Why beliefs can either cap our potential or push us toward possibility.

What you believe about yourself could be holding you back. Fortunately, Nir Eyal says beliefs aren’t truths — and you can choose new ones.

Eyal is a former lecturer at Stanford Graduate School of Business and the Stanford d.school, a celebrated author, and a renowned expert on human behavior and potential. His latest book, Beyond Belief, reveals how limiting beliefs — like “I’m a bad communicator” — quietly shape what we see, feel, and do. “A belief doesn't have to be true” to limit our potential, he says. But the same holds in reverse: a belief doesn't have to be true to expand who and what we can become. “Beliefs are tools, not truths. It just has to be useful.”

In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Eyal and host Matt Abrahams explore how to identify the beliefs that hold us back — and how to replace them with ones that propel us forward. From keeping a belief journal to practicing perspective-shifting “turnarounds,” Eyal offers practical tips for rewriting the stories we tell ourselves and becoming the people we want to be.

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Episode Reference Links:

• Nir Eyal
• Nir’s Book: Beyond Belief
• 104. How to Change: Building Better Habits and Behaviors (And Getting Out of Your Own Way)
• 115. Rethinks: How We Set and Achieve Goals

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Chapters:

• (00:00) - Introduction
• (02:45) - The Power of Attention
• (04:30) - The Hook Model & Surprise
• (06:55) - Structure vs. Novelty
• (08:50) - Identity & Limiting Beliefs
• (11:52) - Beliefs Vs. Facts
• (15:17) - The Four-Question Test
• (21:20) - The Final Three Questions
• (24:31) - Conclusion

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Practical insights to help you communicate with more intention in everyday moments.

What’s the difference between reacting and responding? How do you move from memorizing your words to truly conversing in the moment? And how do you keep growing as a communicator in everyday moments?

Communication isn’t about having the perfect script. It’s about staying present enough to respond with intention. In fast-moving conversations, emotions rise, thoughts race, and structure can disappear. Yet it’s in the pause — the breath before we speak — that clarity begins.

In this Ask Matt Anything episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Matt Abrahams shares highlights from a recent live AMA inside the Think Fast, Talk Smart Learning Community. Listener questions open the door to practical strategies for navigating emotional conversations, relying on structure rather than memorization, and building communication habits that actually stick. Because becoming a better communicator isn’t about getting it perfect — it’s about making small, intentional choices every day.

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• Think Fast Talk Smart Learning Community

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Chapters:

• (00:00) - Introduction
• (02:31) - From Reacting to Responding
• (04:25) - Memorization vs. Spontaneous Speaking
• (09:35) - Growing Vocabulary
• (13:34) - Asking for Better Feedback
• (17:28) - Value of the Learning Community
• (21:51) - Conclusion

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How to communicate who you are online.

You may not think of yourself as a content creator, but in the creator economy, Angèle Christin says we all have to learn how to communicate who we are online.

Christin is an associate professor of communications at Stanford University and a senior fellow at the Stanford Institute for Human-Centered AI. According to her, “we are all content creators now.” We may not all be influencers or podcast hosts, but “We are all putting content out there and creating a public persona,” says Christin. In the digital age, “that plays an increasingly important role in hiring, promotions, and of course, getting laid off.”

In this episode of Think Fast, Talk Smart, Christin and host Matt Abrahams explore how to navigate the creator economy — whether as a full-time influencer or a professional managing your online presence. From building on your area of expertise to understanding the trade-offs between short-term hype and long-term trust, Christin explains what it takes to show up online without losing yourself in the algorithm.

Episode Reference Links:

• Angèle Christin
• Ep.225 Speaking Fluent Internet: How Algorithms Are Changing the Way We Speak

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Chapters:

• (00:00) - Introduction
• (02:36) - Why Metrics Reward Drama
• (06:03) - Building A Professional Online Presence
• (10:20) - What Makes A Good Story?
• (14:09) - The Reality Of Creator Work
• (18:38) - The Final Three Question
• (21:48) - Conclusion

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