In this conversation, Chris and Curtis discuss the topics of loneliness and feeling incomplete. They talk about the heavy weight of loneliness and the awkwardness that comes with being single, whether due to divorce or the loss of a loved one. Curtis shares his personal experiences of feeling lonely and incomplete after the death of his late wife, Michal. They also touch on the temptation to seek fulfillment in unhealthy ways and the challenges of navigating relationships after loss.

TIME STAMPS

0:00- Intro-"Tell Me Something Good"

3:00-Loneliness in Grief

7:00- The Loss of Loving Touch

9:00- The Confusing Feelings After The Loss of A Spouse

11:00- How Long Until The Wedding Comes Off?

19:30- Can You Feel Complete In Your Grief?

25:00- Hope & Purpose For Your Lonely Season

28:00- Faith Vs Feelings & Embracing The Truth of Scripture

31:00- Does My Grief Give Me License to Sin?

33:00- The Numbness of Grief & Lack of Empathy

39:00- What Does God Want to Do With Your Grief?

44:00- What Life Would Have Been Like Having Never Met Michal

50:00- Motivating Friends After Life-Altering Events

53:00- Curtis's Practical Advice on Doing The Little Things Each Day

56:00- Curtis's Closing Prayer Over Those Stuck In Grief

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SUMMARY

In this conversation, Chris and Curtis discuss the importance of the lessons that Michal taught Curtis about “Saying the Things”

The episode covers personal stories and lessons learned from Curtis & Michal’s r relationships, emphasizing the power of words of affirmation and appreciation. They highlight the need to express love and appreciation to others while they are still alive, rather than waiting until a funeral. The conversation also touches on the significance of giving full attention to others and the impact it can have. Overall, the conversation encourages listeners to be intentional in expressing their love and appreciation to the people in their lives.

TIME STAMPS

0:00- Intro & Fun Michal Story

3:30-The Power of “Saying The Things”

8:30- The Impact of Words of Affirmation

15:00- The Importance of Giving Full Attention

30:00-Legacy of Words

Join Curtis & Chris as they cover the period after the funeral, detailing the initial days and months following the loss of Curtis’s beloved wife, Michal.

This episode explores the experiences of grief & support as Curtis talks about keeping his wife's memory alive.

The conversation also delves into the administrative aspects of dealing with the belongings of the deceased.

Curtis shares personal experiences of the emotional journey of dealing with the memories and possessions of his late wife. He also discusses the impact of grief on the children and the importance of preserving memories.

The conversation travels to purpose after loss, as well as the significance of supporting and connecting with others grieving.

Time Stamps

0:00 - Trying to Cope: Immediate Hours & Days After the Funeral

4:30 - The Food Frenzy: Should You Drop Off or Stay and Talk?

6:00 - Long-Term Coping Mechanisms: Weeks & Months After the Funeral

11:30 - Few & Far Between Finding Creative Ways to See the Kids.

16:30 - God’s Faithfulness: How Curtis Reconnected with Michal's Kids.

21:30 - What Do We Do with Mom’s Belongings? Navigating Sentimental Keepsakes

27:00 - A Memorable Oil Change Story

30:30 - Repurposing Mom’s Belongings: Creating Meaningful Memories

32:30 - An Unforgettable Gift: Support for Michal’s Grieving Kids

36:30 - Heartbreaking Moments: How Kids Cope with Grief

38:30 - Life Will Never Be the Same Again: Embracing the New Normal

43:00 - Finding Purpose from Grief: Turning Pain into Purpose

45:30 - Joining the Grief Club: Running to the Hard Together

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