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  • EP302: Spotting Subtle Red Flags: The Behaviors That Slowly Wear You Down

    EP302: Spotting Subtle Red Flags: The Behaviors That Slowly Wear You Down
    Sep 2 2025

    Not all unhealthy relationships announce themselves with yelling, cheating, or dramatic fights. Many of the most damaging ones chip away at us quietly—through subtle behaviors we often brush off or explain away. In this episode, Mary unpacks the small but powerful signs that can leave you feeling drained, doubting yourself, and unsure why something feels “off.”

    You’ll learn why it’s so easy to miss these quiet warning signs, how they impact your confidence and boundaries over time, and what you can begin doing differently. This conversation is about tuning back into your own gut, trusting what you feel, and deciding what belongs in your life—and what doesn’t.

    Three Takeaways

    1. Some of the most harmful relationship patterns are the ones that don’t look obvious at first.

    2. Your body often senses the truth before your mind is willing to admit it.

    3. Paying attention to the “small stuff” is what protects your peace of mind in the long run.

    A healthy person

    listens.

    An unhealthy one

    gets defensive.

    That’s your clue.

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    If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

    Need more? Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

    https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

    Hey! My signature course is live! I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program. Be sure to click here to check it out:

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    https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour

    Resources:

    Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143

    Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!
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    29 min
  • EP301: Waking People Up with Positivity: Interview with Jimmy Warr-Mize

    EP301: Waking People Up with Positivity: Interview with Jimmy Warr-Mize
    Aug 19 2025
    Today’s guest, Jimmy Warr-Mize, has a story that’s anything but typical. From his early days as a self-described jack-of-all-trades to being featured in Forbes, interviewing celebrities, and representing billion-dollar brands—he’s done the big, shiny things. But what makes Jimmy’s story powerful isn’t just what he’s accomplished. It’s what he’s learned along the way. I found his videos awhile back and just fell in love with his message, but also his vibe. His incredible energy, humor and directness make his “daily reminders” powerful messages to sit with each day. In this conversation, we talk about what happens when success feels empty, the cost of living inauthentically, and why so many people—no matter their title—feel stuck and disconnected from who they really are. Jimmy shares how grief, growth, and truth-telling changed everything for him, and why he’s now on a mission to help others find their way back to themselves. Not everyone’s ready for the deep work— but everyone deserves a message that reminds them it’s possible. Jimmy Warr-Mize : https://inspiredbyjimmyl.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/inspiredbyjimmyl/ Tiktok: @inspiredbyjimmyl Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here! If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap! Need more? Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice: https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words Hey! My signature course is live! I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program. Be sure to click here to check it out: https://findyourvoicecourse.com/ Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey! https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour Resources: Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143 Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!
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    50 min
  • EP300 Learning to Be with Our Feelings Again with Claire Garner

    EP300 Learning to Be with Our Feelings Again with Claire Garner
    Aug 5 2025

    This new month is all about being, being still, and having the bravery to be your authentic self. Well, in order to do that, we HAVE to reconnect with our feelings and truly be able to sit with them, or we simply cannot truly be in touch with ourselves. That’s why I’m so excited to have Claire Garner on the show today, because that’s just what she does!

    Claire is an Intuitive Emotional Healing Guide who helps people feel their emotions with clarity and compassion—so they can stop looping in pain and finally shift the patterns that keep them stuck.

    She’s the creator of the Intuitive Emotional Healing framework, a practical and body-led process that teaches people how to understand, work with, and release the emotional energy underneath their thoughts and behaviors.

    Through private sessions and her online community, The Conscious Heart Academy, Claire helps people build emotional resilience, deepen self-trust, and create a more peaceful, aligned relationship with themselves.

    The healing doesn’t come

    from pushing through. It comes from

    pausing long enough to feel.

    To grieve. To get honest.

    That’s how we stop

    abandoning ourselves.

    Claire Garner:

    https://www.intuitiveemotionalhealing.com/

    Instagram:

    https://www.instagram.com/intuitiveemotionalhealing/

    Tiktok:

    @intuitivemotionalhealing

    Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here!

