Episode Summary:

“To trust the process, you often have to grieve the illusion of control.”

In this solo episode, we explore trust not as a passive hope, but as an active practice of letting go. Aligned with the Metal Element and the season of Autumn, this conversation invites you to pause, exhale, and reflect.

You’ll be guided through breathwork, a personal story about surrendering control, and a simple but powerful tea routine designed to help you cultivate trust. If you’re in a season of transition or feeling the tension of trying to force outcomes, this is your invitation to soften.

Let your tea be a teacher. Let the season guide you. And let this be the moment you begin to trust again.

What We Cover in This Episode:

* Why the Metal Element and Autumn invite us to refine and release

* A personal story about moving house and learning to trust the timing of life

* Insights from Alan Watts on insecurity and surrender

* How grief and gratitude both relate to the Metal Element

* A full breakdown of the Trust Cup Tea Routine

* A powerful closing reflection question to help you reconnect with trust

This Week’s Tea Routine:

The Trust Cup

This calming ritual includes four steps: mindful brewing, conscious breathing, gratitude journaling, and present-moment sipping. It’s a small daily practice that can lead to big internal shifts.

Recommended tea: Coconut & Turmeric Chai, perfect for the grounding energy of Autumn.

Resources Mentioned:

* The Wisdom of Insecurity by Alan Watts

* The Anatomy of Trust by Brené Brown

* The Tea Mind system and the role of Metal in Autumn

* Tea Mind’s Trust Cup Routine (explained fully inside the episode)

Your Reflection Prompt:

What would it look like to trust yourself just for today?

Ask yourself:What is one action I can take?What is one outcome I can choose to release?

Use your pause for tea to reflect on the answers.

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