliness, education gaps, stagnant job opportunities, and societal pressures. From alarming statistics on depression and suicide rates to the economic hurdles and lack of male-focused resources, we break down why so many young men feel left behind. But it doesn’t stop there—we explore actionable steps to find purpose, build skills, and create a brighter future. If you’re ready to understand and tackle these issues, this is a must-watch. Join the conversation and let’s work towards solutions together! 💪

CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Intro
00:22 - Mental Health Awareness
01:17 - Employment Opportunities
02:26 - Social Connections
04:00 - Big Picture Perspective
05:51 - College Education Insights
07:11 - Immediate Needs Assessment
13:42 - Education and Boys' Learning Styles
16:53 - The Education System Overview
20:33 - Value of a College Degree
22:28 - Exploring Different Paths
24:47 - Mental Health Challenges
27:10 - Benefits of Trade Schools
29:55 - Financial Discipline Strategies
36:55 - Role of Encyclopedias
38:41 - Engaging Today's Children
41:32 - Supporting Men's Development
46:19 - Women's Increased Responsibilities
49:20 - Importance of Teaching
51:10 - Parenting: Married vs Unmarried
55:00 - Men's Hygiene Awareness
56:10 - Impact of Low Aspirations
57:48 - Backlash of "Be a Man" Culture
59:10 - Necessary Changes Ahead
01:01:15 - Who Will Address the Issues
01:06:20 - Importance of Self-Improvement
01:12:32 - Personal Responsibility in Life
01:13:20 - Celebrating 20,000 Subscribers
01:13:40 - Outro

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Are 95% of homes missing a crucial code of conduct? 🏠 This thought-provoking discussion dives into the erosion of household values, accountability, and discipline in today’s society. From generational gaps to the decline in instilling respect, manners, and personal responsibility in children, we explore how this cultural shift is impacting families and communities. We talk about the importance of teaching kids key life principles, the role of parents as active guides, and why a strong foundation in morals and standards is vital. Don’t miss this deep dive into a topic that affects us all—let’s talk about what’s missing and how we can fix it. Join the conversation and help restore what matters most.

CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Intro
00:40 - Code of Conduct in Relationships
02:30 - Cassie and Diddy Relationship Insights
05:20 - Easy Access to Sex Culture
11:33 - Building a Solid Foundation
17:04 - Importance of Father Figures
22:44 - The Blind Leading the Blind in Society
25:48 - Defining What You’re Looking For
27:30 - Impact of Past Trauma
31:03 - Importance of Accountability
34:40 - Challenges of Accountability
39:54 - Temptation in Modern Life
42:55 - Marriage Perspectives for the Poor and Elderly
43:50 - Recognizing Foolish Behavior
49:28 - Purpose of Marriage
51:14 - Paul Pierce's Influence
55:53 - GPY: Usage and Importance
58:55 - Lack of Teaching Essential Principles
1:00:13 - Consequences of Our Actions
1:05:30 - Keeping It Real in Conversations
1:07:45 - Critique of Young Adult Behavior
1:08:40 - Risks of Sending Nude Photos
1:13:20 - Understanding Revenge Porn
1:16:50 - Selling Self-Worth in Relationships
1:18:23 - Understanding the Real Deal
1:20:18 - Creating Your Own Rules
1:23:00 - Final Thoughts and Reflections

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Modern dating is a whole new game—are we playing it wrong? In this episode, we dive into "The Harsh Truth About Modern Dating 💔" and explore how relationships have shifted over generations. From structured dating traditions to today’s swipe culture, we break down the dynamics of love, commitment and the lessons we’ve learned along the way. With heated discussions on family influences, personal accountability, and the importance of setting boundaries, we’re unpacking what it means to navigate the dating world in 2025. How can we avoid common pitfalls and build genuine connections in a world full of distractions? Hear real talk, raw insights, and practical advice to improve your dating life.

If you’ve ever questioned modern relationship norms or wondered how to approach love differently, this one’s for you. Don’t forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more honest conversations on life, growth, and relationships. Let’s keep building together! Peace and blessings.

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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Intro
00:40 - Group Dating Dynamics
02:40 - Nostalgia in Dating
05:55 - Wisdom of Parents
08:40 - Insights from Elders
10:17 - Men's Preferences in Women
17:00 - Ignoring Parental Advice
20:00 - Partner Qualities to Consider
23:20 - The Chicken Wing Lady Story
26:40 - Signs of Infidelity
28:50 - Storytime: Dating with Kids
30:20 - Knowing When to End Things
33:45 - Developing Personal Preferences
38:00 - Understanding Women's Desires
39:50 - Older Women and Younger Men Relationships
43:20 - Marriage Behaviors vs. Dating
45:30 - Defining Casual Dating
49:43 - Men's Spending Habits in Dating
51:18 - Roles of Husbands
55:00 - Men's Dating Strategies
55:40 - Joint Accounts in Relationships
57:55 - Understanding Breaks in Relationships
1:03:05 - Pre-Breakup Considerations
1:09:27 - Duration of Dating Before Commitment
1:12:12 - Challenges of Casual Dating
1:15:20 - Accountability for Women
1:17:30 - Accountability for Men
1:24:34 - Closing Remarks

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Can America be smart again? Join us as we explore the challenges facing modern times and how we, as a society, can reclaim critical thinking, personal responsibility, and old-school common sense. From jaw-dropping legislation like the "Conception Begins at Erection Act" to the evolving dynamics of parenting, accountability, and societal pressures, this episode dives deep into the frustrations and solutions for a smarter, more united America.

