• Lesbians in Your Healing Era | Your Future Wife ICK LIST & WISH LIST #WLW Dating
    Sep 22 2025

    Ways to work with The Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaker, Sophia Spallino:

    💎Platinum Private Luxury Lesbian™ Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her Future Wife® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.

    Explore Private Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service

    ✨Exclusive Luxury Lesbian™ Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.


    Join The Luxury Lesbian™ trip: https://queercountryclub.com/luxury-lesbian-retreat


    ❤️The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives, but missing just one thing… their Future Partner®.


    Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com


    🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session - If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.

    Reserve A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coaching


    💬Got Qs? DM on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino


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    Going through it now? If you ever desire 1:1 coaching with me to work through a breakup, just book a private session with me here: Sophia Spallino | Private Coaching

    🏳️‍🌈❤️‍🩹I asked the queer women in my community to share breakup advice given to them by the older, wiser women in their lives. So I am gonna read it to you.

    Then I share my best advice.

    Lesbian dating and breakups are tough. But you are SOFT enough to feel it, heal it, and move along with your life!

    Promise.

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    10 min
  • 6 Signs You Are Ready for Your LAST Relationship - WLW Dating Advice
    Sep 8 2025

    Ways I could help you meet your Future Partner:

    💎 Platinum Private Lesbian Matchmaking – For the woman who wants her FUTURE WIFE® delivered on a silver platter, I do all the screening so you can focus on falling in love.

    Explore Platinum Matchmaking: https://queercountryclub.com/private-lesbian-matchmaking-service

    Exclusive Lesbian Luxury Retreat at Canyon Ranch – A blissful weekend with an intimate group of extraordinary single queer women… curated to spoil your senses and reignite your belief in love and possibility.

    Apply to join The Luxury Retreat: https://queercountryclub.com/luxe-retreat

    ❤️ The Queer Country Club® – Our premier dating platform for monogamous queer women who are living amazing lives but missing just one thing… their FUTURE WIFE®.

    Apply to Join QCC: https://queercountryclub.com

    🌈 Private Rising Coaching Session – If you're unsure of your next step but know in your gut you're ready to call in love, deepen self-trust, or design a life you’re proud of, I’m here to guide you.

    Book A Private Coaching Session: https://queercountryclub.com/private-coaching


    Got Qs? DM me on Instagram → @sophiaspallino https://instagram.com/sophiaspallino


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    6 Signs You're Ready to Build a Monogamous Lesbian Relationship

    So, how do you know if you're ready for a monogamous lesbian relationship - and not just lonely or burnt out from dating? Here are six clear signs:


    1. You're Clear on What You Want, and Communicate It

    You’ve stopped saying “I’m open to whatever happens” and started owning what you want: a committed, exclusive relationship. If you're ready to say this on your dating profile and in person, even if it scares some people off, you’re showing true emotional clarity.

    2. You’ve Healed from Past Relationships

    You don’t view love through the lens of past heartbreak anymore. Sure, you’ve been hurt, but you’ve processed it, reflected on it, and you’re no longer operating out of fear. As a monogamous lesbian, you don’t need to look for someone to “fix” the past - you’re looking to build something new.

    3. You’re Comfortable with Emotional Intimacy

    Monogamy isn't just about exclusivity; it’s about vulnerability. If you’re comfortable letting someone in emotionally, being seen at your worst, and offering that same safety to a partner, you’re ready for a monogamous bond.

    4. You’re Not Distracted by “What Ifs”

    You don’t find yourself constantly wondering if the grass is greener. You’re not attached to the idea of endless options or swiping forever. You're looking for depth, not novelty.

    5. You’re Ready to Grow with One Person

    You understand that even great relationships require effort, compromise, and personal growth. You’re excited to evolve alongside someone rather than bounce from one connection to another.


    6. You’re Willing to Prioritize LoveYou’re a clear monogamous lesbian if you are willing to make room in your life for someone else - emotionally, mentally, and logistically. You’re not “too busy” to date; you’re intentionally creating space for partnership.

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    24 min
  • Don't Spank Me - Sexology & Erotic Wholeness with Darshana Avila
    Aug 25 2025

    ❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


    ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


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    Let’s talk sexology, p*ssy stroking, sexual trauma, pleasure, and making peace with Darshana Avila.

    Yes, you might recognize today’s guest is someone you might recognize from Netflix’s Sex, Love & Goop, but that’s just the beginning of her story.

    Back in 2015, Darshana Avila was in a marriage and a career that no longer fit. She walked away from both, and now she’s an internationally celebrated speaker and Erotic Wholeness guide helping queer women and AFABs come back home to their bodies and their truth.

    Her work is trauma-informed, pleasure-centric, and radically real.

    📲 Connect with my guest, Darshana Avila:
    Follow Darshana on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/darshana_avila
    Check out her website: https://darshanaavila.com
    Join her free community: Galgasm!


