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Social media isn't just changing how our kids communicate—it's reshaping their entire social development, especially for neurodiverse teens. As algorithms increasingly dictate what content our children consume, many parents feel overwhelmed by this digital landscape they never navigated themselves.

The stakes couldn't be higher. For teens with ADHD and autism, social media creates unique challenges around interpreting social cues, managing hyperfocus tendencies, and regulating emotional responses to online interactions. A single negative comment can feel devastating, while the dopamine hits from likes and shares can create unhealthy attachment patterns.

Yet beyond these risks lie genuine benefits. Many neurodiverse teens find their people online—communities that share their interests and understand their experiences in ways their immediate environment may not. They discover spaces to showcase their creative talents and practice social skills in lower-pressure settings than face-to-face interactions.

This episode dives deep into practical strategies for parents navigating this complex terrain. We explore the "three-question rule" for thoughtful posting, approaches to gradually introducing social media independence, and critical digital literacy skills every teen needs—from spotting scams to understanding the permanence of their digital footprint. We also examine how the viral show "Adolescence" reflects real-world teen struggles and offers conversation starters for families.

The hard truth? Social media is here to stay, and complete avoidance isn't a viable solution. Our challenge as parents is to become better teachers than the algorithms, helping our neurodiverse children develop healthy relationships with technology while protecting their wellbeing. Whether your child is already deep in social media or just approaching that age, the guidance in this episode provides a roadmap for supporting their digital journey with confidence and care. Share this episode with other parents who might need these strategies, and join our community conversation about raising resilient digital natives.

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