Living with a chronic illness or disability, it’s difficult to know when to stop chasing doctor appointments, medications, and possible fixes, and instead start living life. For a long time after my stroke, I searched for the next solution, better specialists, drugs and treatments that might finally change what was happening to me. I found the most frustrating part was that no one ever said, “There’s nothing more I can do, it’s ok to just go live now.” I had to come to the realization myself that it was time to accept the unexplained and adapt my life. I now keep regular check-ins with doctors, but I stopped letting my calendar and my hope be run by constant appointments and recovering from therapies that weren’t helping me.

Choosing to step back from treatment was the beginning of living again. I decided that my limited energy was better spent adapting my life to having a disability than endlessly chasing relief that wasn’t coming. That shift helped me feel more in charge of my own recovery. If you are at that point, wondering whether it’s okay to stop and just live the best way you can, only you can answer that. No doctor will make that decision for you, nor should they. Whatever choice you make from that place will be the right choice for you.

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This week is the VEDA (Vestibular Disorders Association) Conference, Life Rebalanced Live 2026. It’s become one of my favorite weeks of the year because it’s the one time I’m immersed into a fellowship of hundreds of people who get it. The dizziness, brain fog, nausea, visual intolerance, migraines, and fatigue are shared along with solutions for how we live well when we don’t even feel comfortable in our own bodies.

For me, it starts with daily, repetitive acceptance. Before my feet even hit the floor, I remind myself that this is the current version of me, and there’s no going backward. “Once a pickle, always a pickle,” as we say in sobriety. Acceptance is the key to unlock my morning. It opens the door to willingness and allows me live well despite the symptoms. I got to learn slowly, and sometimes stubbornly, that I’m the expert on my body, and no doctor can chose the right healing path for me. I’ve had to participate in making those decisions, weighing what’s available with what helps and what hurts.

I kept a symptom-and-joy journal where I wrote down what I did, when I did it, how bad my symptoms got (0–10), and how much joy I felt (1–10). That journal turned my chaos into patterns. And over time, these practices of acceptance, tracking, fellowship, rest, and small brave repetitions built confidence, purpose, and hope amidst uncertainty.

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Even when our painful circumstances don’t move, our emotions around them do. My disability is permanent, but my emotional experience is fluid. You may have heard before that our emotions move like weather, and it’s our job not to attach ourselves to them. But, my character defects tell me that whatever hurts today will hurt like this forever. I don’t have to drag my pain through a hard season. I can acknowledge it without letting it run my life. The way I create that distance between me and the pain is getting honest about what’s happening, out loud, with safe people.

I tend to feel more comfortable in pain than I am in joy. Pain feels familiar and predictable. Joy requires vulnerability and needs me to participate. Almost ten years ago, someone threw me a life raft. It took several throws before I caught it. Life rafts come in a thousand forms: AA, support group, therapist, sponsor, friend, faith community, or rehab program. Anyone can throw you one, but it’s our job to reach for it, catch it, and keep holding on long enough for the rescue to unfold. We need each other to process pain, and together we learn how to float.

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I sat down with Kaitlin Weigle to discuss what it’s like to live with OCD, and what misconceptions exist, like “all OCD’rs are clean.” Kaitlin breaks down how OCD is the obsessive loop and compulsions that try to neutralize fear, including mental compulsions like arguing with your thoughts, seeking reassurance, and avoiding triggers. We talked about intrusive thoughts, why they feel so convincingly real, and the shift that happens when you learn that the content of the thought isn’t the problem. Instead, the solution is in the relationship you have with the thought. Along the way, we laugh a lot and, not surprisingly, we connect the dots between OCD, anxiety, and the universal experience of “the conversation between our ears.”

