Secure Parenting

You open up. You try to get closer. But the more you reach out… the more they pull away. They need space. You need reassurance. And suddenly, what should be a relationship—feels more like a chase. You overthink every message. Every pause. Every “I’m fine” that doesn’t feel fine at all. And deep down, you wonder: “Is it me? Am I too much? Or not enough?” This is what it feels like to live with an anxious attachment style—especially when you're in a relationship with someone emotionally avoidant. The connection feels real… but so does the pain. And the confusion. And the exhaustion.

'The Secure Attachment Style Solution: How Anyone Can Transform Anxious, Avoidant, or Disorganized Attachment Styles and Thrive in Relationships' is your roadmap to understanding and changing the patterns that have held you back from the love and security you deserve.

She loves deeply—and she thinks too much. She loves with her whole heart: with attention, devotion, presence. But while she loves, her mind never stops. She rereads messages, replays conversations, analyzes silences, tone, distance. She wonders if she said too much, asked for too much, was too much. Not because she doesn’t trust—but because she feels everything. And when you feel this much, anxiety finds a way in. The fear of losing. Of ruining something beautiful. Of not being enough—or of being too much. So love, instead of feeling like a refuge, becomes something to monitor.

Unmask the hidden world of attachment styles… and discover the secrets to nurturing meaningful connections and fostering personal growth. Do you often feel like you always seek approval and validation in your relationships… that you tend to be clingy to your partner? Or perhaps you’re the exact opposite – you become distant and withdraw when someone gets too close or intimate with you? Maybe you even experience both which confuses you and your partner – you deeply yearn for love, yet you push them away because you’re afraid they will hurt you.

This transformative guidebook, Disorganized Attachment Detox, is built on proven strategies and powerful tools designed to lead you on a healing journey from disorganized attachment towards secure attachment.

Découvrez-en plus dans ce livre audio, conçu spécialement pour les personnes ayant un style d’attachement évitant-dismissif. Le chercheur en attachement Alex Kingsman propose une liste complète d’exercices aidant les lecteurs à surmonter les défis liés à l’évitement. En tant qu’évitant lui-même, Kingsman comprend les difficultés et l’auto-culpabilisation que beaucoup d’évitants ressentent au quotidien.

In this value-packed "The Anxious Attachment Recovery Workbook," you will uncover science-backed strategies for breaking free from anxious attachment, building secure relationships, and developing lasting emotional resilience—not just in romance but also in friendships, family, and work.

Are you ready to break free? As someone who's traversed the treacherous terrain of attachment theory and boundary setting, I've felt the suffocating weight of insecurity and the fierce desire for autonomy. But through my own journey of suffering and growth, I've unearthed invaluable insights that have reshaped my relationships and my life. Gain a deep understanding of the underlying mechanisms shaping your relational dynamics.

Introducing "Loving an Avoidant Partner," a groundbreaking guide that takes you deep into the enigmatic maze of an avoidant person's inner world like never before. Armed with remarkable insights, you'll decode the guarded secrets and fears of your elusive partner, shattering the barriers that have kept you apart.

Your Mind Catches Every Detail – Except the One That Keeps Sabotaging Your Love Life. Discover why being neurodivergent AND anxiously attached creates relationship challenges others can't understand – and the breakthrough approach that finally makes connection feel safe. For the neurodivergent mind, anxious attachment isn't just relationship insecurity—it's a perfect storm where your brain's unique wiring collides with attachment patterns that traditional relationship advice simply doesn't address.

Wired for Love is an innovative guide to understanding your partner's brain and enjoying a romantic relationship built on love and trust. Synthesizing research findings drawn from neuroscience, attachment theory, and emotion regulation, this audiobook presents 10 guiding principles that can improve any relationship.

Do you crave intimacy but feel overwhelmed when someone gets too close? Are you torn between wanting love and protecting your independence? Do you withdraw when emotions rise, leaving you feeling misunderstood or emotionally drained? Or are you in a relationship with someone who struggles to open up, commit, or show affection? If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone—and the good news is, it doesn’t have to be this way. Avoidant attachment is more common than you think, and while it may feel like an unchangeable part of who you are, it doesn’t have to be your destiny.

From a licensed marriage and family therapist, this empathetic book is the key to achieving secure relationships with your loved ones and breaking away from painful patterns. Our individual attachment style plays a crucial role in the quality of our relationships and is often the strongest...

Do you feel insecure, jealous, or anxious in your relationships? Do you have a deep fear that people will abandon you? Have you stayed in a toxic situation because you didn't believe you deserved better? If so, you may have an anxious attachment style—a way of coping with difficult situations or emotions that is often rooted in an adverse childhood experience (ACE), such as neglect or abuse. Fortunately, there are ways to heal this anxious attachment, and even transform it into an earned secure attachment.

Attachment parenting is the beloved, yet often misunderstood, philosophy of ensuring your children grow up with their needs completely fulfilled. Modern Attachment Parenting gives you all the information you need to choose your own AP adventure. Modern Attachment Parenting doesn't overload you with parenting rules, but rather empowers you with information. It is an evolution of the science, free of any guilt, misgivings, or judgment on your formal parental role, and an open philosophy of finding the version right for you - an a la carte buffet of AP.

Struggling to connect with your child or help your teen navigate their emotions? This two-part guide provides the proven strategies you need to build a strong parent-child bond and give your teen the emotional tools they need to succeed.

Whether you are stuck in the distress of life, or appear like nothing’s wrong, you may have faced trauma, or incredible stress, or suffocating fear. Maybe you wonder whether those emotions, memories, and experiences are blocking you from being as fulfilled and happy as you could be. Maybe you’re stuck in patterns that simply no longer work for you. What if you could change it all? What if you could feel safe and solid and secure inside your own body? What if your life could be peaceful and centered and fulfilled?

Do you long to feel safe, calm, and truly loved — instead of trapped in fear, overthinking, and self-doubt? Living with anxious attachment can feel like being caught in a storm that never ends. You crave closeness yet fear rejection. You give your all but still question if you’re enough. This powerful 3-in-1 audiobook bundle brings together CBT, DBT, and ACT Therapy to help you quiet your anxious mind, regulate emotions, and finally build the secure, lasting love you deserve.

Moths that get too close to the light burn their wings. Men and women who become too attached to their partners tear their relationships apart. Your relationship doesn't have to end in heartache like so many others.

Transform your avoidance into lasting affection in just 30 days – without losing your independence. Do you struggle to connect emotionally with others, fearing vulnerability and deeper intimacy? Are you constantly battling the urge to withdraw from relationships to protect yourself from potential pain? Do you yearn for healthy, secure relationships but don’t know where to start? If you nodded your head to any of these questions, know that you’re not alone.