Don't buy this one... buy the newer version!

This older edition contains a chapter that is revised in the 20th edition. Buy this version only if you're done with the new version and are curious about the old chapter on anger.

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Really helped me understand relationships

I was recommended this book to better help me understand why we search for the partners that we do. It's brought some things to light for me and I couldn't be happier that I bought it. It's ideals of how to deal with past anger is very helpful as I think no one should have to deal with holding onto painful past experiences. It can be draining mentally and emotionally, letting go is a freeing experience and this book has definitely helped me get there. Thank you Harville Hendrix

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Wow! Must read!

if you're married and you haven't read this book you haven't found out what marriage is all about.

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Good Audible But Skips a-lot

The book its self is a good book but i sometimes listened and try to follow along in the book and it realy skips alot of the meat of the book.

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a hard journey with hope

Beautifully written. Deep understanding of everyone's childhood psychological Wounds. This book provides the enlightment and the process to help each other in a Relationship. I found it to be extremely insightful

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Insightful and helpful

This is the abridged version of the full book. It's sort of a birdseye view of all the topics covered in the full version. It's worth the time to listen.

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There's a reason this work is a #1 best seller

revolutionary revelations. In this Short abridged version of the actual 12 hour work, Hendrix hits Home on his key virtually confirmed theories on how and why love relationships can work out (and why and how often they don't ). This is a must read. Everything you need to know to succeed in love and marriage is in this book. You'll have to pause and rewind and ponder this content . It's not a light quick read. toward the end (chap 14 on) you'll need to sink your teeth into it and roll up your sleeves. twice through should be your minimum. I'm going for thirds shortly, but moving up to the full version, for the Rest of the story.

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A must read for every human in a relationship

If you are struggling with conflict with your intimate partner, this will help you understand the fundamental communication errors that must he corrected in order to have healthy relationships.

great book

This book made me take some notes that applied in my life. I realky enjoyed the exercises that were presented in the book

Extremely useful text!! Insight building!!

Found it helpful to use not only in my work as an attachment focused mental health clinician but also as a reflective experience in my own personal life. I think every family should own a copy!