We discussed practical recovery concepts, like exposure and response prevention (ERP), accepting uncertainty, and the idea that “possible doesn’t mean probable.” Kaitlin shares what it looks like to do one uncomfortable thing a day and pair it with self-care, plus how loved ones can be supportive without feeding the reassurance trap. From there, we pivot into peer recovery support, what it is, and how it’s different from traditional talk-therapy. We close with rapid-fire takeaways, resources like Sharewell and HeyPeers, and a clear message for anyone struggling quietly with OCD: you’re not alone, you’re not your thoughts, and you deserve a life that isn’t driven by fear.

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Yesterday I heard the phrase, “gratitude is action,” and it gave me pause. What does that really mean? In early recovery, my sponsor and sponsees shared three “gratefuls” with each other every day. Not autopilot answers, but three gifts that positively affected my life that day. It took time to build the habit, but I began scanning for strengths, assets, and connection. That training mattered when my life changed after my stroke. The shift toward noticing what is available, what is working, and what is possible became a practiced skill. Gratitude moved from a feeling to something I did on purpose.

Gratitude becomes action when I use what I’ve been given. Recovery communities work because each of us brings something different to the table. I don’t have to be everything to everyone. I just bring my gifts. If I’m grateful for my voice, I speak. If I’m grateful for creativity and steady hands, I make things for people. If I’m grateful for connection, I show up to meetings, support groups, and my world-famous 💃🏻 podcast. Hope is transmitted through example, and participation is how I express gratitude.

So, gratitude asks two questions: what have I received today, and what can I offer today?

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After my stroke, I began experiencing vision problems and headaches that I couldn’t clearly explain. Over time, I realized the core issue wasn’t my eyesight itself but my inability to tolerate motion, especially seeing things move. Walking through a grocery store felt overwhelming, like everything was rushing toward me. I saw multiple eye doctors and completed extensive testing, yet I was repeatedly told my vision system was normal. Some tests were painful, particularly visual convergence exercises, but the only explanation I was given was a minor convergence issue. I lived with symptoms that didn’t match the test results.

I tried vision therapy, but it consistently triggered nausea and worsened my symptoms without improvement. Vestibular therapy, however, helped me function better. It didn’t remove my symptoms, but it reduced my fear and gave me practical strategies, such as focusing on a stable object while walking or moving my eyes intentionally instead of scanning. I still manage headaches, light sensitivity, and motion intolerance daily, but I’ve learned how to pace myself, identify triggers, and adapt. My vestibular disorder is permanent, but with the right tools and acceptance, I’m building a joyful life around it.

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I’ve been wrestling with self-inflicted pressure that turns choices into requirements. I’m typically intrinsically motivated but can still get tripped up by extrinsic forces like approval, guilt, fear of disappointing people, and that inner “should’a” self-talk.

I’ve actually found a way to put pressure on myself to live the perfect recovery life, trying to build a perfect routine going to AA, church, trying social groups, hobbies, and even walking my dog. How easily I start to measure my recovery by how many things I can commit to and be perfectly consistent. Protecting my sobriety and my stroke recovery must factor in what supports my brain and body, not what fills my calendar. Recovery is building a life I can comfortably live inside where serenity is a valid metric.

I challenge anyone who relates to “should’a” self-talk to try one small experiment this week: pick one thing you’ve labeled as a requirement for yourself and relabel it as a choice. Instead of saying “I need to” say “I get to.” Notice if what started out as an obligation gets promoted into something fun.

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My expectations are resentments under construction. Learned in sobriety, praying for someone I’m resentful toward helps me move toward forgiveness by remembering we’re all flawed and “sick in some way.” I realized, however, it can still carry an underlying tone of “I forgive you for not being what I wanted you to be.” A friend suggested to me that praising the other person can move us further into acceptance.

Praise removes the expectation entirely as well as the need to control someone’s character or rewrite who they are. Praising is choosing to see the value in another person’s temperament and God’s design, and even recognizing that what irritates me might be a strength in their life.

This same practice of praise can be turned inward too. Learning to praise myself, accept my own wiring, and remembering that the parts of me that I sometimes judge harshly, like my anxiety and sensitivity, can be my superpowers.

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