In this heartfelt episode of Priorities on Purpose, Melissa Batt sits down with The Friendship Tour podcast host Cecilia Curtis to talk all things friendship—especially how to build meaningful relationships when life feels busy, lonely, or disconnected.

Whether you’re new to town, feeling isolated, or just wondering why friendships seem harder as an adult, this episode is packed with wisdom, real-life stories, and practical tips to help you create deeper connections. Melissa and Cecilia share their personal struggles as introverts, frequent movers, and busy women—while also exploring the power of vulnerability, the importance of showing up, and why asking for help might be the most courageous thing you can do.

If you’re craving more authentic community but don’t know where to start, this conversation will show you why friendship has to be intentional—and why it’s worth it.

Key Takeaways:

• [00:03] - Welcome & Why Friendship Matters Melissa opens up about the intentionality behind friendships and why she searched so long for the perfect guest to speak into this topic.

• [01:56] - Cecilia’s Story & The Heart Behind Her Podcast Cecilia shares her journey as a military wife, mom of three, and how her life of constant moves inspired The Friendship Tour.

• [04:08] - The Struggle to Show Up for Others Melissa shares a vulnerable moment that revealed a personal blind spot in how she supports local friends.

• [06:48] - The Power of Offering & Accepting Help Cecilia breaks down why being both a giver and receiver is essential for deepening relationships.

• [08:41] - Asking for What You Need Isn’t Weakness Melissa opens up about how fear of being let down kept her from asking for help—even from her best friend.

• [11:47] - Healing from Past Friendship Hurts Cecilia encourages listeners to deal with their relational baggage and pray for discernment in new connections.

• [15:26] - Why Community Is God’s Design Both women highlight the biblical importance of community and how it sustains us in our weakest moments.

• [21:11] - Easy Ways to Start a Conversation Cecilia shares practical, low-pressure tips to break the ice and make the first move in building friendships.

• [23:06] - Don’t Take It Personally Why it’s important not to internalize someone’s lack of response—and how you can keep putting yourself out there.

• [25:10] - Say Yes & Get Involved Melissa and Cecilia talk about how showing up, volunteering, and accepting invitations create opportunities for connection.

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Connect with Cecilia Curtis + The Friendship Tour: 🎧 Podcast: The Friendship Tour on Apple Podcasts 👥 Facebook Community: bit.ly@thefriendshiptourpodcast 📸 Instagram: @thefriendshiptourpodcast 📩 Email: ccurtis@thefriendshiptourpodcast.com

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In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, Melissa Batt opens up about a surprising insecurity that surfaced while on vacation—and how God used it to reveal an area of brokenness He was inviting her to heal.

From feeling embarrassed about being a tourist to wrestling with the fear of trying something new, Melissa shares real-life moments, biblical encouragement, and practical steps to overcome perfectionism, insecurity, and fear of failure.

If you’ve ever stayed stuck because you didn’t want to be "bad" at something—or if you’ve been waiting for the perfect moment to start living the life God has called you to—this conversation is the wake-up call you need. Stop putting it off for "someday." Start building your faith, your courage, and your trust in God today.

📝 Key Takeaways:

[00:01] – Why This Episode Sounds Different Melissa records live from vacation without her usual podcast setup—and explains what triggered today’s topic.

[00:55] – When Vacation Triggers Hidden Insecurities Melissa reflects on feeling uncomfortable being a tourist and how it revealed deeper perfectionism and fear of looking silly.

[03:00] – The Pressure to Be Good at Everything Melissa shares how adulthood often steals the childlike joy of simply trying something new without expectation.

[06:17] – Recognizing Feelings of Inferiority Melissa explains how comparison and insecurity sneak in and what God says about our worth and identity.

[08:17] – Using Triggers as Neon Signs for Healing Instead of avoiding uncomfortable feelings, Melissa challenges listeners to use them as opportunities to talk with God about them and explore further.

[11:29] – The Freedom of Childlike Faith Melissa encourages listeners to stop measuring success by worldly standards and instead embrace the beauty of humility and growth.

[14:17] – Are You Spectating or Participating in Life? Melissa shares a powerful metaphor about getting in the game—and how spiritual growth requires stepping out in faith.

[17:02] – Why "Someday" Will Keep You Stuck Melissa reminds listeners that putting off obedience leads to missed opportunities and unfulfilled callings.

[18:59] – Final Encouragement Melissa closes with a call to stop waiting for perfection and start trusting God to meet you as you move.

🎁 Free Resource Mentioned:

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In this episode of Priorities on Purpose, Melissa Batt sits down with prophetic healing coach and author Heather O’Brien for a deeply insightful conversation about why grief isn't just something we experience—it's something we should plan for.

Heather, host of the Heal With God podcast, shares how intentional grieving with God leads to breakthrough healing. Together, they discuss the dangers of avoiding pain, the spiritual roots of physical symptoms, and how to finally stop numbing and start living. If you're stuck in survival mode, busying yourself to avoid the hard stuff, or constantly triggered without knowing why—this episode will challenge and encourage you to take action, sit with God, and experience real comfort and transformation.

Whether you're grieving a loss, feeling triggered in your daily life, or wondering why healing hasn’t come yet—this conversation offers truth, tools, and hope for the journey.

📝 Key Takeaways:

• [00:00] – Meet Heather O’Brien Melissa introduces Heather, a healing coach and prophetic minister, and shares how their Holy Spirit-aligned missions connected.

• [04:00] – The Power of Grieving on Purpose Heather explains the concept of “planning to grieve” and why busyness or emotional overwhelm can block the healing process.

• [10:00] – Comparing Grief Seasons Melissa reflects on how grieving her stepdad versus her grandmother was drastically different due to boundaries and spiritual growth.

• [19:00] – Understanding Triggers as Opportunities Heather explains how physical symptoms and emotional triggers are signs that healing is needed—and how to respond instead of react.

• [30:00] – Planning Your Grief Practically Heather shares actionable steps like short prayers and journaling to bring your pain to God intentionally, even if it's just 10 minutes a day.

• [38:00] – Disappointment and Avoidance in Our Relationship with God Melissa opens up about subconsciously avoiding God when disappointed and how journaling revealed the root.

• [53:00] – When Obedience Leads to Healing Melissa shares a powerful testimony about how unforgiveness led to joint pain—and how obeying God brought emotional and physical freedom.

• [57:00] – Final Encouragement + Free Gift Heather reminds listeners that grief isn’t something to fear—it’s a pathway to comfort and healing. She also shares a free 7-day challenge to help you hear God’s voice.

🎁 Free Resource Mentioned:

7-Day Mental Makeover Challenge Start healing with simple daily spiritual disciplines and begin hearing God’s voice clearly. 👉 https://heatherobrien.net/mentalmakeoverchallenge

Connect with Heather O’Brien:

• Website: heatherobrien.net

• Podcast: Heal With God (Available on all platforms)

🌟 Ready to go from stuck to surrendered? Join Operation Reset: If you’re feeling overwhelmed and don’t even know how to take the first step, Operation Reset is for you. This free 5-day workshop will help you reclaim your time, set aligned priorities, and reset your life with God at the center. 👉 melissabatt.com/operation-reset

✨ Want to work with Melissa 1-on-1? Learn more about Breakthrough Coaching and book your free 30-minute Life Assessment here: 👉 melissabatt.com/breakthrough-coaching

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• Instagram: @melissabattofficial

• Book Free 30-Minute Call: bit.ly/3RbfwJf