    If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

    Need more? Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

    https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

    Hey! My signature course is live! I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program. Be sure to click here to check it out:

    https://findyourvoicecourse.com/

    Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey!

    https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour
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    57 min
  • EP298: When Safe Doesn’t Feel Emotionally Safe: What Your Body Is Trying to Tell You

    EP298: When Safe Doesn’t Feel Emotionally Safe: What Your Body Is Trying to Tell You
    Jul 29 2025

    In this episode, we explore how your nervous system, subconscious, and body are constantly scanning for emotional safety—even when your logical mind doesn’t quite know why something feels off. You’ll learn why your body might respond to subtle relational red flags long before your brain catches on, especially when someone seems kind, generous, or emotionally available on the surface. These intuitive hits aren’t irrational—they’re rooted in lived experience, stored patterns, and how your brain and body protect you.

    We also look at how disconnection from your body often starts in childhood—when you had to override your instincts to survive or stay connected. As adults, this can make it harder to trust yourself, your gut, or your internal signals. But healing doesn’t require perfection—it starts with quiet awareness, small check-ins, and beginning to believe your body again.

    Three Takeaways:

    • Sometimes what feels “off” isn’t about logic—it’s your body remembering what it learned before you could name it.
    • The people who drain or confuse you the most often disregard your boundaries in subtle ways.
    • Emotional safety is felt, not proven. You’re allowed to trust what your body is telling you.

    Your nervous system

    doesn’t need evidence.

    It needs you to listen.

    Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here!

    If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

    Need more? Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

    https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

    Hey! My signature course is live! I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program. Be sure to click here to check it out:

    https://findyourvoicecourse.com/

    Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey!

    https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour

    Resources:

    Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143

    Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!
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    25 min
  • EP297: Can I Trust Me to Show Up?

    EP297: Can I Trust Me to Show Up?
    Jul 22 2025
    EP297: Can I Trust Me to Show Up? In this episode, we take a close look at something we don’t talk about enough: the quiet ways we drift from ourselves. We often pride ourselves on being reliable, supportive, and present for others—but what happens when we’re not offering the same loyalty inward? This isn’t about harsh self-criticism or impossible standards. It’s about noticing the gap between what we say we want and what we actually follow through on when it comes to our own needs, boundaries, and truth. We explore why we tend to abandon ourselves in small ways and how that adds up over time—not because we’re weak, but because we were taught to survive that way. This isn’t about fixing yourself. It’s about remembering how to listen, recommit, and rebuild the trust you’ve been craving from within. No drama. No shame. Just one small, self-honoring moment at a time. Three Takeaways: 1. There’s a big difference between being dependable for others and being dependable for yourself. 2. The small moments where you follow through—or don’t—have a bigger impact than you think. 3. Rebuilding self-trust doesn’t require perfection, just consistent presence and gentle repair. Top of Form Bottom of Form Every small promise you keep to yourself matters. That’s how the healing begins. Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here! If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap! Need more? Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice: https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words Hey! My signature course is live! I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program. Be sure to click here to check it out: https://findyourvoicecourse.com/ Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey! https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour Resources: Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143 Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!
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    21 min
  • EP296: Are You Still in Survival Mode? How to Know—and How to Shift

    EP296: Are You Still in Survival Mode? How to Know—and How to Shift
    Jul 15 2025
    In this episode, we explore what it means to be stuck in survival mode—mentally, emotionally, and physically—and how many of us are living from a place of fear, habit, and urgency without realizing it. Survival mode can look like over-functioning, people-pleasing, emotional shutdown, or just constantly pushing through. It’s often the result of trauma, chronic stress, or a childhood where it wasn’t safe to slow down or have needs. But while survival mode may have helped you get through hard times, it’s not meant to be a permanent way of life. We also talk about the path forward—how to reconnect with your body, calm your regulate your nervous system, and start living in alignment with who you really are. Reclaiming your power doesn’t require a life overhaul. It starts with small acts of self-ownership, and choosing from who you are—not just who you’ve had to be. If you're ready to move beyond coping and step into grounded, empowered living, this episode will give you tools, language, and encouragement to begin. 3 Key Takeaways: 1. The way you’ve been functioning might be more about surviving than truly living. 2. There's a powerful shift that happens when you start making choices from a different place. 3. Sometimes the smallest moments—how you breathe, how you pause, how you check in—can change everything. Survival mode helped you get through. But you weren’t meant to live there forever. Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here! If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap! Need more? Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice: https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words Hey! My signature course is live! I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program. Be sure to click here to check it out: https://findyourvoicecourse.com/ Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey! https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour Resources: Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143 Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!
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    23 min
  • EP295: How to Rebuild Self Trust (Even if You’ve Betrayed Yourself Before)