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    1 h et 16 min
  • A Raw Lesbian Love Story with Raina and Laurie - No Swiping, Just Soulmates - WLW Dating
    Aug 11 2025

    ❤️Meet Your Future Wife where Raina and Laurie met… inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB

    https://queercountryclub.com

    💎Learn more and apply to join us on our next Luxury Single Lesbian Retreat

    https://queercountryclub.com/luxe-retreat

    📲 Follow their love story that Raina shares!
    www.Instagram.com/Raina_notfit

    🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

    Online Sexual and Reproductive Health | Wisp

    ✨Work with me as your COACH
    https://SophiaSpallino.com

    💬Slide into my DMs

    Instagram (@sophiaspallino)

    What if your person is already inside the same dating platform as you… Just waiting for a message?

    This week on Queer Women Rising, I’m joined by Raina and Laurie, a couple who found each other through the Queer Country Club®, a platform built for lesbians and queer women looking for intentional, monogamous love.

    From first messages to cross-state travel, they share how their relationship unfolded with patience, warmth, and clarity.

    Want to meet your Future Wife™ like they did?
    Join the Queer Country Club® today!
    QueerCountryClub.com

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    58 min
  • 2 Lesbians 1 Carrot | Grape Trigger Warning | Lesbian Sex
    Jul 28 2025

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    https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


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    Don’t try this at home.

    Two Lesbians. One carrot.

    It was fun until it wasn’t.

    Trigger warning: this episode includes my experience with sexual assault.

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    26 min
  • Dating New and Different Women with Jaime Messina - Lesbian Love and Mindset
    Jul 14 2025

    ❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB

    Skip the initiation fee and join QCC through Jaime: ⁠https://queercountryclub.com/wlw-club?am_id=jaime9948⁠


    ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


    🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

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    ✨Work with me as your COACH

    https://SophiaSpallino.com


    💬Slide into my DMs
    https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino


    She created one of the most iconic sapphic spaces on the internet… but that’s not where the story ends.


    📲 Connect with my guest, Jaime Messina.


    Follow Jaime on Instagram:

    Jaime Messina | Mindset & Empowerment Coach


    Check out her site & coaching offers:

    Jaime Messina | Mindset & Empowerment Coach


    We talked about:
    – What it’s like to coach others while still healing yourself
    – The love story that took her by surprise
    – Building sapphic spaces that actually feel safe

    – Recognizing internal homophobia
    – What she’s creating next

    If you’re a lesbian or queer woman building a life of love, peace, and purpose… this one’s for you.

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    1 h et 3 min
  • Honest Lesbian Age Gap Relationship Pros & Cons
    Jun 30 2025

    ❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


    ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


    🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

    https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


    ✨Work with me as your COACH

    https://SophiaSpallino.com


    💬Slide into my DMs

    https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino


    Today, I dive into the truth of lesbian age gap relationships, the real, raw, and often misunderstood dynamics between women of different generations. Whether you're crushing on someone older, dating someone younger, or just curious how these relationships actually work… this episode is for you.

    You’ll learn:

    • Why age gap love between women feels so different from straight dynamics

    • The benefits of dating someone in a different life stage

    • The very real challenges, and how to overcome them

    • How to make your relationship work, long-term, regardless of age

    • What makes these connections so powerful, so sexy, and so worth it

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    30 min
  • From Dating Married People & Medicated to Monogamous & Meditated with Lauren Courtney
    Jun 16 2025

    ❤️Meet Your Future Wife inside my LESBIAN DATING CLUB https://queercountryclub.com


    ☎️Want to be featured on the show? Call in! https://queerwomenrising.com/ask-sophia-spallino


    🔺Get Wisp Kitty Care 🐱 Proud Partner

    https://bit.ly/sophiawisp


    ✨Work with me as your COACH

    https://SophiaSpallino.com


    💬Slide into my DMs

    https://www.instagram.com/sophiaspallino


    📲 Work with Lauren Courtney and Buy her Book “Glow Up Your Chakras”


    Follow Lauren on Instagram:

    Instagram (@iamlaurencourtney)


    Check out Lauren’s website:

    Lauren Courtney Heals | Holistic Healing & Chakra Therapy

    🏳️‍🌈 When the love of your life dies… do you ever really come back the same?


    This episode is for the lesbians and queer women who’ve been cracked open by heartbreak, walked the messy path of dating married people, and are looking for real magic—within and in partnership.

    Back in 2016, Lauren Courtney’s first love passed away, leaving her heartbroken and believing she would never love again. Through her spiritual awakening and the messy dating adventures that followed, she discovered that true love begins within. As she healed, she realized that self-love and inner alignment are the foundation for deep, meaningful connections. Now, as a healer, author, and spiritual guide, she helps others clear emotional blocks, awaken their intuition, and cultivate the love they seek, starting from within.


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    1 h et 9 min