In this episode of Starve the Doubts, host Jared Easley reconnects with longtime friend and guest Jason Patello, co-owner of the Patello Insurance Group and founder of MIA (Motivate, Inspire, Affirm). Jason shares how he went from being a stay-at-home dad—famously known as “Butter Dad”—to leading a successful seven-figure insurance team. He explains how personal tragedy led him into mortgage protection, details his commitment to inspiring others through positive affirmations, and highlights the pivotal mindset shifts that shaped his growth. Jason’s story is a testament to resilience, self-belief, and the power of “starving the doubts.”

Key Topics & Takeaways

The Origin Story

• Jason’s early days as a stay-at-home dad and initial connection with Jared
• Transitioning from “Butter Dad” to co-founding the Patello Insurance Group with his wife, Crystal

Why Mortgage Protection Insurance Matters

• A family tragedy that sparked Jason’s passion for protecting others
• Adapting to virtual/phone appointments while maintaining personal connections

Mindset & Motivation

• How mindset, affirmations, and gratitude can combat self-doubt
• Nighttime and morning routines for staying grounded (including brushing teeth with the opposite hand)

Leadership & Team Building

• Viewing agents as business partners and creating a duplicable process
• Balancing family life, professional growth, and a rapidly expanding agency

MIA (Motivate, Inspire, Affirm)

• The “why” behind Jason’s motivational content—and how he needed it first
• Harnessing self-talk, affirmations, and positivity to shift the subconscious

Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs

• “Never get stuck in the paralysis of analysis”
• Staying humble and hungry, no matter how big your wins

Memorable Quotes

Resources & Links

• Patello Insurance Group
  PatelloInsuranceGroup.com
• Jason’s YouTube Channel
  “Jason Patello” for the MIA (Motivate, Inspire, Affirm) playlist
• Connect with Host Jared Easley
  Starve The Doubts

Action Steps

1. Check Your Mindset
   • Reflect on three things you’re grateful for daily.
   • Use positive self-talk and disrupt routine habits (e.g., brush with your opposite hand).
2. Evaluate Your Insurance Needs
   • If you’re a new homeowner or haven’t reviewed your life insurance, consider talking to someone like Jason.
3. Fuel Personal Growth
   • Listen to motivational podcasts or watch inspiring videos regularly.
   • Engage with content that encourages you to keep pushing forward.
4. Stay Connected
   • Visit PatelloInsuranceGroup.com or follow Jason on YouTube for more affirmations.

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Episode Summary:

In this powerful episode of Starve the Doubts, host Jared Easley sits down with motivational speaker, author, and fitness guru Martin Pigg to discuss the transformational power of mindset, personal growth, and relentless pursuit of one’s dreams. Martin shares his incredible journey—from a successful career as a pilot to taking a leap of faith into the personal development space, despite the risks and doubts from those around him.

Throughout the conversation, Martin dives into the core principles of his PIGG framework—Passion, Intention, Gratitude, and Grace—as a foundation for living a fulfilled and purpose-driven life. He opens up about the challenges he's faced, including the loss of his parents, financial struggles, and personal betrayals, yet explains how he has continuously found the strength to push forward by maintaining faith in himself and the greater energy that guides us all.

Listeners will be inspired by Martin’s transformational fitness journey, his shift into executive coaching and speaking, and his insights into recognizing "God Winks"—seemingly random but divinely orchestrated moments that help guide us toward our true calling. He also shares the importance of reframing our perspective on age, pain, and circumstances, emphasizing that they are myths and excuses that prevent us from living the life we are meant to live.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

• Why your odds of being born (1 in 400 trillion) make you a miracle and how that realization should shape your self-worth.
• How to cultivate a mindset of gratitude, even in the face of adversity.
• The importance of surrounding yourself with the right people—those who lift you up rather than drag you down.
• How to discern a true calling or “God Wink” from fleeting thoughts or self-doubt.
• Why your passion, when pursued with intention, will either become your purpose or lead you to it.
• How to overcome imposter syndrome and take the first step toward achieving your dream life.

Whether you're feeling stuck in your current circumstances, struggling with self-doubt, or simply seeking inspiration to take bold action toward your dreams, this conversation with Martin Pigg is packed with wisdom, motivation, and actionable steps that will help you break through limitations and take flight.

Connect with Martin Pigg:

• Website: MartinPigg.com (For books, coaching, and speaking engagements)
• Instagram: @martinpigg

🔥 "Never allow the voices of mediocrity to silence the whispers of your own soul." — Martin Pigg


This episode is a must-listen for anyone who needs a push to break free from self-doubt, reclaim their passion, and start living a life of intention, gratitude, and grace! 🚀

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Episode Summary:
In this inspiring episode of Starve the Doubts, Jared Easley welcomes back a returning guest and now friend, Miranda Oda, for an in-depth discussion about personal growth, achieving career milestones, and maintaining balance in life. Miranda shares her journey from being a wealth management advisor in Honolulu, Hawaii, to acquiring another financial practice at 27. She reveals the secrets to her success, including her commitment to personal development, a strong "to be list," and her adventurous spirit.

Miranda also talks about:

• Her love for music and how Metallica inspired her to pick up the guitar.
• Her recent foray into personal growth through PSI Seminars and setting balanced life goals.
• How she approaches challenges, pivots, and creates positive outcomes.
• Supporting local art, like pole dancing as an art form, has enriched her perspective.

Miranda’s candid insights about managing stress, finding balance, and staying authentic will resonate with anyone striving for a more fulfilled life.

Key Takeaways:

• To Be, Not Just To Do: Miranda emphasizes the importance of focusing on how we want to be rather than just what we want to do.
• Visualization and Rituals: Developing daily rituals and visualizing success are vital to maintaining clarity and focus.
• Faith and Purpose: Staying grounded in a sense of purpose and vision helps overcome obstacles and navigate detours.
• Channeling Energy Positively: Miranda highlights the importance of turning setbacks into opportunities for growth.

Quotes from the Episode:

• "Words create worlds. To change your life, you must change how you think."
• "It's not enough to know what you want; you must follow through and take risks."
• "I have a choice: to be stressed and broke or stressed and successful."

Connect with Miranda Oda:

• Instagram: @Miranda.HM
• Professional Website: mirandaoda.nm.com

Resources Mentioned:

• PSI Seminars: Personal growth and development workshops that Miranda credits with her balanced life approach.
• Aloha Tree Alliance: A nonprofit organization dedicated to restoring native plants in Hawaii. Consider giving the gift of a named tree this holiday season.

Final Thoughts from Miranda:
"Everyone has a to-do list, but why not have a to-be list as well? Focus on how you want to be in the moment, and everything else will follow."

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