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How to Communicate Effectively to Live a Better Life
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Michael Chad Hoeppner
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Michael Chad Hoeppner
About this listen
Communicate with confidence and improve your presentation skills with this essential guide–because delivery matters.
Michael Chad Hoeppner has coached presidential candidates, prominent CEOs, and Ivy League deans on their communication skills. Now, he shares his wide‑ranging knowledge in Don't Say Um.
Hoeppner has created an entirely new approach to communication training, providing physical exercises to quickly improve speaking. With simple-to-master exercises, Don’t Say Um is an essential tool for improving your speech.
Don't Say Um challenges our preconceived notions of good speaking techniques and offers powerful tools to become master communicators.
PLEASE NOTE: When you purchase this title, the accompanying PDF will be available in your Audible Library along with the audio.
©2025 Michael Chad Hoeppner (P)2025 Hachette GoYou may also enjoy...
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“Incorporating Michael Chad Hoeppner's techniques into my personal and professional life is the single best investment I've made in myself since grad school. Don't Say Um will make you a better speaker, improve your relationships, and give you confidence to take on the world.”—Cassandra Freeman, actor