No matter how much you do, it still feels like you should be doing more.

More activities.More patience.More productivity.More presence.More effort.

In this episode, we’re talking about “more culture” in motherhood—the exhausting, never-ending pressure to give more, take on more, and become more… while that nagging voice in the back of your mind still whispers, “It’s not enough.”

We unpack where this mindset comes from, how it sneaks into even the most well-intentioned moms, and why doing more rarely brings the peace we’re hoping for.

In this episode, we cover:

• What “more culture” looks like in everyday motherhood
• Why even high-capacity, loving moms still feel inadequate
• How comparison, expectations, and guilt fuel the pressure
• The emotional cost of constantly doing more
• How to quiet the voice that says you’re falling short
• What it looks like to choose enough instead of more

If you’ve ever ended the day exhausted, yet still feeling behind—this conversation will put words to what you’ve been carrying.

If this episode made you feel seen, share it with a mom who needs permission to stop striving. Subscribe, leave a review, and send us a message on Instagram telling us where you feel the most pressure to “do more.”

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Keywords: motherhood podcast, mom burnout, pressure on moms, mental load of motherhood, comparison in motherhood, mom guilt, overwhelmed moms, unrealistic expectations for moms, slow motherhood, choosing enough, mental health for moms

What does it actually look like to serve your friends—without burning yourself out or building quiet resentment?

In this episode, we’re having an honest, real-life conversation about service in friendship—what it looks like in busy seasons of motherhood, mental health struggles, and full calendars. Because showing up for your friends shouldn’t come at the cost of your own well-being.

We talk about how to support and serve your friends in ways that are sustainable, how to be honest about your capacity, and why keeping a “scorecard” of who does what will quietly destroy even the strongest friendships.

In this episode, we cover:

• What healthy service in friendship really looks like

• How to show up without overextending or people-pleasing

• Being honest about your needs and limitations

• How to ask your friends how they need support (instead of assuming)

• Giving grace when there’s been silence, distance, or missed seasons

• How to say no to friends while still offering meaningful support

• Why healthy friendships don’t keep score

Whether you’re feeling stretched thin, navigating a distant friendship, or learning how to show up better without resentment, this episode will help you rethink what it means to be a supportive, grace-filled friend.

If this episode resonated, share it with a friend you want to grow with—not keep score with. Be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and send us a message on Instagram letting us know what part of friendship feels hardest in this season.

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Keywords:friendship podcast, healthy friendships, boundaries in friendship, serving others without burnout, adult friendships, friendship and boundaries, showing up for friends, honest communication in friendships, motherhood and friendship, people pleasing recovery, emotional burnout, grace in relationships

What if 2026 isn’t about doing more… but about doing what actually matters?

In this episode, we’re reflecting on what we’re leaving behind in 2025 and what we’re intentionally bringing into 2026—as moms, wives, entrepreneurs, and women walking with God. We talk honestly about releasing the pressure to “balance it all,” the burnout that comes from striving, and the habits that no longer serve our faith, health, or families.

We share how we’re prioritizing a stronger relationship with God and Jesus Christ, choosing better nourishment—physically and spiritually, and redefining what a full, meaningful life really looks like in this next season. This conversation is for the mom who feels stretched thin, the woman craving deeper faith, and anyone ready to stop surviving and start living with intention.

If you’re entering 2026 wanting more peace, clarity, and alignment—this episode is for you.

✨ In this episode, we cover:

• What we’re leaving behind in 2025 (burnout, pressure, unrealistic expectations)

• Building a deeper relationship with God and Jesus in everyday life

• Letting go of the myth of “balance” as a mom and entrepreneur

• Choosing better habits around food, health, and rest

• Setting faith-led intentions for the new year

🎧 If this episode resonates with you, share it with a friend who’s walking into 2026 feeling tired but hopeful. Don’t forget to subscribe, leave a review, and follow us on Instagram so we can grow this community of intentional mamas together.

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What if being chosen by God doesn’t mean having it all together?
In this episode, we’re diving into the life of Mary—the ordinary young woman God chose for an extraordinary calling—and what her story teaches us about faith, surrender, and trusting God when the plan doesn’t make sense.

Mary wasn’t chosen because she was perfect. She was chosen because she was willing. And for moms navigating motherhood, marriage, mental health, grief, and the everyday chaos of life, that truth hits deep.

We talk about:

• What it really means to trust God when you feel unqualified

• Why obedience doesn’t require perfection (and never has)

• How comparison steals our confidence in God’s calling

• Finding peace when God’s plan feels overwhelming or unclear

• Applying Mary’s faith to modern motherhood and real life struggles

If you’ve ever felt like you’re not enough, behind, or unsure if you’re doing life “right,” this episode is for you.

If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend who needs the reminder that she is chosen, not perfect. Be sure to subscribe, leave a review, and send us a DM on Instagram to tell us what part of Mary’s story spoke to you most.

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Christian motherhood podcast, trusting God, faith over fear, chosen not perfect, biblical encouragement for moms, obedience to God, Christian women podcast, motherhood and faith, surrendering control, Mary in the Bible, trusting God’s plan

In today’s episode, we dive into the comparison trap moms fall into—and how it quietly steals our joy, confidence, and sense of accomplishment. From social media pressure to milestone anxiety to the belief that every other mom has it more “together,” comparison can make us question our worth without even realizing it.

We break down why comparison feels so heavy, how it shows up in everyday motherhood, and the truth that each of us has unique gifts and strengths designed specifically for our children. You don’t need to be the “perfect mom.” You just need to be you—the mom your kids were given on purpose.

If you’ve ever felt behind, not enough, or like someone else is doing motherhood “better,” this episode will feel like a deep breath and a reset.

✨ In this episode we talk about:

• Why comparison is the biggest joy thief for moms

• The most common areas moms compare themselves

• How social media creates unrealistic expectations

• Why your gifts matter more than someone else’s strengths

• Practical steps to break the comparison cycle

• How to reclaim confidence in your motherhood journey

If this episode encourages you, share it with a mom friend who needs this reminder too. And make sure to follow, rate, and review the podcast—it helps our little community of mamas grow and supports us in creating more conversations like this.

You’re doing better than you think. You’re the mom you were meant to be. 💛

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It's TIIIIIIIIIME (cue the Mariah Carey song)! In this episode we reached out to YOU to learn more about and share your holiday traditions! We hope that as you get into the holiday spirit you remember the reason for the season, and that all your kids truly want for Christmas is time and memories with you.

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TW: miscarriage

In this episode, Kirsten, Mikaela, and Annie discuss the complexities of grief, particularly during the holiday season.

They share personal experiences with loss, the importance of community support, and how to navigate conversations about grief. Annie emphasizes the need for open communication and understanding when supporting someone who is grieving, while also addressing the unique challenges faced during family gatherings.

This conversation highlights the significance of honoring lost loved ones and finding ways to cope with grief in a healthy manner.

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