What ADHD teens actually need from their parents can feel confusing, exhausting, and emotional—and if you’ve ever wondered whether you’re getting it “right,” this episode will bring relief. I sat down with Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart, a pediatric psychologist, parent coach, and author of Love the Teen You Have, for a deeply validating and practical conversation about parenting teens with ADHD. You’ll walk away feeling supported, encouraged, and equipped with tools you can use right away.

We explore why she wrote her book, the real meaning behind its title, and the myths that leave so many parents feeling defeated. We dig into how to stay connected when your teen is pushing boundaries, why unconditional love changes everything, and what it truly looks like to support ADHD teens with executive function, emotional regulation, and respect. We also get honest about step-parenting, hormone changes, and the emotional rollercoaster that comes with the teen years. Dr. Lockhart offers practical scripts, mindset shifts, and strategies to help you navigate tough moments with confidence and compassion.

Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart is a pediatric psychologist, parent coach, and author who has been featured in The New York Times, Parents, HuffPost, and The Today Show. After feeling disconnected from her own mom as a teen, she wrote her book to help parents build the closeness she once wished for. Love the Teen You Have is available now.

Episode Highlights:
[0:35] Introducing Dr. Lockhart + her book
[2:19] Why she wrote it + radical acceptance
[3:45] Parenting vs. loving the child you have
[6:14] Unconditional acceptance as transformation
[7:37] The myth that “good parenting = good results”
[10:11] Rejection sensitivity + separating facts from stories
[13:35] ADHD catastrophizing vs. teen behavior
[16:24] PDA vs. ODD
[18:11] Teens seeking connection through conflict
[21:06] Gentle parenting vs. permissive parenting
[23:05] The “redo” + modeling regulation
[25:39] Repairing after rupture
[28:32] Hormones, puberty, and emotional upheaval
[34:30] What ADHD adults need to know about teen brains
[36:43] Can you be a friend and a parent?
[39:25] Step-parenting + connection first
[42:09] What schools need to understand
[44:24] Where to find Dr. Lockhart

Links and Resources:

• 📘 Love the Teen You Have by Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart – Available wherever books are sold
• 🌐 Visit Dr. Ann-Louise Lockhart’s website: https://drannlouiselockhart.com/
• 📱 Follow her on Instagram: @dr.annlouise.lockhart
• ▶️ Check out her YouTube channel for parenting insights and tips: https://www.youtube.com/@dr.annlouiselockhart

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College can feel overwhelming for students with ADHD, but support exists. In this episode, I talk with Hannah Choi—executive function coach and communications specialist at Beyond Booksmart. Hannah shares her personal ADHD story and practical tools to help college students build independence, manage their time, and advocate for what they need. From study strategies that actually work to understanding accommodations, we unpack how to set students up for a smoother transition into college.

Whether you're a student, parent, or educator, you’ll walk away with actionable strategies. We also explore gap years, what colleges are required to provide under ADA, and how executive function coaching builds confidence beyond academics.

Meet Hannah Choi
Hannah Choi, MA, is an executive function coach and Communications and Engagement Specialist at Beyond Booksmart. She helps college students and adults strengthen time management, task initiation, and self-advocacy skills. Hannah hosts the Focus Forward podcast, leads webinars, and facilitates motivation and accountability programs. She holds degrees in Psychology and American Sign Language from the University of Rochester and a Master’s in Education from UC Santa Barbara. Hannah lives in Connecticut with her family.

Episode Highlights
[0:00] What studying really looks like with ADHD
[2:26] Hannah’s ADHD discovery and coaching path
[11:09] Study strategies that build self-regulation
[13:37] How to start practicing self-advocacy
[15:52] Accommodations: from 504 to college
[21:06] Top executive function skills before college
[23:38] Managing all that “free time”
[26:33] Building independence (without overparenting)
[29:55] The case for gap years and transition programs
[35:41] How EF skills impact life after graduation
[38:50] Getting unstuck: motivation + task initiation
[46:35] Final takeaway: it’s never too late to change

Connect with Hannah Choi:

Instagram: @beyondbooksmartcoaching
Website: https://www.beyondbooksmart.com/
Focus Forward Podcast: https://www.beyondbooksmart.com/podcast

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In this episode, I sit down with the brilliant and hilarious Ashley Nicole Black—Emmy-winning writer, comedian, and actor known for her work on A Black Lady Sketch Show, Ted Lasso, and Shrinking. We dive into her personal ADHD journey, the powerful intersection of being Black and neurodivergent, and how her diagnosis—sparked by an unexpected wave of social media feedback—reshaped her understanding of herself. Ashley opens up about what it was like navigating school as a gifted yet misunderstood student, and how she's found strength and freedom in embracing the way her brain works.

This conversation is packed with insight, laughter, and hard truths. We talk about the realities of being undiagnosed for years, the emotional and physical toll of late recognition, and how ADHD both challenges and fuels her creativity in fast-paced writing rooms. Ashley shares why she believes improv should be part of every neurodivergent toolkit, and we touch on the need for authentic, joyful neurodivergent representation in media. This is a must-listen if you're looking for validation, inspiration, or just a damn good laugh.

Episode Highlights:

[0:00] - Ashley shares the moment social media “diagnosed” her with ADHD before she even knew
[2:21] - The real path to her diagnosis—and how PMS played a surprising role
[5:40] - Childhood teachers, misunderstood brilliance, and being “smart but not smart”
[8:28] - Why schools need to rethink how they handle gifted, ADHD, and Black kids
[11:15] - How acting and writing became Ashley’s creative outlet and career
[13:19] - Using ADHD strengths in fast-paced writing rooms and comedy
[17:11] - Learning to manage energy instead of pushing through burnout
[21:23] - Why social media helped Ashley get diagnosed—and how it ties into dopamine seeking
[23:26] - Misdiagnosed with anxiety: what doctors missed
[26:03] - Representation of neurodiversity in media: we need more funny, authentic portrayals
[30:33] - Managing personal energy, shifting social time, and navigating life balance
[32:30] - A hilarious behind-the-scenes ADHD moment in the writers' room
[33:32] - Navigating ADHD and being Black in Hollywood
[36:43] - Creating authentic Black representation on shows like Ted Lasso
[40:43] - The power of storytelling and audience connection
[41:09] - How Ashley remembers lines despite ADHD memory challenges
[42:40] - “Laziness” redefined: the creativity in finding your own way
[44:00] - Encouragement for adults and parents of kids with ADHD
[46:34] - Improv as therapy: how it builds confidence and authenticity
[49:25] - What’s next for Ashley—updates on Shrinking and Ted Lasso

Connect with Ashley Nicole Black:

IG: @ashnb1

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