We tackle everything from wild laws and over-the-top Uber encounters to the importance of role models, emotional intelligence, and navigating life’s responsibilities. With humor, honesty, and real talk, we examine how adulting has gone off track and what it takes to revive values that truly matter.

If you're ready to laugh, learn, and rethink how we approach modern-day issues, this is the conversation for you. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and hit the bell for more unfiltered discussions. Let’s grow smarter, together.

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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Can America Be Smart Again
02:19 - Conception Begins at Erection Act
11:05 - Final Thoughts
19:08 - Child Support
22:19 - Understanding Child Support Spending
24:26 - Emotional Intelligence Explained
28:28 - The Importance of Emotional Intelligence
32:03 - Parents Turning Kids Over to the State
33:43 - Women Should Give Kids to Men
35:45 - Women and Parenting Statistics
37:10 - Women Are Biologically Designed to Nurture
44:10 - The Importance of Co-Parenting
49:20 - Society's Impact on Childhood
51:40 - Uber Driver Controversy: Overweight Girl
55:00 - Why You Shouldn’t Order A Small Uber
58:20 - Common Sense in Everyday Life
1:01:40 - Final Thoughts
1:02:51 - True Role Models in Society
1:06:29 - Identifying Your Role Model
1:10:44 - Your Core Role Models
1:13:17 - Be Careful Who You Look Up To
1:14:37 - Final Thoughts

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Fix your mental health in 2025 and face the hard truths you’ve been avoiding. This video gets real about what it takes to prioritize your mental well-being, cut toxic relationships, and get your finances in order. Stop making excuses and start taking control of your life—because the habits, mindset, and decisions you carry into this new year will shape your future.

We discuss the importance of emotional intelligence, setting boundaries, and taking actionable steps to improve your mental health. Learn why men often struggle to open up, how poor choices keep us stuck, and why being honest with yourself is the first step to growth. Plus, we dive into the critical need to re-evaluate your relationships and finances—because a truly healthy life means balancing all aspects, not just one.

Are you ready to take charge of your mental health, relationships, and money in 2025? Let’s make next year your best year yet. Hit like, subscribe, and don’t forget to tap the bell for more unfiltered advice and real talk that will transform your life.

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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - Intro
00:35 - Mental Health Awareness
07:32 - Unprotected Sex Risks
12:27 - Insights from a Hairstylist
14:57 - Life Coach vs Life Advisor Explained
19:11 - Women's Mental Health Perspectives
22:54 - Evaluating Your Relationships
28:30 - Setting Healthy Boundaries
32:40 - Elderly Wisdom on Needs
33:18 - Allowing Behavior in Relationships
35:39 - Parenting Sons Effectively
38:59 - Breaking Free from Maternal Obligations
48:20 - Understanding Money Management
50:00 - Navigating Student Loans
51:07 - Financial Planning Basics
51:41 - Effective Budgeting Strategies
52:33 - Benefits of Auto Pay
54:47 - Final Thoughts and Takeaways

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Modern men face critical challenges that demand immediate change. In this powerful discussion, we reveal the harsh realities about relationships, family dynamics, and personal responsibility that many men need to hear. From shocking statistics about marriage rates to the real cost of raising children, we're breaking down why "leveling up" isn't just an option – it's essential for survival.

Discover why traditional approaches to success aren't working anymore and learn what it really takes to build wealth, maintain healthy relationships, and create generational success. We explore how changing economic landscapes, technology, and social dynamics are forcing men to adapt or get left behind.

This raw, unfiltered conversation tackles the uncomfortable truths about personal development, financial responsibility, and the critical importance of obtaining real skills in today's competitive world. Whether you're struggling with career choices, relationship challenges, or finding your path forward, this discussion provides the wake-up call you need.

Join us as we break down the essential steps modern men must take to secure their future, protect their families, and build lasting success. This isn't just about survival – it's about thriving in a world that's changing faster than ever before.

Subscribe, hit the notification bell, and join our community of men committed to growth and success.

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CHAPTERS:
00:00 - The War on the Black Family
01:25 - The Black Marriage Rate
03:51 - Income by Race
06:42 - Average Income for Black Men and Women
07:52 - Poverty Rate for Black Children
08:04 - Dropout Rate for Black Boys
09:58 - Societal Restraints and Rising Above It
12:49 - How the World Has Changed
16:09 - When to Intervene in Kids' Relationships
21:56 - Sowing into Our Children
24:07 - Importance of Marriage
25:45 - Analyzing the Cost of Dating
30:10 - Giving Too Much Too Soon
31:51 - Importance of a Father's Presence
36:56 - Father’s Presence in a Child’s Life
44:57 - Get a DNA Test
49:29 - Don’t Look
52:53 - Importance of Job Training
56:20 - The Next Set of Millionaires
59:43 - Investing in Yourself
01:02:45 - Get a Skill
01:07:10 - Disrespect is Keeping Us Down
01:08:52 - Marriage is More Than Love
01:10:35 - Look at Tyrese’s Wife
01:12:58 - Who It Really Affects
01:14:55 - Outro

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