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  • Summer Break: Still Comfy? A League of Their Own

    Summer Break: Still Comfy? A League of Their Own
    Jul 10 2025
    To All the Men I’ve Tolerated Before is on a summer vacay! In the meantime, we will be posting episodes of our livestream collaboration with Pop Culture Makes Me Jealous. Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected show, we then discuss how the show holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1992 movie A League of Their Own, starring Gina Davis and Tom Hanks. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, can't their be a little crying in baseball?


    You can watch Still Comfy? on our Instagram at menivetoleratedpod or our YouTube Channel at https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PL1PX0HKfxH3Ge2GYTIh8g5ElcUJY42UFf.


    While we’re on summer vacation, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. We would also love for you to join us on Patreon for bonus content and early access to ad-free episodes. Our Patreon can be found at https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod. All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.
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    1 h et 41 min
  • Summer Break: 100 First Online Dates

    Summer Break: 100 First Online Dates
    Jul 3 2025
    Natalie is joined by voice actress Maria Pendolino to talk about her 97 first online dates and how it speaks to our current culture. The women discuss dating trends and how they fit within those trends whether it be with their big personalities, their looks, or their expectations for their dates. They touch on how their strategies for online dating have changed through their experiences and how at the end of it all, they’re always going to choose to be themselves and make sure they are getting what they want too. Join in for the laughs, the trials, and the lessons of all those dating apps and swiping the two women have done over the years!

    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

    Find Maria on Instagram and Tiktok @mariapendo. Her website is voicebymaria.com.
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    1 h et 13 min
  • Summer Break: Still Comfy? Armageddon

    Summer Break: Still Comfy? Armageddon
    Jun 26 2025
    Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie Armageddon starring Bruce Willis, Ben Affleck, and Liv Tyler. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, could anyone call upon us at anytime to go to space?


    You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the playlist or joining us live on Tuesdays!


    While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

    We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our Patreon feed. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or subscribing to our newsletter.
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    1 h et 6 min
  • Summer Break: Purity Culture and Sex Ed

    Summer Break: Purity Culture and Sex Ed
    Jun 19 2025
    Natalie is joined by sex educator Erica Smith to talk about how our obsession with purity culture affects the quality of sex education we are given. Sex education should be something that is delivered to people without bias and without the idea that virginity and religion should be at the center of your sexual identity. Erica is the creator of the Purity Culture Dropout program that aims to provide support to people who are wanting to de-program from purity culture and take part in sex education that is queer inclusive, safe, and informative. The episode will center around how we became so purity driven when it came to sexuality, the consequences we face when sex is only viewed from the lens of religious morality, and what steps we can be taking to make sure we are talking about sex in ways that everyone has the knowledge to make decisions based in how they actually feel.

    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram!

    https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! We are currently running a free trial on all three tiers! Come join in on the fun!

    All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

    Find Erica:
    Website: https://www.ericasmitheac.com
    Instagram: @ericasmith.sex.ed
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    1 h et 5 min
  • Summer Break: The Parent Trap

    Summer Break: The Parent Trap
    Jun 12 2025
    Still Comfy? is an in-depth look at our favorite comfort shows and movies. After a conversation about the themes presented in the selected movie, we discuss how the movie holds up against our Tolerator and Jelly Pops morals and viewpoints. Enjoy our review of the 1998 movie The Parent Trap starring Lindsay Lohan, Dennis Quaid, and Natasha Richardson. Nat and Jules set out to answer the question, what happens when you don't get to go to summer camp?


    You can watch Still Comfy? By subscribing to the playlist!


    While we’re on holiday, please take an opportunity to follow the show on all social media platforms. All ways to support the show, including our socials, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.

    We would also love for you to join us on Patreon! We have revamped the Patreon to include free content as well as content for our paying Patrons. We are also very excited to have on Patreon the exclusive series Misogyny Meltdown. Currently, the Misogyny Meltdown series is focused on our Misogynist of the Year Award. You can find the free article explaining our nominees on our Patreon feed. Make sure you are eligible to vote by following us on Patreon or subscribing to our newsletter.
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    1 h et 5 min
  • Summer Break: Taylor Swift

    Summer Break: Taylor Swift
    Jun 5 2025
    This Summer Break Replay is in honor of Taylor Swift owning her entire music catalogue.


    f you haven’t heard, Natalie went to the Eras Tour. That means she has been doing a deep dive on her favorite songs from Taylor Swift. Which means that she has also been reflecting on how misogyny plays into the songs she has written and how widespread everyday misogyny is reflected throughout Taylor’s career. Elizabeth Kyle is the perfect Swiftie to help guide Natalie through this conversation. The two women discuss the social dynamics that goes into being a Swiftie, the focus on the men she has had relationships with, and how she has been treated as a professional in the music industry. Between the two of them, they go straight from a Lover to their Midnights Era, and talk about how being aware of how internalized misogyny and widespread cultural misogyny affects people on a larger scale. Topics that are confronted are the way we view success among women creators, to the way we talk about women who have had bad relationships, and how we talk about other women’s bodies and our own bodies. And that’s some real Vigilante Shit.

    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram and https://www.patreon.com/menivetoleratedpod on Patreon for bonus content! All ways to support the show, including our merchandise, can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod.
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    1 h et 31 min
  • Summer Break: Diversity in the Boardgame Industry

    Summer Break: Diversity in the Boardgame Industry
    May 29 2025
    We have a Summer Break Flashback this week! This felt important given all the information I've been seeing on how tariffs will affect indie boardgame publishers.

    Kervin of For Why Games joins Natalie to talk about his experiences advocating for diversity within board game development. He explains the steps and measures he took to create his first game, Allow Me to Mansplain and the ways he intentionally crafted rules and gameplay to foster discussions around the concept of mansplaining. The episode also dives into what is currently taken into consideration when it comes to diversity in game creation and where we need to head next to make sure gaming is a welcoming place for everyone. Natalie and Kervin also share their personal experiences of wanting a safe, diverse community to play games with and what it's like when you’re having a hard time finding it or you’re not being heard when explaining why the current situation isn’t making you feel safe and welcomed.

    Make sure you have subscribed to us on Patreon! (currently running a free trial on all tiers) It is the only place where you can find our new variety series, The Misogyny Meltdown! There will be comedy, creativity, and a lot of melting down in each episode. January covered the Misogynist of the Year award ceremony, February is all about love.

    Follow us at @menivetoleratedpod on Instagram! All ways to support the show can be found at https://linktr.ee/menivetoleratedpod. Join the newsletter so you never miss any update we have on Team Tolerator!

    Find Kervin
    Purchase Allow Me to Mansplain: https://www.forwhygames.com/
    Follow Kervin on Tiktok: @forwhygames.flan
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    1 h et 2 min
  • Summer Break: Women in Historical Film

    Summer Break: Women in Historical Film
    May 22 2025
    Hey Team Tolerator! We are officially on our summer break for 2025 and will be returning with new episodes in the fall. This week, we are giving you a sneak peek of our Misogyny Meltdown series! In this excerpt, Julia Washington and Alrinthea Carter joined us to talk about the women in historical film that just deserved better. You can see the video for this interview, as well as the rest of the fun we had, on Patreon!
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    1 h et 10 min