For years, I was doing everything therapy told me to do… and somehow, I was still getting worse. More panic. More symptoms. More fear. More confusion.

It didn't make sense.
Until it finally did.

In this episode, I'm sharing the part of healing that talk therapy never explained — the piece I didn't even know I was missing. If you've been in therapy, doing the work, trying your best… but nothing is changing, this conversation is going to make something click.

Soft Regulation System Waitlist

Feeling lazy, exhausted, and overstimulated? You're not lazy—your nervous system is maxed out. Learn why you're tired all the time even when you "haven't done anything" and how to rebuild capacity.

If you've been calling yourself lazy because you can't seem to make yourself do anything, this episode is for you.

What looks like laziness is often a nervous system that's been running at 12 out of 10 for years—maybe decades. Your body is burning massive energy internally through hypervigilance, worry loops, and constant stimulation... even when you're not "doing" anything visible.

In this episode, I talk about:

• Why laziness is almost never the real problem
• The difference between functional freeze and full freeze
• How overstimulation drains you without you realizing it
• Why your exhaustion isn't about today—it's cumulative
• What's actually happening when you "know what to do but can't do it"

This isn't a productivity problem. It's not a willpower problem. It's an overload problem.

Soft Regulation System Waitlist

Do you dread nighttime? Does your heart race the moment the sun goes down because you're terrified you won't sleep again? In this episode, I'm sharing my personal journey with insomnia — a battle that started when I was 15 years old and consumed my life for over two decades. I'll walk you through the exact moment everything shifted, the Reddit post that changed my perspective, and the mindset shift that finally broke the cycle. If you've tried every sleep hack, supplement, and strategy with no results, this one's for you. This is the insomnia conversation I wish someone had with me years ago.

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