Épisodes

  • EP 3565 A wise person can learn from anyone
    Dec 18 2025

    Wisdom isn't about being the smartest person in the room. It's about being humble enough to learn from everyone in it. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O'Gorman challenges the ego driven need to be right and explains why real growth comes from curiosity, openness, and self awareness. High performers and effective leaders understand that lessons show up in unexpected places if you are paying attention.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Why ego blocks growth more than lack of intelligence

    • How staying curious accelerates learning and performance

    • The difference between confidence and arrogance

    • Why feedback from unlikely sources can be your biggest advantage

    • How to build a mindset that keeps you improving over the long term

    If you think you already know enough, you have already stopped growing. Listen now and reset how you learn, lead, and evolve in every area of your life.

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    10 min
  • EP 3564 Opinions are like arseholes
    Dec 17 2025

    Everyone has an opinion. Most of them are uninformed, emotionally driven, and completely irrelevant to your life and goals. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O'Gorman dismantles the damage caused by giving weight to other people's opinions and why high performers learn to filter noise ruthlessly. If you're constantly adjusting your behaviour to avoid judgement, you are handing control of your life to people who aren't living it.

    This episode challenges the need for approval and exposes how opinion addiction weakens confidence, decision making, and leadership. Strong people don't need consensus. They need clarity, standards, and the courage to act even when others don't agree.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Why most opinions say more about the speaker than about you

    • How caring too much about judgement erodes confidence and self trust

    • The difference between useful feedback and destructive noise

    • Why leadership requires tolerance for disagreement

    • How to stay grounded in your values without becoming reactive or defensive

    If you want to live with conviction, lead with strength, and stop being derailed by outside noise, this episode is a necessary reset.

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    9 min
  • EP 3563 Only compete with yourself
    Dec 16 2025

    Most people waste their energy trying to beat others instead of becoming better than they were yesterday. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O'Gorman cuts through the noise around comparison, ego, and external validation. Competing with others is a distraction. Competing with yourself is where real growth, confidence, and high performance are built.

    This episode challenges the trap of measuring your life against someone else's highlights and reminds you that progress is personal, internal, and non negotiable if you want a strong life. Leaders, high performers, and anyone serious about self-mastery will recognise how comparison quietly erodes focus, consistency, and self-trust.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Why comparison kills momentum and confidence

    • How self competition creates sustainable motivation

    • The difference between external validation and internal standards

    • How to measure progress without ego or self-judgement

    • Why discipline beats motivation every time

    If you are serious about growth, stop watching what everyone else is doing and start doing the work that actually moves your life forward. Listen now and reset your focus on becoming better than you were yesterday.

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    9 min
  • EP 3562 What are you prepared to sacrifice?
    Dec 15 2025

    Everyone says they want more. More success. More confidence. More freedom. But very few people are willing to pay the price required to get it. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O'Gorman cuts through the noise and asks a confronting question: what are you actually prepared to sacrifice to become who you say you want to be?

    High performance is built on trade-offs. Time, comfort, excuses, short-term pleasure, and outdated identities all have to go. This episode challenges leaders, professionals, and driven individuals to take an honest look at their daily choices and recognise that every outcome in life is funded by something else.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Why wanting change means nothing without sacrifice

    • The hidden costs of comfort and convenience

    • How discipline and standards shape long-term success

    • Why excuses protect the life you say you want to escape

    • How to choose sacrifices that move you forward, not burn you out

    If you are serious about growth, this episode will force clarity. Listen now and decide what stays, what goes, and who you are committed to becoming.

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    10 min
  • EP 3561 You can't keep making the same mistakes and call yourself unlucky
    Dec 14 2025

    At some point, bad luck stops being bad luck and starts being a pattern. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O'Gorman delivers a blunt reminder that repeated outcomes come from repeated behaviours. High performers take responsibility for their results. They don't hide behind excuses, blame timing, or label poor decisions as misfortune. They audit their choices, learn the lesson, and change the behaviour.

    This episode is for anyone who feels stuck in the same cycles at work, in relationships, or in life and can't understand why nothing seems to change. The answer is uncomfortable, but it's also empowering. When you own your role in the outcome, you regain control of the future.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Why repeated mistakes are a feedback system, not bad luck

    • How avoiding responsibility keeps you trapped in the same results

    • The difference between self-compassion and self-deception

    • How high performers conduct honest self-audits

    • Practical steps to break behavioural loops and create new outcomes

    If you're serious about growth, this episode will challenge you to stop outsourcing responsibility and start leading your own life. Listen now and make the changes that luck never will.

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    9 min
  • EP 3560 You can learn the lessons from other people
    Dec 13 2025

    Most people insist on learning the hard way. That mindset is expensive, slow, and completely unnecessary. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O'Gorman challenges the belief that suffering is a prerequisite for growth. The truth is simple. You can shortcut years of pain, mistakes, and wasted energy by paying attention to the lessons already learned by others. High performers study patterns, behaviours, and consequences so they can make better decisions without burning their own lives down first.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Why repeating other people's mistakes is not courage, it's arrogance

    • How to extract real lessons from success and failure without direct experience

    • The difference between wisdom and experience and why wisdom scales faster

    • How ego blocks learning and keeps people stuck in predictable loops

    • Practical ways to observe, reflect, and apply lessons immediately

    If you're committed to growth, leadership, and long-term success, this episode will sharpen your thinking and save you time, energy, and regret. Learn faster, choose better, and move forward with intention.

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    9 min
  • EP 3559 Your golden years only happen in retrospect
    Dec 12 2025

    Most people think their best years are behind them. That belief is lazy, dangerous, and self-fulfilling. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O'Gorman dismantles the myth of "the golden years" and explains why they are only labelled that way after the fact. The truth is simple: your best years are built through daily choices, not nostalgia.

    This conversation is a wake-up call for anyone drifting, waiting for motivation, or quietly accepting decline. High performers don't romanticise the past. They create meaning, discipline, and purpose in the present so the future has something worth looking back on.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Why people only recognise their best years once they are gone

    • How nostalgia becomes an excuse to stop pushing forward

    • The difference between ageing and surrendering

    • Why purpose, not comfort, defines a fulfilling life

    • How to deliberately build years you will one day call "golden"

    If you are waiting for life to feel easier, more certain, or more comfortable before you act, this episode will challenge that thinking. Your future self is being shaped right now. Act accordingly.

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    10 min
  • EP 3558 Its never as hard as you think
    Dec 11 2025

    Most of the suffering in your life is created before you even start. In this episode of The Strong Life Project, Shaun O'Gorman challenges the mental stories that make problems feel bigger, heavier, and more overwhelming than they actually are. Fear, anticipation, and overthinking amplify discomfort and keep people stuck. High performers understand that action reduces anxiety and that momentum beats motivation every time.

    Key Takeaways:

    • Why anticipation creates more pain than the task itself

    • How overthinking drains energy before action begins

    • The mindset shift that makes hard things manageable

    • Why doing the work builds confidence faster than preparation

    • How to break problems down and move forward immediately

    If you've been avoiding something because it feels too hard, this episode will reset your perspective. Take the first step and prove to yourself that you're more capable than you think.

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    9 min