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  • Take the stairs to Europe with us!
    Jun 12 2024

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    What happens when you mix a three-week podcast recording hiatus with a tipsy editing adventure? You get a hilarious recount of our recent shenanigans, thanks to our editor Nisa's deft touch. I also share the joys of my digital detox in Guatemala, from thrilling slides and charming Antigua streets to some less-than-stellar food moments. Meanwhile, my co-host relaxed with her partner, making for a heartfelt and funny recap of our time away.

    Ever wondered how to plan a spontaneous European vacation amidst personal trials and new relationships? Get the inside scoop on how Leslie broke the news of her non-negotiable travel plans to her new boyfriend and managed to rope a friend into joining last minute. We navigate through the madness of booking flights and coordinating transportation across London, Paris, Milan, and Rome, turning what seemed like an obstacle course into a liberating adventure.

    Join us as we recount our European escapades—both the magical highs and the frustrating lows. From Disneyland Paris and the top of the Arc de Triomphe, it's a rollercoaster of laughs and memorable experiences. Hear about our budget triumphs, the quirky mission to dine at every McDonald's we could find, and the serendipitous moments that made this trip unforgettable. Tune in for a laughter-filled episode packed with cherished memories and a fair share of travel mishaps.

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    53 min
  • Q & A episode with the Chodes!
    Jun 3 2024

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    The expectations placed on women are as contradictory as they are exhausting. Why is it that our candidness is met with skepticism about our relationship prospects? In this episode, we face listener feedback head-on, dissecting reactions to our outspoken nature and the double standards we encounter. We dive into the societal norms that box women in and discuss how public figures like Drew Afualo and Andrew Tate both challenge and reinforce these stereotypes, revealing the strength it takes to stay true to oneself amidst criticism.

    As we navigate the tricky terrain of gender roles and trust issues, we explore the often frustrating '50/50' mentality in relationships and the pervasive influence of toxic masculinity. We also tackle complex topics like consent, personal boundaries, and even a listener's shocking confession about a stepdad crush. With humor and personal anecdotes, we keep the conversation real and relatable, emphasizing the importance of confidence, authenticity, and confronting societal expectations with unwavering honesty.

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    20 min
  • Fears that can Bite You in the A$%
    May 27 2024

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    What if the things we fear the most could also bring us some of our greatest insights? Join us on this week's episode where we start with a light-hearted chat about our favorite festive drinks and the maddening rise in prices of everyday essentials like sunscreen and deodorant. As we share some laughs and frustrations over staying sun-safe and fresh, we set the stage for a deeper conversation about our biggest fears and the impact they have on our lives.

    Ever wondered what it's like to face your fear of dying head-on? We'll take you on a poignant journey through our reflections on mortality, love, and the desire to leave a lasting legacy. We open up about our fear of dying without making a meaningful mark on the world, which leads us into a discussion on the importance of showing love, cherishing moments, and dealing with the haunting randomness of life-threatening events like car accidents.

    But it’s not all heavy; we also touch on some lighter, albeit creepy, fears. From the irrational terrors of spiders and snakes to the extreme measures we take to keep these pests away from our homes, you'll hear some truly hair-raising stories. Our phobias provide a perfect segue into tips on maintaining a pest-free living space, all spiced up with humor and personal anecdotes. And, as a special treat, we look ahead to next week's Q&A session and our plans to share photos from a vibrant family garden in Guatemala City. So sit back, relax, and enjoy this heartfelt and entertaining episode!

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    34 min
  • Mariah's Toxic Love Story
    May 20 2024

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    Imagine reconnecting with a childhood flame under the firework-lit sky of Guatemala, only to find that not all is as it seems. We're sharing stories that pluck at the heartstrings, from youthful romances rekindled to the raw realities of navigating love amidst addiction and the collapse of shared dreams. Mariah opens up about the peaks and pitfalls of a past relationship, shedding light on the strength it takes to support a partner through thick and thin and the heavy decisions faced within the throes of dysfunction and betrayal.

    Strap in for an emotional rollercoaster as we walk the tightrope of heartbreak, with tales of breakup aftermaths that are as real as they come. From harrowing dreams that foreshadow an ex's infidelity to the daunting task of confronting painful truths, our conversation is a deep dive into the resilience required to leave toxicity in the rearview. There's solace in solidarity, and as we bear witness to the support that comes from friends and strangers alike, this episode is a testament to the unshakeable human spirit that persists through life's trials and tribulations.

