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Getting the Love You Want

Written by: Harville Hendrix Ph.D
Narrated by: Harville Hendrix Ph.D
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In Getting the Love You Want, Dr. Harville Hendrix presents the relationship skills that have already helped hundreds of thousands of couples to replace confrontation and criticism with a healing process of mutual growth and support. This extraordinarily practical guide describes the revolutionary technique of IMAGO Relationship Therapy, which combines a number of disciplines—including the behavioral sciences, depth psychology, cognitive therapy, and Gestalt therapy, among others—to create a program to resolve conflict and renew communication and passion.

Dr. Hendrix describes the three stages of intimate relationships, provides illustrative case studies, and gives recommendations to help couples create a stronger bond between them. Step by step, he offers advice on how to communicate with greater accuracy and sensitivity, how to let go of self-defeating behaviors, and how to focus energy on meeting each partner’s needs. With Getting the Love You Want, couples in any stage of a relationship can resolve their conflicts and achieve mutual emotional satisfaction.

©1988 Harville Hendrix (P)2004 Macmillan Audio

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Why isn’t this content taught in school?

Knowing your roots and how they *can* impact your experience of the world is pivotal in defining the self. My decision, feelings and behaviours might have been much easier to understand (and communicate to my spouse) if I had read this in my 20’s. Instead we spent a decade butting heads and unable to appreciate each other’s perspectives of the world.
If you have human relationships, lol, read this book.

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Great Listen, booking a workshop now!

This is a great book and a good start for anyone also need to figure out some of the reasons why they are the way they are towards their partner, we are booking in for one of the workshops immediately following reading this

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