    EP295: How to Rebuild Self Trust (Even if You’ve Betrayed Yourself Before)
    Jul 8 2025

    In this episode, we’re diving into what it really means to trust yourself—especially after years of self-doubt, people-pleasing, or putting everyone else’s needs ahead of your own. Self-trust isn’t about always having the answers or getting it right every time. It’s about knowing that you’ll show up for yourself, tell the truth about what you feel, and make choices that honor your inner knowing, even when it’s hard.

    You’ll hear about why so many of us learned to look outward instead of inward, how subtle self-betrayals can build up over time, and what it actually takes to come back to yourself. If you've been stuck in second-guessing, this episode will meet you with honesty, compassion, and a clear path toward repair.

    Three Takeaways:

    1. Rebuilding trust with yourself starts in small, often invisible moments.

    2. There's a big difference between keeping peace and keeping your truth.

    3. The way you respond to yourself in failure matters more than the failure itself.

    Approval feels nice

    in the moment. But true peace

    comes from trusting yourself.

    Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here!

    If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap!

    Need more? Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice:

    https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words

    Hey! My signature course is live! I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program. Be sure to click here to check it out:

    https://findyourvoicecourse.com/

    Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey!

    https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour

    Resources:

    Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143

    Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!
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    24 min
  • EP294: Where Did You Go? The Moment You Started Leaving Yourself Behind

    EP294: Where Did You Go? The Moment You Started Leaving Yourself Behind
    Jul 1 2025
    In this episode, we take a deeper look at the slow, often unnoticed ways we begin to disconnect from ourselves—especially when survival, acceptance, or love seemed to depend on it. Whether it started in childhood or in a past relationship, the moment you began second-guessing your gut or hiding your truth was likely a moment of self-protection. But over time, those small choices can add up to a life that doesn’t quite feel like your own. We’ll explore how shame, emotional detachment, and a need for approval can pull us away from our true voice—and what it means to gently start coming home to yourself. You’ll be invited to reflect on your own turning points, not with judgment, but with curiosity and compassion. Because the goal isn’t to blame yourself for how you’ve coped—it’s to recognize that you now have the power to choose something different. Three Takeaways: 1. There are moments in your story that quietly shaped how you relate to yourself - and they’re worth revisiting with fresh eyes. 2. What feels like a personality trait might actually be a survival pattern you no longer need. 3. Reconnection doesn’t happen in a single breakthrough - it’s a series of tiny, loyal choices to stop leaving yourself behind. Coming back to yourself isn’t dramatic. It’s in the quiet choice to stop abandoning yourself - even in the small moments. Get your FREE Boundaries Ebook here! If you're ready to find your voice, set healthy boundaries, and create more fulfilling relationships, this guide is your roadmap! Need more? Check out the Masterclass on Reclaiming Your Voice: https://www.findyourvoicecourse.com/beyond-words Hey! My signature course is live! I am so excited to also offer a free upgrade to the group coaching program. Be sure to click here to check it out: https://findyourvoicecourse.com/ Need coaching? Sign up here for your Power Hour, where you and I can get you started on your confidence journey! https://findyourvoicecourse.com/power-hour Resources: Join the private Facebook group! It’s a great group of people working on themselves…and supporting each other. https://www.facebook.com/groups/1212485642262143 Thank you for tuning in to this podcast. Please remember to leave a positive review on your podcast platform and let us know how this episode has been helpful. Also don’t forget to subscribe to this podcast on Apple Podcasts, Google Play or Spotify so you don’t miss a thing!
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    27 min