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    59 min
  • Leslie's Villain Origin Story: The Devil
    May 12 2024

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    We navigate the ever-changing tides of relationships and personal growth, from the joy of family celebrations to the hard-hitting lessons learned from betrayal. Join us for a heartfelt look at how the years add layers to our desires, chill weekends and early nights the new norm over the clubbing nights of our youth.

    Remember MySpace and the early days of digital courtship? Leslie will take us on a journey telling us about her most toxic relationship. Our candid conversation also dives into the emotional complexities of deception in relationships, revealing the shock of discovering a partner's hidden life and the resilience required to move forward from such deep betrayals.

    The wisdom of hindsight shines through as we reflect on past relationships and the strength it takes to confront and overcome toxicity. Sharing personal stories of confronting a man who lived a double life and the raw emotions that come with facing deceit head-on. This episode isn't just a trip down memory lane; it's about the hard-earned lessons that teach us to trust our instincts and the courage it takes to set boundaries in the pursuit of authentic connections.

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    1 h
  • Monogamy, myth or fairytale?
    May 6 2024

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    Hey y'all! Ever had that one date that went sideways because of something as silly as a food preference? Join me as we swap stories ranging from a neediness overload with a Colombian suitor to a culinary clash with a chef who just couldn't digest my pork aversion.

    This episode isn't just about my dating escapades; it's a deep dive into the murky waters of relationships and the enigma of monogamy. Are we all cut out for a one-and-only, or are some stories meant to have more than two main characters? We'll chat about everything from cultural clashes to the irony of connections that pass us by.

    But wait, there's more! If managing one relationship feels like a full-time job, imagine being 'number three' in a love triangle—or should I say, love polygon? We're pulling back the curtain on non-monogamous relationships, sharing stories and examining the emotional acrobatics involved. And for those of you who love a good cliffhanger, we've got a tantalizing preview of next week's episode where one of us will reveal her past with 'the devil' himself. Until then, whether you're fresh out of the shower or cozying up for the night, take care and enjoy the laughs and revelations!

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    37 min
  • FWB & Happy Solo Endings
    Apr 29 2024

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    Ever imagined what it would be like to trade in the daily grind for a series of spontaneous job adventures? We kick things off with a playful debate that might make you consider the possibility—until we remember those pesky things called bills.

    We veer into the intimate territory of Friends with Benefits, revealing our own rollercoaster experiences and the quirky characters that have colored our past. And because we’re all about keeping it real, we even discuss our 'lists' of former flames, proving that life is too short to not embrace every quirky tale.

    But it’s not all about the laughs; we're diving deep into the nitty-gritty of pleasure and relationships. We explore the importance of self-discovery, the role of self-pleasure, and how toys play into the dynamic of modern relationships, tackling potential insecurities along the way. So, whether you're stirring your morning coffee or pouring a glass of wine to unwind, tune in for a dose of real talk that promises to entertain. See you on the flip side!

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    47 min
  • One-Night Wonders, Tech probs & Friendship Fiascos
    Apr 24 2024

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    Ever had one of those dates that left you wondering why you didn't just stay home with a good book? Buckle up, friends, because I'm about to take you on a rollercoaster ride through a Facebook dating escapade that ended with more than just my spirits dampened in Little Tokyo. And if you've ever felt the FOMO while everyone else is out soaking up the Coachella sun, you'll appreciate our music-filled banter.

    But it's not all rain clouds and missed concerts; life's spontaneous moments often lead to the most unforgettable stories. Picture this: an unexpected night out in downtown LA, complete with a motley crew of new acquaintances, tipsy scooter rides, and the kind of bonding that only happens when you're sharing laughs under neon lights. It's a candid look at the ups and downs of diving back into dating after a breakup, embracing the wild ride that is single life, and the lessons learned along the way.

    The heart of our conversation, though, is about the ties that bind us—whether they're wrapped in love, friendship, or something a bit more complicated. We open up about the painful process of sifting through a toxic friendship and the bravery it takes to redraw personal boundaries.

    Join us for an episode that's as much about the laughs as it is about the real talk on navigating the connections that shape our lives.

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    42 min